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Love and Sex with Robots: The Evolution of Human-Robot Relationships Hardcover – November 6, 2007

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In this wide-ranging examination of the emotional and physical relations between humans and the inanimate objects of their desire, AI guru Levy (Robots Unlimited) first addresses the question of love with robots, and moves on to consider the mechanics of actually having sex with them. In order to put the reader at ease with the possibility of human-robot love, Levy compares the phenomenon to the ways in which humans fall in love with each other, their pets, and even their motorcycles. From there, Levy argues, it is a short emotional step to the affection people can be expected to display towards robots. Some readers may be turned off by Levy's fairly graphic descriptions of the mechanics of having sex with robots, and may wonder why Levy chose not to include recent research on the human genome that could one day lead to replacing human "parts," potentially making us more robot-like ourselves. Though Levy's topic is undeniably on the fringe, it will appeal to readers keen on pondering futuristic scenarios.
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Fascinating. It raises important questions about the future of robots…and what our interactions with them might teach us about ourselves. --New Scientist

[Levy] comes up with so many rational, scientific, and sociologically sound arguments that the deeper you get into the book, the more difficult it becomes to dismiss his thesis. --Chicago Sun-Times --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 352 pages
  • Publisher: Harper (November 6, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0061359750
  • ISBN-13: 978-0061359750
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 1.2 x 9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (36 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #471,289 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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By Robert Moore HALL OF FAMETOP 500 REVIEWERVINE VOICE on April 13, 2009
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David Levy's book is divided into two and unequal parts, both in length and in interest. Most readers, I would imagine, if told that a book was divided into a longer section about future emotional relations between humans and robots and a shorter section on sex with robots would guess that the more interesting would be the latter. For me, at least, the opposite was the case. I was barely able to stay awake while reading the sex chapters, while I found the chapters dealing with potential emotional connections with robots to be fascinating. Levy makes, I believe, a convincing case that robots will play an increasingly important and essential role in human social life. If nothing else, the comparison between pets and robots is telling. There is no question that millions of humans treat pet animals as friends and have strong emotional connections with them. That we will feel similar ties to robots when the A.I. has developed to an extent to make genuine interaction possible seems to me to be impossible to debate. Or, rather, some may debate it, but many others will nonetheless employ robots as companions or more.

Much of the book is dedicated to detailing the reasons why humans and robots will before the end of the 21st century - indeed, Levy believes it will be around the midpoint of the century - humans will fall in love with and have sex with robots. He addresses issues such as the grounds for attachment, the technological hurdles that remain to be overcome, and the status of work on artificial intelligence. The sex portion of the book is a rather dull catalog of the use of inanimate objects to achieve sexual climax.
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Before purchasing this book, I read some of the mixed reviews on amazon.com, so I didn't have particularly high expectations going in. At the same time, I remained hopeful that there would be something of interest in this book. However, as I suspected, and as the reviewers already stated, this book was a little disappointing.

Basically what the author does is spend the whole book trying to build a case as to why it could be possible that people will eventually have sex and develop relationships with robots. Chapter by chapter, he tries to assemble the different pieces of the argument: humans have relationships with pets... humans have relationships with AI robots and computer simulations such as Tamagotchi, Furby, AIBO, and KISMET... humans use machines (e.g., vibrators) and sex dolls for sexual pleasure... attitudes toward various sexual practices (e.g., masturbation, fornication, homosexuality) have evolved over the years. Put it all together now: in the future, there's a good chance people could develop relationships and have sex with robots, and we'll be cool with that.

As other reviewers already stated, he does not raise any ethical questions about whether this is a good idea or whether this is where the human race should really be headed. It seems that these types of questions were beyond the scope of this book. But even for what the book is, I kept waiting for it to get better, but it never really did.

If you're looking for better books about the interaction between humans and computers/robots, you're better off reading "Alone Together" by Sherry Turkle or "The Shallows" by Nicholas Carr.
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Levy is correct in asserting the technology for mechanized romance was not long in coming when he wrote this book; in 2015, and having been personally involved with at least 3 of the technologies which go into making these sort of robots, I can tell you it's already here---witness the creations of not only Professor Hiroshi Ishuguro (mentioned in the book), but also Le Trung's Project Aiko and the dancing creation of artist Jordan Wolfson. All of these are female robots designed by men.

At this point in time, I believe the major hurdle to the mechanization of romance is the unwillingness of manufacturers to be accused of playing God or creating Frankenstein monsters.

Mechanization of things like warfare, agriculture, transportation, etc are fine, but there's something visceral about the mechanization of romance that feels like a punch in the gut to most of us (unless we've been too lonely too long).

What the author does NOT discuss is the social impact of mechanized romance. Disruptive? Yes. Misogynistic? You bet! It's clear enough to me that Levy doesn't discuss such topics in his book because he didn't want to come off sounding sexist, getting sued, or both.

Not discussed is how mechanized romance would be almost all positive for lonely single men, whether for genuine love (for example, asexual hetero men who want to remain in the closet) or just mindless sex (yes, I'm talking to all of you pleasure junkies out there), the 10% or so of men who want to become fathers being the only men who'd really lose out. Imagine that---men tired of years or decades of loneliness and an unbroken string of rejections could simply buy a synthetic soulmate with all the traits they desire, a fembot who'd keep them happy for life.
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