- Hardcover: 208 pages
- Publisher: Multnomah; Revised, Updated ed. edition (March 19, 2013)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 1601424450
- ISBN-13: 978-1601424457
- Product Dimensions: 5.2 x 0.8 x 7.3 inches
- Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
- Average Customer Review: 701 customer reviews
- Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #5,706 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Praise for For Men Only
“Once again Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn have unearthed a treasure chest of insights that are not only eye-opening, but life-changing.”
—Andy Stanley, senior pastor, North Point, Alpharetta, GA, and bestselling author
“In our weekly couples’ study we read and discussed both For Women Only and For Men Only over the course of several months. They were fascinating and very helpful. The findings in For Men Only about how women think are so enlightening. My wife and I think these books should be required premarital reading!”
—Comedian Jeff Foxworthy
“When we featured Shaunti’s books on Family Life Today, the phone rang off the hook! When Shaunti and Jeff come back on our broadcast, I’m buying some more phones. For Men Only is fresh and relevant –good stuff for every marriage. Read it!”
—Dennis Rainey, President, FamilyLife Today
“If you’ve ever asked, ‘Why does she do, think, or say that?’ then you’ve got to read this book. Shaunti and Jeff not only answer this question, they eliminate the confusion that has kept far too many men from bridging the gender gap.”
—Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, bestselling authors of Love Talk
“Most of my work helping passive Christian men become more like Jesus involves how best to relate to women. I’m going to make sure to keep a case of the Feldhahn’s excellent book handy at all times.”
—Paul Coughlin, author, No More Christian Nice Guy
“Men, we’re supposed to love our wives and live with them in an understanding way. That’s the clear assignment God gives each of us in the Scriptures. So buy this book, read it a couple of times, underline a few key ideas, and then keep it where you can review it regularly. It will help you be the husband God wants you to be.”
—Bob Lepine, cohost, FamilyLife Today
Praise for For Men Only and For Women Only
“Whenever Shaunti Feldhahn appears as a guest on the Focus on the Family radio program, we know that listener response will be enthusiastic. She has a way of connecting with the audience that is unique and compelling. We’re thankful for the unique perspective she provides not only to the Christian community, but to the culture at large.”
—Jim Daly, President, Focus on the Family
“These are the books I pass out to people as the best on the subject. Shaunti Feldhahn has the rare ability to do impeccable research and then make her findings incredibly practical. There is something to learn on every page.”
—Jim Burns, PhD., President, HomeWord, author of Creating an Intimate Marriage
“Whatever Shaunti Feldhahn researches, read. Actually, do more than read…study! Shaunti’s ability to ask the right questions, find the right answers and communicate the results clearly and practically sets her apart as a gifted researcher. Her content guides and changes lives.”
—Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D., best-selling author, Love and Respect
“Shaunti Feldhahn has a unique gift for helping men understand women, and women, men. Her books, For Women Only and For Men Only, are the best I know at providing rich and practical gender understanding that can be used immediately. I highly recommend both all the time!”
—Robert Lewis, author of Raising a Modern-Day Knight; founder, Men's Fraternity
About the Author
Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn are popular speakers and best-selling authors whose research findings are regularly featured in national media as diverse as Focus on the Family, Family Life, the New York Times, and the Today Show. The Feldhahns have two children and live in Atlanta, Georgia.
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We truly feel like newlyweds again except without any of the painful mistakes that newlyweds make. My husband said that this book really opened his eyes to so many things.
And, each of us was surprised to know that our inner hurts and struggles were actually very common for our gender! It was actually a big relief.
Pray for yourself, pray for your spouse, pray for your marriage, and read these books together. There is a spectrum for everything so talk about what applies to you and what doesn't.
My husband rarely writes reviews on books so I'll recap what he told me about this book: "Some of the key points in this book I already knew in a vague way (after 20 years of marriage) but didn't know how to apply that to improve myself. And there were a few things that truly shocked me, like finding out you don't know how beautiful you are! Or that you wonder, so frequently, if I regret marrying you! Now I know what your heart longs for and I will give that to you, every day of my life. I will never stop pursuing you!"
Swept off my feet!
Written By: Shaunti Feldhahn and Jeff Feldhahn
Genre: Relationship Helps/Non-fiction
Recommended Ages: 13 & up
First of all, yes I know I am a woman. No, I'm not having a gender identity crisis. There are reasons for me reading this. And yes, it is helpful. I learned more about myself and other women. Especially since I'm not necessarily a typical woman in some areas.
Shaunti and Jeff did a great job making things easy to understand even for people who aren't all into brain science and things like that. I read both this and For Women Only at the same time and the differences between men and women was amazing.
Despite being a woman myself and supposedly then being able to understand some of the complexities of the female brain, I still found a few nuggets that helped me understand myself and other women around me.
The format of the book was well done. The only slight issues I had were the use of one slang word at least twice. This is a book from a predominately Christian viewpoint, so seeing those surprised me a bit.
Overall writing quality: 1/1
The writing quality was great! Humorous when it could be, but serious when needed as well.
I read it over a couple of months due to schedule conflicts, but otherwise it would have been hard to put down except to digest the information.
Every man should read this book. The information is timeless (mostly) and helpful. If you are married or in a relationship, I highly encourage you to read it together to help each other understand a bit more about how you tick.
But once I got it, my husband took it from me and he read it. I think he has applied some of the things in the book! and it has helped our relationship A LOT! That being said, I do feel it is important that a man is open to reading it and not feeling forced by his wife. I really didn't intend for my husband to read it, but I'm glad he wanted to.
Seriously guys, read it. Some things may not make sense because men and women ARE different, but this book will help you understand that your lady is not crazy. There is a rhyme and reason for how she is!