As a fan of comedy and comedians, I had some mix of reservation and interest going into this show. I watched on the glowing recommendation of an online personality I listen to often, but I knew very little going in.
The apprehension I initially felt has proven to be well-founded. When I say I'm a fan of comedy and comedians, I don't just mean I like to laugh. Comedians, as a group of people, tend to be a fairly tight-knit dysfunctional family of very flawed people who respect the drudgery their colleagues have had to deal with. I listen to several comedians' podcasts and radio shows, not to hear their comedy--in fact quite often their podcasts aren't what one would consider comedy at all--but rather to hear their passion and their stories. They're interesting people. And one thing that I've heard time and time again from comedians over the years is that movies and shows about stand-up comedians that do not star actual, experienced stand-up comedians are horribly cringe-inducing. They say there's something about the feigned "delivery" of a person who has rehearsed not only the joke as written, but their reaction to the crowd, whose reaction has also been scripted...you can't really capture the organic flow of the give-and-take of a comedy set...the timing, the genuine-yet-subtle buoying of the comedian's energy when a joke lands just right, the quiet panic as a performer tries to rewrite his whole act when he feels like the audience hasn't bought his starting premise. To hear comedians talk about it, this very symbiosis is the whole thing. It's everything.
I was disappointed, after seeing the main character of the show get on stage and perform a couple of times, to see just how right the comedians were. When you script and block and rehearse and edit and sound design a comedy routine as delivered by someone who has nothing on the line, you're left with more of a "reenactment" of comedy--something that feels as cheap and real as the badly-yet-maybe-intentionally-so-produced reenactments on "Rescue 911" type shows. It's a disappointment to see, because the enjoyment of the character and the story arc is dependent on believing that this person is so naturally funny, so gifted, that a career in stand-up was inevitable. Anyone can rehearse a particular type of routine enough to have a passable one-off performance. But Brosnahan's character is no more believable as a natural-born comedian than formerTexas Governor Rick Perry is as a natural-born dancer . Simply learning a dance by rote and repetition over several grueling sessions with a professional dancer/instructor on DWTS doesn't make Rick Perry a dancer. It makes him a novelty, which is its own brand of entertainment. But when your whole premise relies on buying the character's genuine natural calling, it falls short.
Aside from that, which is enough to make me abandon the show after giving it about a half season try, I have to agree with what several other reviewers have said: the first 2/3 of the first episode is painful to watch in nearly every way imaginable. The opening monologue at the wedding was horrid, not just because of the aforementioned artificiality of it, but because the jokes and delivery were so try-hard and forced, I would genuinely feel uneasy and bothered by anyone hamming it up that hard at any social event--much less her own wedding. If you were that into yourself, it would be no surprise to anyone to learn later that you supposedly had a "comedic genius" inside just screaming to be let loose--you'd be shouting it at every stranger on the street, because that monologue could only have been delivered by a seriously obnoxious narcissist.
Though I agree that the first episode got better toward the end (until the cringe-y stand-up set and the gratuitous nudity, as others have mentioned), I also need to point out that the overwrought "Jewish Family craziness" tropes are absolutely exhausting. I have no first-hand knowledge of the finer points that some reviewers have pointed out regarding "no Jew would ever do this on that day, would know this about that person, would say this about that situation in this time, etc..." But what I do know is that the family dynamic seems to be whipped up into a caricature-like froth that gets agitated too often to let it breathe for a minute. Is it possible that Jewish families are really like this? I have my doubts that it is consistently this extreme, but if it is, I felt a little "left out" by it, thinking that only someone who has lived in a very similar situation would truly be able to relate enough to enjoy the cathartic experience of "YES. THIS is the madness of my family!" Perhaps to someone who is closer to that, it's enjoyable. For me, it simply felt like parody.
The one performance that cut through the stereotypical noise for me was Tony Shalhoub, with a darker angst and more bite than I'm familiar with in the world of the "Crazy Jewish Family" tropes. His performance would seem singular and sharp against any family dynamic in any time or setting. It's quite literally a standout performance, as his portrayal of Abe is brooding, stern, and yet somehow, in his unapproachability, he is utterly believable as someone whose respect people would yearn for. Honorable mention goes to Kevin Pollack--a real stand-up, incidentally--who does a fine job as a much more predictable "hard-nosed self-made Jewish New York seamster caught between the old world and the new" character. There's a depth of character built into Moishe's character archetype that is laid on a little thick in his introduction, but that hopefully he "earns" through the course of the series. Unfortunately, I won't be sticking around to watch it.
A last word about the star of the show, Rachel Brosnahan: I'm not that familiar with her work. She is adorable, and I think fully capable of carrying a show like this. I just don't care for her character. That's not to take nothing away from her as an actress or a person, or even her performance in the role. Even my criticism of the comedy bits she performs isn't about her so much as it is about the act itself of "simulating" comedy. She seems to have decent chops as an actress, and I look forward to seeing more of her in the future, hopefully in roles I can settle in with a little more comfortably.