- Hardcover: 304 pages
- Publisher: Thomas Nelson (April 5, 2016)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0849948215
- ISBN-13: 978-0849948213
- Product Dimensions: 6.3 x 1 x 9.3 inches
- Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
- Average Customer Review: 134 customer reviews
- Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,515 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Mother and Son: The Respect Effect Hardcover – April 5, 2016
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About the Author
Emerson Eggerichs, PhD, is an internationally known communication expert and author of the New York Times bestseller Love & Respect. Just as Dr. Eggerichs transformed millions of marital relationships with a biblical understanding of love and respect, he also turned these principles to one of the most important relationships of all in Mother & Son: The Respect Effect. As a communication expert, Emerson has also spoken to groups such as the NFL, NBA, PGA, US Navy SEALs and members of Congress. He was the senior pastor of Trinity Church in East Lansing, Michigan for almost twenty years. Emerson holds a PhD in child and family ecology from Michigan State University, a BA in Biblical Studies from Wheaton College, an MA in communications from Wheaton College Graduate School, and an MDiv from the University of Dubuque Theological Seminary. He and his wife Sarah have been married since 1973 and have three adult children.
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What I love:
Everything in this book is spot on. The message is biblical, sound, and everything I needed to hear.
Chapters 5-10 gave specific examples for how to handle all sorts of different situations with both younger and older boys. This was the most helpful part of the book for me. And I will probably reference it again and again.
What I didn't love:
How could I not love a book that was spot on and just what I needed? It was mainly the writing style. I felt like the author was talking down to moms as if we couldn't understand the need of our sons to be respected. Which was in fact the entire reason I wanted to read this book. I knew my boys needed respect, I just don't always know how to flesh it out. After reading just two chapters of this book I was ready to toss it out. I remember telling my husband that for an author who made such great points, he didn't know much about communicating. I felt put down. Some of the ways he recommended using "respect-talk" towards our sons would have had my 13-year old thinking I was mocking him. However, after pressing on, it got much, much better.
The other thing I didn't really care for was all of the success stories. I get that his system works and he knows what he's talking about, but I really felt like the first 4 chapters (and maybe the last 4) were mainly stories of how awesome the respect effect is, but not really helpful to the reader.
If you have read books by Emerson Eggerichs before and enjoyed them, I would highly recommend this one.
If you haven't read any of his books before, I would still recommend reading this book, but if you are put off by the beginning, maybe start at chapter 5. It's totally worth it.
This book is amazing! What it has taught me as a mother in the area of communication has been revolutionary. It's hard to change a patterned behavior but as I walk forward trying this new approach in communicating with my 12 year old & 9 year old I am already seeing a softening of my sons heart's as I learn how to approach him in a different way. It's only been a couple weeks & I have a long way to go but I'm excited that it is working & that I will not have to repeat the cycle I was taught as a child & accepted it as normal. I hope all who read this book are as blessed by it as I am & that you give your self grace in your learning process.