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For Men Only, Revised and Updated Edition: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women Hardcover – March 19, 2013
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Praise for For Men Only
“Once again Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn have unearthed a treasure chest of insights that are not only eye-opening, but life-changing.”
—Andy Stanley, senior pastor, North Point, Alpharetta, GA, and bestselling author
“In our weekly couples’ study we read and discussed both For Women Only and For Men Only over the course of several months. They were fascinating and very helpful. The findings in For Men Only about how women think are so enlightening. My wife and I think these books should be required premarital reading!”
—Comedian Jeff Foxworthy
“When we featured Shaunti’s books on Family Life Today, the phone rang off the hook! When Shaunti and Jeff come back on our broadcast, I’m buying some more phones. For Men Only is fresh and relevant –good stuff for every marriage. Read it!”
—Dennis Rainey, President, FamilyLife Today
“If you’ve ever asked, ‘Why does she do, think, or say that?’ then you’ve got to read this book. Shaunti and Jeff not only answer this question, they eliminate the confusion that has kept far too many men from bridging the gender gap.”
—Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, bestselling authors of Love Talk
“Most of my work helping passive Christian men become more like Jesus involves how best to relate to women. I’m going to make sure to keep a case of the Feldhahn’s excellent book handy at all times.”
—Paul Coughlin, author, No More Christian Nice Guy
“Men, we’re supposed to love our wives and live with them in an understanding way. That’s the clear assignment God gives each of us in the Scriptures. So buy this book, read it a couple of times, underline a few key ideas, and then keep it where you can review it regularly. It will help you be the husband God wants you to be.”
—Bob Lepine, cohost, FamilyLife Today
Praise for For Men Only and For Women Only
“Whenever Shaunti Feldhahn appears as a guest on the Focus on the Family radio program, we know that listener response will be enthusiastic. She has a way of connecting with the audience that is unique and compelling. We’re thankful for the unique perspective she provides not only to the Christian community, but to the culture at large.”
—Jim Daly, President, Focus on the Family
“These are the books I pass out to people as the best on the subject. Shaunti Feldhahn has the rare ability to do impeccable research and then make her findings incredibly practical. There is something to learn on every page.”
—Jim Burns, PhD., President, HomeWord, author of Creating an Intimate Marriage
“Whatever Shaunti Feldhahn researches, read. Actually, do more than read…study! Shaunti’s ability to ask the right questions, find the right answers and communicate the results clearly and practically sets her apart as a gifted researcher. Her content guides and changes lives.”
—Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D., best-selling author, Love and Respect
“Shaunti Feldhahn has a unique gift for helping men understand women, and women, men. Her books, For Women Only and For Men Only, are the best I know at providing rich and practical gender understanding that can be used immediately. I highly recommend both all the time!”
—Robert Lewis, author of Raising a Modern-Day Knight; founder, Men's Fraternity
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We truly feel like newlyweds again except without any of the painful mistakes that newlyweds make. My husband said that this book really opened his eyes to so many things.
And, each of us was surprised to know that our inner hurts and struggles were actually very common for our gender! It was actually a big relief.
Pray for yourself, pray for your spouse, pray for your marriage, and read these books together. There is a spectrum for everything so talk about what applies to you and what doesn't.
My husband rarely writes reviews on books so I'll recap what he told me about this book: "Some of the key points in this book I already knew in a vague way (after 20 years of marriage) but didn't know how to apply that to improve myself. And there were a few things that truly shocked me, like finding out you don't know how beautiful you are! Or that you wonder, so frequently, if I regret marrying you! Now I know what your heart longs for and I will give that to you, every day of my life. I will never stop pursuing you!"
Swept off my feet!
I gave this to my fiance after reading it and writing notes in it to let him know what did and didn't apply to me, and he really appreciated it.
If you think your husband/SO will benefit from hearing traditional advice for men like "listen before talking," "she won't enjoy sex without romance," "she has a lot of complicated thoughts in her brain," and "women really struggle with body image, so give her lots of compliments," then this is the book for him!
Fairly Biblical, but if you're a Christian, I might recommend more theology-based approaches like "Intimate Allies".
Seriously guys, read it. Some things may not make sense because men and women ARE different, but this book will help you understand that your lady is not crazy. There is a rhyme and reason for how she is!
One thing I wasn't crazy about is the reference to religion. It's not as heavy-handed as in the companion book about the inner life of men, but I very much believe in separation of church and state when it comes to writing self-help books.
One piece of advice that I’m glad I followed & I’ll pass on to you: read the “For Women Only” book first. Otherwise, you’ll never believe what you read in FMO. FWO elegantly articulates the things men instinctively know, but for whatever reason find difficult to verbalize. Women find this equally true of FMO.
Whether you’re in a relationship or not, this is valuable intel on the fairer sex.
My only regret is that I didn’t run across this book earlier in life. It would have saved me a ton of frustration & heartache.
Top international reviews
The book itself is written by a man, who has had several deep and meaningful conversations with his wife and has gone down the route of unlocking and then explaining how women think. Even women who read the book were surprised when seeing it from a different perspective as the author manages to sum everything up well. For example, he explains the thought processes of men and women by describing them as computers and goes on to describe the different aspects of that, such as men having a screensaver up sometimes, and women having an endless amount of windows, some of which pop up randomly.
A fantastic read, and succeeds where many books fail. It's clear, accessible, sensible and once you've read it, everything fits together and what used to be down-right confusing, becomes common sense, Huzzah!
This is a great book I love the feel of it size and paper and the layout is very easy to read like bite size pionts. The font size is great and there are the occasional survey showing womens answers.
On just having a quick look its touching on issies I definatly need to have explained. Ill actually be able to show my woman (when I'm ready for the relationship) that I really love her and make her feel secure and loved. Great.
Also in the back there's a 'qiick start' guide as if she were a DVD player. Brillant!
I'm currently working on every aspect of my being confidence, communication, attraction and sex. Of all the books so far this format is by FAR the best and not too heavy. Its easy to grasp and should be easy to implement.
Made up I got this it will definatly make a massive difference. I'm excited about getting whome I want making her happy and keeping her. With this book those aims are highly possible.
you just have to get it. The issue of affirming emotions with my spouse is very important and this book helped me understand it and I am reaping the great rewards already.
have already recommended this book to many.
Couldn't not finish this book.
The book is well written, balancing anecdotes , research and statistics.
I am not religious at all, so I just ignored the occasional reference to god.
Ist auch auf Englisch sehr gut zu verstehen.
Ich denke, dass sie jetzt wirklich besser verstehen kann und viele Dinge erheblich besser nach zu vollziehen sind. Man lernt viel darüber was ihr wirklich wichtig ist.