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Monogamy: The Untold Story (Sex, Love, and Psychology) 1st Edition

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"This groundbreaking book is for anyone who is or has been married and those who counsel married couples.  Brandon paints a clear picture of what can be done to reset the course toward "succulent monogamy.'" --Alan M. Altman, MD

"Brandon outlines practical steps with which couples can grow toward mature sexuality and deeper intimacy.  This book is a gift to professional and lay readers from a thoughful, reality-based perspective."
--Julian Slowinski, Psy.D, ABPP

"Brandon gives us the tools to remain (or become again) passionately monogamous.  This book must be on the bookshelves of every therapist and should be required reading for couples contemplating marriage." --Andrew T. Goldstein, MD, FACOG

"When it comes to human sexuality, most books offer either technical information without practical suggestions, or how-to advice without much underlying substance.  This is a refreshing and much needed exception." --David P. Barash

"Packed with sound, useful, and inspiring exercises, Brandon's work combines the best of human experiential knowledge, scientific research, and years of professional experience." --Stephen L. Braveman, LMFT, DST

"An excellent example of the expansion of knowledge in the area of relationships and sexuality, this book will serve not only marriage therapists and couples but also scholars interested in this subject. Summing Up: Recommended. Graduate students through faculty and professionals; general readers." - Choice


"Dr. Marianne Brandon's Monogamy: The Untold Story shines a bright, new light on the age old problem of how to feel sexual passion in an ongoing sexual relationship. Monogamy contains some startling insights. Dr. Brandon explodes the myth that monogamy should be easy if you're with the 'right person'. Both thoughtful and quirky, she asks us to ask ourselves some very interesting, deep, and thought-provoking questions about our own sexuality. Hers is a strong and unusual voice. In language at times scientific, other times erotic, Dr. Brandon reminds us that our biology works against us. We must learn to feel pleasure in ongoing, monogamous unions. And she teaches us how, with great exercises and wonderful advice. By pointing out the problems with monogamy and offering unique and creative solutions, Dr. Brandon does us all a great service. I highly recommend Monogamy." (Aline P. Zoldbrod, PhD, certified sex therapist; faculty, University of Michigan Sexual Health Certificate Program; author, SexSmart: How Your Childhood Shapes Your Sexual Life and What to Do About It)

"Wow! Dr. Brandon has thoroughly dissected the foundation, concepts, and components of monogamy in this terrific new book. In so doing, she gives us tools to remain (or become again) passionately monogamous. This book must be on the bookshelf of every therapist and should be required reading for any couple contemplating marriage." (Andrew T. Goldstein, MD, FACOG, President Elect, The International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health; Associate Editor, The Journal of Sexual Medicine; Co-founder, The Sexual Wellness Center)

"Monogamy: The Untold Story is a groundbreaking book that should be read by anyone who is, or has been, married, as well as anyone whose business it is to counsel married couples. Brandon's elucidation of where we have been and where we're headed will prove to be the seminal guidebook for this vital sector of our culture. Her mastery of evolutionary biology and the contradiction of political correctness in the bedroom, combines to paint a clear picture of what can be done to reset the course towards 'succulent monogamy'. You need to read this book." (Alan M. Altman MD, President, International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health (ISSWSH); Formerly Assistant Professor Obstetrics, Gynecology and Reproductive Biology, Harvard Medical School; Consultative Gynecologist: Menopause and Female Sexual Dysfunction, Aspen, CO)

"When it comes to human sexuality, most books offer either technical, scientific information without practical suggestions, or 'how-to' advice without much underlying substance. 'Monogamy' is a refreshing and much-needed exception: intellectually substantial as well as down-to-earth useful. Engaging, provocative, accurate, and imaginative, Marianne Brandon's book will enhance your understanding as well as your love life." (David P. Barash, Professor of Psychology, University of Washington, and author of Strange Bedfellows: the surprising connection between sex, evolution and monogamy)

"Dr. Brandon's book is a gem – for the serious scholar exploring the psychological foundations of love and attraction as well as for the lay reader who is committed to making monogamy work in their lives. A comprehensive review of theories of childhood socialization is seamlessly integrated into explanations not only of why we fall in love but who we fall in love with. Detailed strategies for couples to use in enhancing their relationship are provided in a well-written and highly readable format for readers at all levels of expertise. Highly recommended for therapists, social scientists, teachers of human sexuality and marriage/family courses, and the lay reader looking to understand their own love maps." (Curt R. Bergstrand, Ph.D., Associate Professor of Sociology, Bellarmine University, Louisville, KY)

"Brilliantly written! In this easy to read, easy to use, guide couples will find ways to rejoice in monogamy despite incredible odds. Packed with sound, useful and inspiring exercises, Marianne Brandon combines the best of human experiential knowledge, scientific research and years of her own professional experience. A clear path to celebrating respectful, sexual ecstasy within the confines of a committed relationship is offered in such a palatable manner that readers will want to share this book with their friends and family. Clinicians will also want to add it to their library as a useful reference guide; finding both superb ways to challenge beliefs that humans are 'naturally hard-wired for monogamy' and when seeking practical homework assignments for their clients. I will definitely make this book a required reading for my students and interns as well!" (Stephen L. Braveman, LMFT, DST, author of CPR for your Sex Life: How to Breathe Life Into a Dead, Dying or Dull Sex Life)

"Monogamy is far from obvious. Even most pair-bonding species regularly deviate from its unwritten rules. Marianne Brandon gives us an honest look at the pleasures and problems of an ideal that humans seem only partially hard-wired to reach." (Frans de Waal, PhD, author of The Age of Empathy)

"Brandon does a masterful job taking on unsupported hypotheses, misguided ideas, and old-fashioned notions on monogamy for a nice reality check on where 'together forever' stands today. Well-researched, intelligent, and holistic, Brandon makes a massive topic accessible and applicable to professionals and the public alike. Readers seeking to bolster their monogamous efforts will feel empowered with the easy-to-follow exercises, as well as inspired by Brandon's wisdom, thoughtfulness, and hope in making love magical over the long-haul." (Yvonne K. Fulbright, PhD, MSEd, Sexologist, sexuality educator, author; founder of sexualitysource.com and sensualfusion.com)

"Brandon's Monogamy: The Untold Story is a much needed book that addresses the realities of our biological heritage and the expectations of our culture in a refreshing and forthright manner. The seamless fusion of science and practice make for a lucid and pleasurable read. This is a book for anyone who wants a deep understanding of monogamy and sound advice on how to make it work better for them." (David C. Geary, Ph.D., author of Male, Female: The Evolution of Human Sex differences)

"An erudite and juicy guide to understanding the paradoxes of our biology, and achieving the perfect combination of a loving and sexually passionate marriage." (Rachel Herz, PhD, author of The Scent of Desire)

"Monogamy is an informative and thought-provoking look at modern sexuality. Author Marianne Brandon helps the reader explore the origins of monogamy and the push and pull of our sexual instincts versus contemporary Western culture to ultimately learn to love more fully." (Irwin Goldstein, MD, Director of Sexual Medicine, Alvarado Hospital)

"In Monogamy: The Untold Story Dr. Brandon distills complex concepts about relationships and sexuality from the fields of anthropology, sociology an psychology and presents them in a clear and easy to understand format. She guides the reader on a jouney of reconnection with their sensory experiences and to an appreciation of the important relationship between love of oneself and love of a partner. A 'must-read' for couples interested in attaining or maintaining sexual vitality." (Dr. Susan Kellogg Spadt, PHD CRNP, Drexel University College of Medicine and Widener University College of Human Service Professions)

"Dr. Brandon's book on Monogamy is packed with great information on how to keep a marriage or committed partnership alive. She gives direct and practical advice without talking down to her reader. She gives a fair analysis of the social limitations of marriage as it stands and then gives couples some invaluable creative alternatives to enhance their chemistry. She lays out the options in a clear way and explains who is a good candidate for them. I think the book is timely and should be read by anyone looking to make a long term partnership last." (Tammy Nelson, PhD, author of Getting the Sex You Want)

"Marianne Brandon knows the truth about the challenges facing monogamy in a changing world. Biological, psychological, and cultural norms often work against the concept and practice of monogamy. In Monagomy: The Untold Story, she begins by not taking lifelong relationships for granted, and honestly and fearlessly explores the forces working against monogamy. Ever the gifted clinician, she moves on to outline practical steps for couples to take to free and sustain themselves towards mature sexuality and deeper intimacy. The book is a gift to professionals and lay readers from a thoughtful and reality based therapist." (Julian Slowinski, PsyD, ABPP, Senior Clinical Psychologist, University of Pennsylvania School of Medicine and co-author, The Sexual Male)

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Product Details

  • Series: Sex, Love, and Psychology
  • Hardcover: 182 pages
  • Publisher: Praeger; 1 edition (August 19, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0313385734
  • ISBN-13: 978-0313385735
  • Product Dimensions: 6.2 x 0.9 x 9.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,373,871 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Monogamy by Marianne Brandon is pioneering in both implicit and explicit understanding and guidance of a healthy relationship in addition honesty was credible in her work. Very knowledgeable of human development in relationships and family matters. Understandable and thoughtful realism in bases of therapy. Down-to earth without excessive technical terminology that doesn't benefit growth and understanding. First begins with illusions and truth of monogamous relationships from origin to modernity, explicit detail on childhood development to adulthood in sexuality and relations.
Considerate amounts embracing sexual impulses while opening EROS and passionate love is the body of relationship, along with opening up to instinctual sex primates. Mostly I love the way she gives self-analysis of other couples in her placebo studies to contribute examples and acknowledge liking embracing sexual nature and social sciences. Self-help proportions where given to form stronger connection between male and female. A book for both men and women, that announces empirical reality of love, sex, and social/psychological science. Marianne Brandon if your reading this review, I want you to know I LOVE IT, and will learn this fundamental empirical knowledge to bring love to the right woman one day.
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This book takes us on an incredible journey of understanding pair bonding, (Monogamy) Dr. Brandon gives us the scientific rationale for all we do with the opposite sex! The book is enlightening, has incredible depth and unlocks the mysteries of our relationships. Dr. Brandon uses anthropolgy, zoology, psycholgoy and puts it all together in an incredibly understandable and readable way yet leaves one feeling like, WOW, I finally get what is going on!! Once we have it all figured out - through this incredible journey Dr. Brandon takes us on, and we are scratching our head about how these relationships are really going to work she open us up to the most incredible teachings on loving our partners - SEXUALLY AND EMOTIONALLY!! Dr. Brandon is an innovative teacher and writer. She offers us a book that is honest, timely, scientifically sound, and ultimately life and relationship transforming! She challenges our paradigms and helps us to grasp complex information! For anyone who wants to experience an incredible reading experience filled with non-stop stimululation this is the book for you! I applaud with standing ovation,this well needed book! I urge you to read it and you will be so glad you have!!! ENJOY!! Transform!! This book is TRULY INNOVATIVE!!!
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This is a great book in learning how to renew intimacy in a marriage. "Monosamy the Untold Story" helped me to find true intimacy in my relationship. Stages of intimacy, types of intimacy, and emotional intimacy. This book is refreshing and a must read!!!!
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In this book, Dr. Brandon describes, guides, and teaches us from a professional standpoint as well as, and if not more importantly, from her research and personal journey in these realms, adding a depth and truth that is authentic and approachable. Dr. Brandon provides insight and the tools to help navigate these waters and find true ecstasy in Monogamy. Highly recommended for those of us who seek answers and for those who have not yet found deep fulfillment in their relationships.
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