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Master/slave Relations: Solutions 402, Living in Harmony Paperback – 2008
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"Warlight" by Michael Ondaatje
A dramatic coming-of-age story set in the decade after World War II, "Warlight" is the mesmerizing new novel from the best-selling author of "The English Patient." Learn more
Itâs easier to live in harmony when you know yourself and the person youâre living with. Not âknowâ as in, âWhy, hi, Iâm Bob, glad to know you, want to live with me?â But more like âknowâ as in youâve spent quality time and effort to figure out how you and your partner think (process information) and react to a wide range of (often unobvious) challenges. Most of this book offers things to think/talk about that may not have occurred to you. Thatâs because weâre usually blind to the ways weâve been brought up; we donât often think about how we think and we donât often challenge our own beliefs. Friction arises from these areas of invisibility. Once the veil is lifted, and once you realize how youâve been controlled and influenced by your personal upbringing, youâre in the enviable position of being empowered to choose to stay that way or to change. All change will affect your relationship. These changes, themselves, may well improve your relationship(s) to the point that more heavy-duty âproblem-solvingâ techniques are unneeded. In my view, itâs so important for you try on your new self (and your new understanding of your partner) that the serious discussion of actual issue-solving strategies doesnât even begin until Chapter Seven; if your concerns and upsets hang on to you through Chapter Six, we throw the kitchen sink at them in the final two chapters.