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How To Make Your First BDSM Scene Amazing: For Dominant Women ('How To' Femdom Guide) Paperback – December 8, 2017


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Practical steps that will help you stride into your first BDSM play session with kick-ass confidenceThis book is for new dominant women who are anticipating their first BDSM scene. It's an exciting time, but it can also be nerve wracking because no matter what, first times can be scary, and there isn't a lot of really practical advice out there to help.When I was new, I just wanted someone to tell me 'how to do it', to give me concrete advice and help, so I had a starting point from which to make my way. This is that 'how to'.This short, sharp guide describes 13 easy steps you can take to help you make your first BDSM scene amazing. It's designed to take some of the pressure off (yes, that pressure you are putting on yourself) with practical, actionable steps that will help you feel more confident and kick-ass going into your first scene.It covers how to:
  • Choose what activities to do in your scene
  • Put together the flow
  • Start and end well
  • Look after your submissive in scene
  • Build your confidence and manage your nerves before and during play
  • Handle it when something doesn't work
  • Leave your submissive wanting more
  • Do aftercare
It also includes a worked example of how I would use these steps to plan my own BDSM scene so you can see what it looks like in practice.BONUS: FREE BDSM Scene Planner: This planner will help you use the information in this guide to plan and run your scene.
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