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Much Ado About Loving: What Our Favorite Novels Can Teach You About Date Expectations, Not So-Great Gatsbys, and Love in the Time of Internet Personals Hardcover – January 3, 2012
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"A treat for any book lover, happily mated or cheerfully single." --USA Today
"A clever, amusing hybrid of lit crit and relationship advice." --Publisher's Weekly
"Like a Cliff Notes for the lovelorn, as told by two authors who've 'been there.' Much Ado is as sage as it is funny. " --Lucinda Rosenfeld, "Friend or Foe" columnist at Slate and author of the novels, I'm So Happy for You and The Pretty One
"I’ll take my advice from Toni Morrison over Suzanne Somers any day, even if it doesn’t come in bullet-point format, with a weight-loss chart. Wisdom rarely does. [Much Ado About Loving] is a clever mash-up of dating advice and literary discussion, with the authors alternating chapters and subjects...That’s probably the first time Virgil has been used for romantic advice, at least in this century - and that alone is an achievement. " --The New York Daily News
"I find reading novels to be more entertaining than reading advice columns, so why not combine the two? Dear Jane instead of Dear Abby." --Columbus Ledger-Enquirer
"In Much Ado About Loving: What Our Favorite Novels Can Teach You About Date Expectations, Not-So-Great Gatsbys and Love in the Time of Internet Personals, authors Kelly and Murnighan demonstrate that most literary classics contain great lessons about romance that are still relevant today... The authors take a magnifying glass to some of literature’s great and not-so-great hookups, injecting some of their own dating triumphs and faux pas, both relatable and comical." --The New Jersey Monthly
" Much Ado About Loving… plumb[s] great literature for relationship advice."
— New York Times Book Review
About the Author
Jack Murnighan has a Ph.D. in medieval and renaissance literature from Duke University. His book, Beowulf on the Beach helped tens of thousands of readers rediscover their love of the classics. His two previous books, The Naughty Bits and Classic Nasty, were critically acclaimed tours of sexuality in the history of literature. He lives in New York City.
Top Customer Reviews
I am an unapologetic reader of romance books. I often skim the pro-romance blogs when they counter attack the criticism that romance has no literary value. I skim to keep abreast of what is being said but then I move on as I don't care what anyone thinks of my reading material. I read for escapism.
I requested to review MUCH ADO ABOUT LOVING because of its reference to "literary classics" that can teach us about love, romance, and relationships. This book is designated for someone in the dating scene. But I still enjoyed reading it because the "literary classics" give the same message as "trashy" romances - there is much ado about loving. I believe it will be useful for my teens as they come of age in romance.
Likewise, MUCH ADO ABOUT LOVING gave me a few chuckles and tender moments. Recommended read for those who enjoy books about literature, lifestyle, and even pop culture.
The publisher provided an ARC for this review.
According to Maura Kelly and Jack Murnighan* it can teach us some very important lessons about love. I tend to agree.
Kelly and Murnighan take turns writing the chapters and telling us about their hits and misses in the dating world. They share the triumphs and the failures. All along they tie their romantic adventures to the stories and lessons in classic literature.
The chapter names made me chuckle and inspired me to keep reading:
Love in the Time of Online Dating
Why Too Much Emailing Can Be Dangerous
Overly Great Expectations
Why Idealizing Someone Can Come Back to Bite You
The Brief Wondrous Life of My Last Relationship
Are Men Genetically Coded to Cheat?
I'm quite fond of books about books and this one was a delight to read.
*Why aren't these two dating? I wondered that throughout the whole book!
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The Table of Contents alone is worth the read, but the authors make good on the catchy chapter titles.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
Maura Kelly and Jack Murnighan are funny and insightful. I was surprised by how much romantic angst this lovely book eased!Published on May 14, 2013 by Domenica Ruta
Before valentines day was to come i was in anticipation but now i read this book with much regret at first i would never judge a book by its cover but now i see it as it is and for... Read morePublished on February 8, 2013 by nicolasdog
The writers definitely hit the nail on the head (multiple times!) with their small treatise on modern love. I felt less alone after reading this. Read morePublished on December 20, 2012 by netineti
Amusing, clever, funny and well-written. Quite good - I'm really enjoying reading this. Particularly appreciate having the perspective of both a male and a female author.Published on September 28, 2012 by Lakeview Girl
Tries way too hard, and falls flat. Also, I didn't know until after I read this book that Maura Kelly feels that attacking people for their appearance on her blog for Marie Claire... Read morePublished on February 25, 2012 by T. R. Streetman