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Mate: Become the Man Women Want Hardcover – September 15, 2015

by Tucker Max (Author), Geoffrey Miller (Author), Nils Parker (Contributor)

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The #1 bestselling pioneer of "fratire" and a leading evolutionary psychologist team up to create the dating book for guys

Whether they conducted their research in life or in the lab, experts Tucker Max and Dr. Geoffrey Miller have spent the last 20+ years learning what women really want from their men, why they want it, and how men can deliver those qualities.

The short answer: become the best version of yourself possible, then show it off. It sounds simple, but it's not. If it were, Tinder would just be the stuff you use to start a fire. Becoming your best self requires honesty, self-awareness, hard work and a little help.

Through their website and podcasts, Max and Miller have already helped over one million guys take their first steps toward Ms. Right. They have collected all of their findings in Mate, an evidence-driven, seriously funny playbook that will teach you to become a more sexually attractive and romantically successful man, the right way:

- No "seduction techniques"
- No moralizing
- No bullshit

Just honest, straightforward talk about the most ethical, effective way to pursue the win-win relationships you want with the women who are best for you.

Much of what they've discovered will surprise you, some of it will not, but all of it is important and often misunderstood. So listen up, and stop being stupid!

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"Every single page has interesting information. A great resource."―Dr. Drew Pinsky, host of the Loveline radio show and Dr. Drew On Call on HLN

"The most unexpected book of the year: World-famous evolutionary psychologist meets world-famous drunken asshole. The result: A sober, solid, necessary, and authoritative guide not just to dating, but to becoming a better man."―Neil Strauss, author of New York Times bestseller The Game and The Truth

"I wish I could teleport a copy of Mate back in time and give it to my 13-year-old self, and then instruct him to read it once a year for the next decade."―Jake Seliger, author and founder of The Story's Story

"From the very beginning, this book plays it straight. It's about becoming a better person and creating positive, fulfilling relationships. This isn't a book with a predatory, pickup artist mindset."―Aubrey Marcus, founder of Onnit Fitness and the Aubrey Marcus Podcast

"A fascinating look at mating and dating from the perspective of a guy who gained fame for doing the former.... Miller's academic influence gives it some much needed credibility."―Adam Kovac, AskMen.com

About the Author

Tucker Max is the author of I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell, which was a #1 New York Times bestseller and has over 2 million copies in print worldwide, and Assholes Finish First and Hilarity Ensues, which both have over a million copies in print worldwide.

Geoffrey Miller, Ph.D., is a tenured professor of evolutionary psychology at University of New Mexico, and the author of The Mating Mind and Spent.

Hardcover: 384 pages
Publisher: Little, Brown and Company (September 15, 2015)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0316375365
ISBN-13: 978-0316375368
Product Dimensions: 6.2 x 1.2 x 9.5 inches
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Average Customer Review: 120 customer reviews
Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #31,937 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #18 in Books > Self-Help > Relationships > Mate Seeking
- #39 in Books > Politics & Social Sciences > Social Sciences > Gender Studies > Men
- #62 in Books > Self-Help > Relationships > Dating

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Super informational resource that has led me to more success

ByAmazon Customeron January 2, 2017

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This book is a great resource for learning all things revolving around interacting with and dating women. It's also fantastic for learning how to become a better man in general, as all the things that make you more attractive to women are things that will improve your life anyway. This book is great for giving you direction on that sort of thing.

Between Tucker and Geoffrey, you get the street smarts and the academic smarts. They complement each other very well, especially if you listen to the Mating Grounds podcast. You also get a sense that there is more than one way to be attractive to women because it's not about turning into a Tucker Max, or James Bond type. There's foundational principles that the book will explain to you and then you can learn how to apply that to your own personality and style to figure out how to attract the type of women you are attracted to.

Another thing I love is that this book doesn't feel sleazy at all. Respecting women, not treating them like they're all the same, and understanding their perspective when it comes to dating are all part of becoming more successful with women, and are just important to being a well-adjusted member in today's society. I feel like I can talk to anyone about this book and the things I learned in it, and those in themselves have become really great conversations with women because everyone loves to talk about their dating experiences and understanding how the opposite sex behaves!

Apart from just being a good book, it has had good results for me. I started reading this book two or three months ago. Since then, i've improved myself enough so that women get good first impressions of me. I'll catch more women staring at me when I look at them. I try not to overestimate how interested a woman is, but that never used to happen to me before, so I take it as progress. My female friends are more inclined to hang out with me one on one, all my female friendships have gotten much better in general. I get along a lot better with cashiers and baristas at places I frequent. One barista I know even flips out when I come in now, she's so excited to see me and talk to me. Women initiate physical contact more, one of my female friends wouldn't stop trying to hold my hands one night, and I've known her for a few years without anything like that happening. Finally, the reason I finally wanted to write a review for this book is that I went to a party a few nights ago and three different girls kissed me. Before that night, I'd only kissed two girls in my life, and now in a single night I got more action than I had ever previously. I'd say things are working out, and it's only been a few months of working on my life.

I still have a long way to go! There are many things I want to change but it's crazy. If a short, not great looking guy can get this done in a few months, you can probably experience the same and more. My dating life feels more like a fun, interesting journey now than a source of frustration driven by an intense fear of being alone.

Get the book and definitely listen to the podcast too. Worst comes to worst, you've accidentally become a way better person with much more direction in your life. Oops.

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Lots of great stuff here!

ByAmazon Customeron January 30, 2017

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Was expecting this book to be cheesy. (Maybe it's the cover) But instead I was surprised by all the research and careful consideration that went into this book. It's not a pickup book. It's a book on how to be a better man. And boy, does it do that job well. Pick this one up!

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... me some very interesting insights into what dating is like for women

BySam Spragueon September 27, 2016

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this book gave me some very interesting insights into what dating is like for women, what kind of things they have to deal with and what they are looking for

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Good Education for Guys!

ByTimon July 19, 2017

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Excellent advice! Leaving you to crave even more! It felt like someone was looking out for the nice guys that can't figure out why they seem unwanted. This kind of stuff is not taught to young men in school. So it's helpful to those who find women confusing. I believe this book helps clear up some of those confusing behaviors.

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I found the information very useful. I just became single and need to dip ...

ByAmazon Customeron August 12, 2016

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I found the information very useful. I just became single and need to dip my toes in the water after being in a relationship for 4 year. It is an entertaining read and has a lot of humor.

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Really well written and its advice is scientifically based as ...

ByThiagoon April 30, 2017

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Really well written and its advice is scientifically based as well. The goofy cover image does not do it justice.

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Essential guide to men

ByKindle Customeron August 17, 2016

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This book is really interesting, as it lays the ground to disregard all of mens stupid perceptions about women and mating. Really deserves a read.

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Outstanding read! It was so informative for me that ...

ByBgoodon July 22, 2016

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Outstanding read! It was so informative for me that I read it twice. The chapter on confidence and how to talk to women are insightful and immediately helpful. Don't forget to check out the pod casts these guys have. More related info there too.

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Published 12 days ago by bradojazz

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Published 16 days ago by James

Don't waste your money

Don't waste your money. I am already married and not in the dating market. Bought this to review for my sons and would never suggest they read this book.Read more

Published 1 month ago by Duggo

Basically this book tells you that you're not good enough for women as you are

Basically this book tells you that you're not good enough for women as you are. That you need to embark on some ridiculous self-improvement journey in order to be worthy of them.Read more

Published 3 months ago by Sam

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BEST OF TUCKERS SO FAR

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A Real Book About A Real Goal

This book is brilliant. Why didn't they have this book when I was a young man? I could have saved myself 15 years of "learning by doing" (and mostly failing).Read more

Published 6 months ago by T. Elder

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perfect!

Published 6 months ago by Jaime Lara

Acted as a catalyst to do things I had been wanting to do for a long time.

Acted as a catalyst to do things I had been wanting to do for a long time.

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