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Mothering Your Nursing Toddler Revised Edition
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Norma J. Bumgarner
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About the Author
Norma Jane Bumgarner, mother of four and grandmother of three (and still counting,) is a La Leche League Leader Alumna who served as a Group leader, then Area Coordinator of Leaders for Oklahoma, and later as a Regional Administrator of Leaders for Latin America and the West Indies. Recently graduated with a Masters in Journalism, she serves as an adjuct instructor at the University of Oklahoma.
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- Publisher : LA Leche League Intl; Revised edition (February 1, 2000)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 308 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0912500522
- ISBN-13 : 978-0912500522
- Item Weight : 1.2 pounds
- Dimensions : 5.25 x 1 x 9 inches
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- #1,965 in Motherhood (Books)
- #2,159 in General Women's Health
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Reviewed in the United States on October 30, 2008
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Overall, I'm very satisfied with this book. I wasn't sure if this book would actually cover "older children", because my son will be 3 years old in just 2 months and he is still nursing with no end in sight. I have been torn whether or not to keep going or if I should just gently start the weaning process, and this book has really provided the information and insight that I needed to make that decision. It covers a lot of information on 1 and 2 year old nursers, but also has information (just not a TON, but enough) on 3, 4, 5 year olds...and even older, school-aged children that are nursing. This book is a must have for all mothers nursing toddlers and all mothers even considering it. Highly recommend!!!
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Reviewed in the United States on August 2, 2006
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I really enjoyed this book, particularly because it is not "just" a nursing/extended nursing book. It is also somewhat of an attachment parenting handbook, as I suppose most La Leche League books are. There's kind of a dearth of books on toddlers nursing, most information is relegated to a last chapter in a breastfeeding manual, as if all possible breastfeeding issues will have already been solved by the time baby hits one. Certainly nursing goes much more smoothly--you're in a routine, baby is older, mom knows more by now, but some issues do arise that are unique for toddlers (talking about nursing, common toddler behavior, nursing while pregnant again, the ever present 'twiddling,' other foods toddler should be eating, etc.) and this books addresses them and more. The author's style is quite readable (so many parenting books are, for lack of a better word, gimmicky, "10 days," "7 steps," and this is not). This would be on my recommended reading list for new (or not so new) nursing moms, right after Nursing Your Baby by Karen Pryor. I will definitely be revisiting this book as my son grows, it was very informative and, I'm sure, will continue to be so in the future.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 8, 2006
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I have a food-allergic daughter and altered my diet so that she could continue to breastfeed without reacting to dairy/soy/wheat/eggs etc. As one year of age approached, I worried that she would wean before she was able to drink milk or soy milk and therefore, lack a good calcium/fat source etc. (My mom said that all of her children had self-weaned at 18 months).\\
This book helped me realize that much of what we do in terms of interacting with our bf babies can be a cultural 'set up' to begin the weaning process, whether the mother and child want that or not. It was invaluable in helping me maintain my bf relationship with my daughter, who at 28 months is still nursing. It also helped me discuss child led weaning with my husband, who was initially skeptical.
I worked outside the home when I read this book - I didn't think it was critical of working outside the home, although the author recognized that there were trade-offs and obviously believes that the ideal situation for mother/child is to be together if it's at all possible. But she spent plenty of time talking about how to manage things if it isn't possible, including pumping advice etc. Maybe more could be included in future editions, but I thought it was pretty well covered personally.
This book helped me realize that much of what we do in terms of interacting with our bf babies can be a cultural 'set up' to begin the weaning process, whether the mother and child want that or not. It was invaluable in helping me maintain my bf relationship with my daughter, who at 28 months is still nursing. It also helped me discuss child led weaning with my husband, who was initially skeptical.
I worked outside the home when I read this book - I didn't think it was critical of working outside the home, although the author recognized that there were trade-offs and obviously believes that the ideal situation for mother/child is to be together if it's at all possible. But she spent plenty of time talking about how to manage things if it isn't possible, including pumping advice etc. Maybe more could be included in future editions, but I thought it was pretty well covered personally.
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Reviewed in the United States on December 30, 2016
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Still a classic. Every mother of a toddler should read this book whether they are nursing or not!
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Reviewed in the United States on October 27, 2010
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I am really enjoying this book. I was concerned by other reviews that said it was all polemic and no practical information, or that it was not useful for the working mother. I found it to be full of useful info and tips, and as a full-time working mom I discovered plenty that applied to me. A lot of the best material is contained in the long anecdotal quotations from nursing mothers that are interspersed with the text--many of them working moms--so don't skip those. And don't be put off by the vintage-1990 look of the cover--the material inside is current! (NB to publisher, though--the cover could really use a redesign!)
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Reviewed in the United States on January 10, 2011
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A great guide for parenting a toddler who just happens to also be nursing. I found a ton of info early on about newborns but toddlers is where I needed the help and reassuring words that I found here. If you are looking for a magic formula for solving any issues, you won't find that here because this is not that kind of book. You will however find some seasoned wisdom to guide you on following your gut on what the right thing for your family exactly would be. There is some fascinating info on history and cultural perspective on the nursing toddler.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 20, 2014
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As a mother who nurses her babies until about age 3, I was THRILLED to find out about this book and had to have it! This book is a wonderful resource for mothers of nursing toddlers!
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Reviewed in the United States on February 24, 2016
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I LOVE this book! There is so much encouragement about nursing a toddler! I purchased this book at the recommendation of a friend who was a La Leche League leader for 8 years and I am so glad I did. I was at my wits end with the constant nursing! This book really helped me to be able to continue to nurse my toddler as well as my 6 month old son. There are many topics addressed including how nursing a toddler benefits you and your child, how it may affect your other relationships and the author also touches on special circumstances like tandem nursing. If you are nursing a toddler-buy and read this book!
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serendipity
5.0 out of 5 stars
Good source of comfort, information and encouragement
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 2, 2012Verified Purchase
I bought this book as my son is an avid breastfeeder and at 12 months still relies on breastfeeding regularly both day and night (aargh!). The book filled a gap for me and was like a friend offering advice about a subject that I found myself increasingly alone with. I had nobody else to ask who was in a similar position so I ordered a copy. My husband, MIL (especially) and direct family (except for my sister who also breastfed her child until they were 2) in general are surprised that I'm still feeding him. It makes it more difficult to voice doubts and ask for advice when you know that someone is opposed to your decision. This book offers a great deal of practical advice regarding how to handle such objections and whilst one braver reviewer stated that she does suggest nursing in private etc and should advocate a greater public show, I feel her advice resonated with me and whilst Im proud of BF for so long I also understand that it isn't a common occurrence to see toddlers breastfeeding in public and would make me feel uncomfortable.
At times i smiled knowingly such as when she describes training their free hand (which wanders and likes to play with the other breast/ nipple) and how to encourage them away! She also highlights that it is common during the first few months of the first year for nursing to increase which made me relax as i was beginning to think that my son was "de-weaning" from solids at times! All in all i felt much more confident and happier with my decision after reading this book. I'm not sure how long I'll continue to BF for. I'd like my son to wean himself but if you're looking for some advice on breastfeeding toddlers or have concerns about it this book will assuage your fears.
The book is well written, sympathetic and informative. All assertions are carefully referenced. She provides an interesting insight into other cultures and looks at a historical as well as cross-cultural view of breastfeeding and weaning age.
Worth the purchase if you're considering breastfeeding beyond the first year or have already continued and have some questions about breastfeeding a 2,3,4 year old.
At times i smiled knowingly such as when she describes training their free hand (which wanders and likes to play with the other breast/ nipple) and how to encourage them away! She also highlights that it is common during the first few months of the first year for nursing to increase which made me relax as i was beginning to think that my son was "de-weaning" from solids at times! All in all i felt much more confident and happier with my decision after reading this book. I'm not sure how long I'll continue to BF for. I'd like my son to wean himself but if you're looking for some advice on breastfeeding toddlers or have concerns about it this book will assuage your fears.
The book is well written, sympathetic and informative. All assertions are carefully referenced. She provides an interesting insight into other cultures and looks at a historical as well as cross-cultural view of breastfeeding and weaning age.
Worth the purchase if you're considering breastfeeding beyond the first year or have already continued and have some questions about breastfeeding a 2,3,4 year old.
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Lala
5.0 out of 5 stars
A interesting read
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on March 15, 2014Verified Purchase
If you like the Gina Ford way, this is not the book for you. The book promotes following your child's lead & discusses many elements & issues you may have nursing a toddler. Interesting history of nursing children in various ages & societies. I thoroughly enjoyed it & found it just right for me.
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wootters
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Five Stars
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on October 16, 2016Verified Purchase
Invaluable read for anyone breastfeeding beyond a year.
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Teresa Ferreira
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lots of ionformation
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on July 24, 2012Verified Purchase
I was recommended this book when I kept nursing after my son's first birthday. It has lots of useful information, so it is a great source for any mother having doubts on how or when to stop breastfeeding. It was very helpful for me.
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AM
5.0 out of 5 stars
Great information book
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on December 29, 2006Verified Purchase
As a mother of 4 children, all of which I nursed I must say I enjoyed this book immensely. sadly in society there are too many people too quick to judge us nursing moms. The book provided a lot of reassurance that I am doing the best job for my babies. The author has written well, explaining all the health benefits and some of the pitfalls of nursing. Also included is useful ammunition on how to deal with unkind comments from so called well meaning freinds and relatives.
Worth every penny!
Worth every penny!
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