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3.0 out of 5 starsTHE MAN WITH THE OVERLARGE HEART
Byjosephine briggson June 2, 2017
This is a feel good book. It goes back and forth in time. Ove's parents both die when he is quite young. He was sixteen when his father died, Mom was long gone. He is an only child, not used to being around many people. His father was very quiet. Ove was a quiet boy who liked math, other subjects in school not at all. He liked working with his hands, loved to work and was great in fixing things. He was happy to drop out of school, he was tired of it, felt he was wasting his time. He married a sweet girl, Sonya, who was so much different than he was. She was studying to become a teacher, loved books and the arts. I was surprised that the two married, him so dour, her so full of life and joy.
The two bought a row house in a section that kept growing and growing, characters moving in and out. This couple lived in the same house for forty years. Ove is suspicious of all of them, young people knew little about life, older folks were better at living and life, but not all. Ove had a friend his own age who he disapproved of. Rune bought a German made car while Ove bought a Saab. Rune wasn't very patriotic Ove thought. These two men were so much alike, stiff necked, the reason the two had so many arguments and didn't speak for a long time. The men couldn't remember why they were mad.
Then Sonya, the love of Ove's live dies, his reason for living is gone. This part of the book is depressing. Other sections are laughable. Ove goes to the cemetery, brings a chair which he places in front of the tomb and talks to his dead wife. He wants to join her. Friend, Rune, has Alzheimers and is scheduled to be taken to a home. His wife is distraught.
Then Ove meets a family who moves into his neighborhood. Man, Iranian wife, two little girls. Then a street cat adopts him. Cats are so independent and choosy. which surprises Ove. He gets to like the little girls. He is not used to children. Ove and Sonya had none. Then Ove relizes he needs to keep on living. he has too much to do, needs to be there for folks, encourage the young, help the elderly. He is fifty nine when the book begins and feels he is too old to be around.
Of the three Backman books I have read my favorite is "Marie-Britt Was Here." Ove's book is depressing in parts and Ove, with his fussing about things gove on my nerves. L before Ove spells love. I like "Britt-MarieWas Here," much better than this book. She is a real and endearing character.