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Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder: Understanding and Helping Your Partner (The New Harbinger Loving Someone Series) Paperback – January 2, 2012
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"Resources for individuals with bipolar disorder are few and far between, but those for the people who care for them are even scarcer. Julie A. Fast and John D. Preston have put together a valuable resource for families and caregivers of people with bipolar disorder. Taking a holistic perspective, these authors offer advice that will help readers help their loved ones with bipolar disorder. More importantly, this book encourages and helps readers to take good care of themselves and their relationships."
—Sheri Van Dijk, MSW, RSW, psychotherapist and author of The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook for Bipolar Disorder, The Bipolar Workbook for Teens, and other books
"I am truly impressed with this wonderful book. I will have it in my office and recommend it to patients’ partners as a matter of course as they go through the journey with this illness."
—Steven Juergens, MD
"More than an education about bipolar disorder, this is a welcome to the journey, in the kindest language you will find in any such book. Open to any page and you will notice the tone and wisdom of people who’ve obviously been there. It’s a challenge to maintain a relationship with someone who has this illness. You’d do well to have a guide, and you will not find any better than Julie A. Fast and John D. Preston. Nor will you find any clearer advice than that which the authors have laid out. Their book is remarkably emotionally intelligent and a privilege to read."
—James Phelps, MD, mood disorders specialist at Samaritan Mental Health in Corvallis, OR, and author of Why Am I Still Depressed?
"This book will help the loved ones of people living with bipolar disorder to better understand its challenges. It provides clear, concrete ways of giving the support needed to keep their loved ones healthy and get them through the rough spots."
—Ruth White, PhD, MPH, MSW, associate professor of social work at Seattle University and author of Bipolar 101
"Julie A. Fast and John D. Preston have put together an impressive second-edition guide for couples struggling with the reality of bipolar disorder. They strive to decouple the diagnosis from the individual living with it. This premise lays the groundwork for their discussion of compassionate, non-blaming communication combined with effective couples-based solutions for those striving to work through the interpersonal complexities of a relationship impacted by bipolar disorder. Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder really is a must-read for anyone who does."
—Russ Federman, PhD, ABPP, director of counseling and psychological services at the University of Virginia and author of Facing Bipolar
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If you experience BP, giving this book to someone who loves you wll do more than reading any book on handling BP yourself. Especially early after the diagnosis, outside observation and input from someone supportive who knows you well is the best start to treatment. This book gives them the tools they need.
It's a frank book. It emphasizes taking care of yourself so you can be there for the BP partner (or parent/child/best friend/etc.). It has a section on when to quit the relationship. It can be scary to hand that to a loved one.
In addition to excellent descriptions of the BP experience (suited to the partner, as opposed to the bulk of books which can assume the reader has a reference experience), the book has good, practical advice. I found the advice around picking times *not* to discuss BP especially helpful; it gives time to preserve the relationship and remember that not everything in life revolves around a diagnosis for a disease you've probably been living with for years anyway.
Other bits of advice include ways for a couple to track mood trends together, to detect triggers, and to communicate when the non-BP partner detects a mood shift. Some of the advice doesn't seem to be in any other book, perhaps because it's the only one I know of that assumes two equal partners (as opposed to the many parent/child support books).
Highly recommended. Worth a read regardless of your relationships.
Tl;Dr: if you only read one book on bipolar disorder as family or friend of someone with bipolar disorder, make it this one. And then follow up with Welcome to the Jungle because it will make you laugh which you desperately need.
It has useful chapters about partners who deny the diagnosis, and who don't/won't take medication. The fundamental message is that the ill person has to take charge of the illness, be self responsible and do everything they can to recover as much as possible, because if they don't the marriage will founder. The sad reality is that over 90% of marriages break up.