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"Blair is a rebel, an artist, and it turns out: a writer." —Glennon Doyle, Author of the #1 New York Times Bestseller Untamed and Founder of Together Rising
The first story Selma Blair Beitner ever heard about herself is that she was a mean, mean baby. With her mouth pulled in a perpetual snarl and a head so furry it had to be rubbed to make way for her forehead, Selma spent years living up to her terrible reputation: biting her sisters, lying spontaneously, getting drunk from Passover wine at the age of seven, and behaving dramatically so that she would be the center of attention.
Although Selma went on to become a celebrated Hollywood actress and model, she could never quite shake the periods of darkness that overtook her, the certainty that there was a great mystery at the heart of her life. She often felt like her arms might be on fire, a sensation not unlike electric shocks, and she secretly drank to escape.
Over the course of this beautiful and, at times, devasting memoir, Selma lays bare her addiction to alcohol, her devotion to her brilliant and complicated mother, and the moments she flirted with death. There is brutal violence, passionate love, true friendship, the gift of motherhood, and, finally, the surprising salvation of a multiple sclerosis diagnosis.
In a voice that is powerfully original, fiercely intelligent, and full of hard-won wisdom, Selma Blair’s Mean Baby is a deeply human memoir and a true literary achievement.
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“Elegantly expressed… Evocative… This generous, moving book… roams intuitively, assuredly, between past and present… For years Blair looked to astrologers, mediums, and healers to tell her story… She herself is the right person.”
—Susan Burton, The New York Times
"Blair engages with her MS starkly and movingly...[She] puts it all out there."
—Joanne Kaufman, The Wall Street Journal
“Selma Blair is not afraid to go there when it comes to sharing the ups and downs of her personal life — particularly in the wake of her 2018 Multiple Sclerosis diagnosis — but never before has she shared such shocking details from her past.”
—Kara Warner, People Magazine
“In Mean Baby, an intensely self-aware and cheerfully self-revealing Blair explores the abundant darkness arising from her fraught relationships with her mother, men, alcohol and, ultimately, multiple sclerosis. In different hands, this might make for a more painful read. But throughout her breezy narrative, Blair’s wry humor and her chatty, confiding tone make you feel that you’re spending 300 pages with a smart and, yes, slightly bratty new friend… Blair’s memoir…is funny and frank, a chance to spend time with a brave and big-hearted woman who’s grown up to be not so mean, after all.”
—Jennifer LaRue, The Washington Post
"A beautiful tale about how this person learned to love a new version of herself."
—Rachel Martin, NPR's Morning Edition
“Selma Blair has written a book on survival. Mean Baby, the first book released by the actor, examines the often darker moments of her life. From being violated by an educator during her childhood to seeking refuge in the bottom of alcohol bottles by age 7 and experiencing physical pain that she now believes could have been early signs of MS, she reflects back on it all.”
—Alex Portée, The TODAY Show
“Unlike many celebrity memoirs, which can read as vanity projects, Mean Baby is unflinching: Blair confronts her history of sexual assault, divorce, loneliness, and violence. She strove for honesty, for total transparency…Readers of Mean Baby will also be grateful for Blair’s generosity.”
—Samantha Leach, Bustle
"If you thought you knew Selma Blair, think again.”
"Riveting...As a child, actor Selma Blair was known as a troublemaker, a reputation she carried into adulthood. In Mean Baby, her raw, beautifully written autobiography, Blair recounts her difficult road—involving an addiction to alcohol and a complicated relationship with her mother—and shares how her multiple sclerosis diagnosis four years ago was, in many ways, what ultimately saved her."
—Kristyn Kusek Lewis, Real Simple
“Captivating and unflinching… Raw and real, Mean Baby is Blair's life in words — warts and all. And well worth the time because…it's also funny…uplifting…. After a half-century of searching, [Blair] appears to have found her truth... A dazzling and intense memoir.”
—Mike Householder, Associated Press
"Selma Blair is one mean baby and one mean writer! Blair honestly writes about the uncertainty, messiness, joy, and weirdness of living in a ‘broken’ body. Disability is not always constant or known and Mean Baby depicts this reality with compassion and grace.”
—Alice Wong, editor of Disability Visibility
“Mean Baby, Selma Blair’s brilliant book, demands attention. It grabs you by the collar and says listen to all that I have to say: about love, pain, motherhood, illness, celebrity, and the tidal ferocity that pours through all our lives. Read it and be caught in the voice of one of our luminous stars.”
—Esmé Weijun Wang, best-selling author of The Collected Schizophrenias
“Selma Blair will take every expectation you have and shatter it with this beautiful book. It’s less about illness than it is an effluence of hope, just when you can’t imagine anyone having the spirit to summon it. If you’ve ever felt broken or lost, you’ll find yourself on the pages of this book and maybe see a way to the high road when the author writes, To have been so lucky. The rejects and outsiders have spoken, Selma, and we’ve elected you Queen.”
—Mary-Louise Parker, best-selling author of Dear Mr. You
“Mean Baby is straight-up terrific — bold, intimate, sassy, profound — and a vital reminder that the hectic glitter of the exterior rarely reflects the hard-earned wonder of the interior. So, while you might reach for Mean Baby because of the author’s celebrity, you’ll read into the night for her candor, eye for detail, and stunning prose. In an embarrassment of riches, Selma Blair is as talented a writer as she is an actress.”
—Adrienne Brodeur, best-selling author of Wild Game
"Mean Baby is a fascinating exploration about the power of prophecy, of labels, and of one woman's determination to defy them all. Blair is a rebel, an artist, and it turns out: a writer."
—Glennon Doyle, author of the #1 New York Times best-seller Untamed and Founder of Together Rising
"Throughout Mean Baby, Blair demonstrates a rare level of self-awareness for someone who’s been encased in the celebrity industrial complex for most of her adult life...Blair writes with unflinching, unapologetic honesty about her trauma....[Mean Baby] fills in the gaps we didn’t even know were missing."
—Adam White, The Independent
"Blair revisits in this bold and candid debut her odyssey through addiction, trauma, and illness...Blair, in her typical fashion, finds a way to transform her burden into an opportunity, sharing her experience of living with MS with astounding candor and grace. This compassionate and intelligent work will leave fans floored."
—Publisher's Weekly, starred
“Actress Selma Blair always thought of herself as a sidekick or character actress, never a leading lady, but in this illuminating and authentic memoir, she takes center stage as the teller of her own story... The book's first and third parts, covering her childhood and her MS diagnosis (along with the birth of her son), respectively, are spellbinding… A compelling story… remarkably good writing.”
Blair… candidly recounts the events of her life with refreshing honesty…Hilarious and heart-wrenching in equal measure…. In one moment, she discusses biting Seth MacFarlane on the hand, and in the next, she brings readers to tears while talking about her experiences with grief. Blair writes in blunt, witty prose, making this book hard to put down…Witty, funny, heartbreaking, and beautifully written. This book will be loved by fans of Blair’s work and of her MS advocacy.
—Library Journal, starred
“Painfully lovely...[An] elegiac contemplation of [Blair’s] life through the lens of a chronic illness that only recently made her past clear. For those seeking a similar sense of enlightenment, reading Mean Baby is a worthy and affecting undertaking.”
—Linda M. Castellitto, BookPage
- ASIN : B09JRSVSVV
- Publisher : Knopf (May 17, 2022)
- Publication date : May 17, 2022
- Language : English
- File size : 46813 KB
- Text-to-Speech : Enabled
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Sticky notes : On Kindle Scribe
- Print length : 299 pages
- Page numbers source ISBN : 0349013853
- Best Sellers Rank: #61,986 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
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Reviewed in the United States on December 20, 2022
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At the start of the book Blair explains the title, recalling that her family told her that when she was born her face “looked judgmental, scrutinizing”; and so people called her a mean baby. She goes on to explain her given name, and recount some of her early devious plots and schemes that lived up to the “mean baby” moniker she had been given.
The stories and memories throughout this book are recounted in a somewhat chaotic and random writing style. There is often little cohesion, just recollection of an event and then on to something else. This took me a while to get used to; as it almost seems like Blair is less concerned with entertaining the reader, and more focused on simply collecting all of her memories in one place.
The first part of the book covers Blair's early years. She recalls listening to her maternal grandfather (PopPop) who was a Jewish man that was born in Kiev. She mentions the strong influence of her mother, who had so many rules that she made sure to follow. There are chapters about her father Elliot, becoming Jewish, drinking alcohol as a child, and loving to write. There is also a painful and disturbing account of how she was assaulted by the Dean of her school.
The second part of the book starts with her time at Kalamazoo College, and continues through Blair getting married and divorced. Blair covers major events in her life; writing with the same matter-of-fact style, and jumping around from story to story. She covers her addiction to drinking, and horrible memories of suicide attempts and being raped. It is not all painful memories though, as she also recalls her first experiences in Hollywood, and meeting some great friends.
The last part of the book focuses more on Blair becoming a mother, caring for her family, and coping with her MS diagnosis. There are also painful memories here; but in this section there is also strength, determination and optimism as she recalls her struggles. Her commitment to her family and attempts to give others hope made this section a more enjoyable read for me.
This memoir offers a window into events in Blair's life that shaped her as a person. I do appreciate her candid accounts, and respect her vulnerability in revealing embarrassing or painful parts of her life. Personally, there were parts I had a hard time making it through; sometimes because the writing style was not my favorite, and other times because the content was disturbing. I tend to prefer a bit more humor injected into good storytelling, and there isn't as much of that in this book. So overall this wasn't exactly my favorite memoir that I've read recently, but this is just my personal preference of course. I still admire Blair for having the strength to power through writing this, and including so many details. If you are curious about her past, this book will certainly scratch that itch.
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on December 20, 2022
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Really wanted to love this book but started skipping pages half through the read.
Sorry to say but would not recommend buying this book especially if you watched recent Salma movies/interviews. Too much information has been shared already on other platforms…most stories have been told before/ phrases/descriptions seem too familiar to grab one’s interest.
Reviewed in Mexico 🇲🇽 on August 4, 2022
Lots of great quotes throughout this book.
I'd let her bite me.