Mrs. Therese Marie Crutcher-Marin

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About Mrs. Therese Marie Crutcher-Marin

Therese Crutcher-Marin was born in Kansas City, Missouri in 1955 to parents with a strong work ethic. Her career in healthcare, driven by her empathetic heart, lead her into hospice work to help people have the highest quality of life for as long as possible.

After Therese retired, she found love in writing and over 7 years wrote and published her first nonfiction book, "Watching Their Dance: Three Sisters, a Genetic Disease and Marrying into a Family At Risk for Huntington's". It's an inspirational love story, over 38 years, of how John and Therese's marriage was actually fortified by its precariousness and how she learned to love more deeply in the shadow of John's mortality.

Therese is an advocate for Huntington's disease which took the life of her three sisters-in-law. She is the Chair of the HDSA San Francisco Bay Area Affiliate.

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Watching Their Dance: Three Sisters, A Genetic Disease and Marrying into a Family At Risk for Huntington's Apr 25, 2017

by Therese Crutcher-Marin, Pamela Feinsilber

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Would you marry the man you adored if you knew he had a chance of inheriting one of the cruelest diseases on earth?
Therese Crutcher is not a risk taker. Through meticulous planning, she eliminates as much uncertainty from her life as she can. Yet during her senior year of college, blithely planning to marry her beloved John Marin, she is suddenly thrown into turmoil when John's sisters announce they finally know what killed their mother, institutionalized when her four children were all under ten. Phyllis had Huntington's disease, an inherited neurological disease with horrible odds: John and his three older sisters have a fifty-percent chance of inheriting this terrible wasting disease, which slowly kills the brain cells that affect movement and cognition. There is still no treatment or cure.
John says, "You never know what will happen in life," but his at-risk status shakes Therese to the core. How can she live with such uncertainty? Eventually, Therese decides to marry the man she loves. All four Marins choose to ignore what they cannot change; and in the early years, John and his sisters--a big part of Therese's life-- remain healthy, fun-loving, and as close as ever. Therese takes another big gamble and has a child, and then another.
When she observes symptoms in Lora, the oldest sister, Therese fears that Huntington's has found her. And when Marcia, the gentle middle sister, is diagnosed with the disease, Therese--with two small children, a career, and a husband now in the prime age range to show symptoms--struggles against the demons that feed her fear.
After Lora dies, Therese feels unprepared to support her family should the unthinkable occur, so she earns a master's in healthcare administration and begins a new career. When Marcia's symptoms worsen, John moves her nearby, and Therese lovingly oversees her care. Several years later, Cindy, the youngest, most athletic sister, alsodevelops Huntington's, and Therese does the same, feeling that managing the care of these loved ones is a privilege and the greatest gift she can give them.
Thus unfolds a life filled with unpredictability, tough choices, and pain, and yet full of love, good times, and great joy. Therese comes to realize that the uncertainty she willingly took on has opened her heart to love more deeply; that acknowledging her world could change overnight has made her life richer. She has learned to overlook shortcomings and to compromise, to let go of anger when she can't control a situation, to find joy in the simple things. Life is just too precious to waste a moment on small stuff. And though John's sisters leave this world far too soon, the Marin siblings, she realizes, have taught her about embracing life, forgiveness, and unconditional love.

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