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My Brilliant Friend: A Novel (Neapolitan Novels, 1) Paperback – September 25, 2012
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Now an HBO series: the first volume in the New York Times–bestselling “enduring masterpiece” about a lifelong friendship between two women from Naples (The Atlantic).
Beginning in the 1950s in a poor but vibrant neighborhood on the outskirts of Naples, Elena Ferrante’s four-volume story spans almost sixty years, as its main characters, the fiery and unforgettable Lila and the bookish narrator, Elena, become women, wives, mothers, and leaders, all the while maintaining a complex and at times conflicted friendship. This first novel in the series follows Lila and Elena from their fateful meeting as ten-year-olds through their school years and adolescence.
Through the lives of these two women, Ferrante tells the story of a neighborhood, a city, and a country as it is transformed in ways that, in turn, also transform the relationship between two women.
“An intoxicatingly furious portrait of enmeshed friends.” ―Entertainment Weekly
“Spectacular.” ―Maureen Corrigan, NPR’s Fresh Air
“Captivating.” ―The New Yorker
- Print length331 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherEuropa Editions
- Publication dateSeptember 25, 2012
- Dimensions5.34 x 0.97 x 8.22 inches
- ISBN-101609450787
- ISBN-13978-1609450786
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Editorial Reviews
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The United States
"Ferrante's novels are intensely, violently personal, and because of this they seem to dangle bristling key chains of confession before the unsuspecting reader."
--James Wood, The New Yorker
"One of the more nuanced portraits of feminine friendship in recent memory."
--Megan O'Grady, Vogue
"Amazing! My Brilliant Friend took my breath away. If I were president of the world I would make everyone read this book. It is so honest and right and opens up heart to so much. Reading Ferrante reminded me of that child-like excitement when you can't look up from the page, when your eyes seem to be popping from your head, when you think: I didn't know books could do this!"
--Elizabeth Strout, author of Olive Kitteridge
"I like the Italian writer, Elena Ferrante, a lot. I've been reading all her work and all about her." -- John Waters, actor and director
"Elena Ferrante may be the best contemporary novelist you've never heard of."
--The Economist
"Ferrante's freshness has nothing to do with fashion...it is imbued with the most haunting music of all, the echoes of literary history."
--The New York Times Book Review
"I am such a fan of Ferrante's work, and have been for quite a while."
--Jennifer Gilmore, author of The Mothers
"The women's fraught relationship and shifting fortunes are the life forces of the poignant book" -- Publisher's Weekly
"When I read [the Neapolitan novels] I find that I never want to stop. I feel vexed by the obstacles--my job, or acquaintances on the subway--that threaten to keep me apart from the books. I mourn separations (a year until the next one--how?). I am propelled by a ravenous will to keep going."
--Molly Fischer, The New Yorker
"[Ferrante's Neapolitan Novels] don't merely offer a teeming vision of working-class Naples, with its cobblers and professors, communists and mobbed-up businessmen, womanizing poets and downtrodden wives; they present one of modern fiction's richest portraits of a friendship."
--John Powers, Fresh Air, NPR
"Elena Ferrante is one of the great novelists of our time. Her voice is passionate, her view sweeping and her gaze basilisk . . . In these bold, gorgeous, relentless novels, Ferrante traces the deep connections between the political and the domestic. This is a new version of the way we live now -- one we need, one told brilliantly, by a woman."
--Roxana Robinson, The New York Times Book Review
"An intoxicatingly furious portrait of enmeshed friends Lila and Elena, Bright and passionate girls from a raucous neighborhood in world-class Naples. Ferrante writes with such aggression and unnerving psychological insight about the messy complexity of female friendship that the real world can drop away when you're reading her."
--Entertainment Weekly
"It's just hypnotic. I could not stop reading it or thinking about it."
--Hillary Clinton
"Ferrante seasons the prose with provocative perceptions not unlike the way Proust did."
--Shelf Awareness
"It would be difficult to find a deeper portrait of women's friendship than the one in Ferrante's Neapolitan novels, which unfold from the fifties to the twenty-first century to tell a single story with
the possessive force of an origin myth."
--Megan O'Grady, Vogue
"Ferrante's writing is so unencumbered, so natural, and yet so lovely, brazen, and flush. The constancy of detail and the pacing that zips and skips then slows to a real-time crawl have an almost psychic effect, bringing you deeply into synchronicity with the discomforts and urgency of the characters' emotions. Ferrante is unlike other writers--not because she's innovative, but rather because she's unselfconscious and brutally, diligently honest."
--Minna Proctor, Bookforum
"Ferrante can do a woman's interior dialogue like no one else, with a ferocity that is shockingly honest, unnervingly blunt."
--Booklist
"The truest evocation of a complex and lifelong friendship between women I've ever read."
--Emily Gould, author of Friendship
"Elena Ferrante is the author of several remarkable, lucid, austerely honest novels . . . My Brilliant Friend is a large, captivating, amiably peopled bildungsroman."
--James Wood, The New Yorker
"Compelling, visceral and immediate . . . a riveting examination of power . . . The Neapolitan novels are a tour de force."
--Jennifer Gilmore, The Los Angeles Times
"Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay surpasses the rapturous storytelling of the previous titles in the Neapolitan Novels."
--Publishers Weekly (starred review)
"Ferrante's voice feels necessary. She is the Italian Alice Munro."
--Mona Simpson, author of Casebook and Anywhere But Here
"Elena Ferrante will blow you away."
--Alice Sebold, author of The Lovely Bones
"The Days of Abandonment is a powerful, heartrending novel."
--Jhumpa Lahiri, Pulitzer-prize winning author ofThe Lowland
"The Neapolitan novel cycle is an unconditional masterpiece . . . I read all the books in a state of immersion; I was totally enthralled. There was nothing else I wanted to do except follow the lives of Lila and Lenù to the end."
--Jhumpa Lahiri, Pulitzer-prize winning author of The Lowland
"Reading Ferrante reminded me of that child-like excitement when you can't look up from the page, when your eyes seem to be popping from your head, when you think: I didn't know books could do this!"
--Elizabeth Strout, Pulitzer-prize winning author of The Burgess Boys
"Elena Ferrante: the best angry woman writer ever!"
--John Waters, director
"The feverish speculation about the identity of Elena Ferrante betrays an understandable failure of imagination: it seems impossible that right now somewhere someone sits in a room and draws up these books. Palatial and heartbreaking beyond measure, the Neapolitan novels seem less written than they do revealed. One simply surrenders. When the final volume appears--may that day never come!--they're bound to be acknowledged as one of the most powerful works of art, in any medium, of our age."
--Gideon Lewis-Kraus, author of A Sense of Direction
"Ferrante tackles girlhood and friendship with amazing force."
--Gwyneth Paltrow, actor
"Elena Ferrante's The Story of a New Name. Book two in her Naples trilogy. Two words: Read it."
--Ann Hood, writer (from Twitter)
"Ferrante continues to imbue this growing saga with great magic."
--Booklist(starred review)
"One of Italy's best contemporary novelists."?
--The Seattle Times
"Ferrante's emotional and carnal candor are so potent."
--Janet Maslin, The New York Times
"Elena Ferrante's gutsy and compulsively readable new novel, the first of a quartet, is a terrific entry point for Americans unfamiliar with the famously reclusive writer, whose go-for-broke tales of women's shadow selves--those ambivalent mothers and seething divorcées too complex or unseemly for polite society (and most literary fiction, for that matter)--shimmer with Balzacian human detail and subtle psychological suspense . . . The Neapolitan novels offer one of the more nuanced portraits of feminine friendship in recent memory--from the make-up and break-up quarrels of young girls to the way in which we carefully define ourselves against each other as teens--Ferrante wisely balances her memoir-like emotional authenticity with a wry sociological understanding of a society on the verge of dramatic change."
--Megan O'Grady, Vogue
"My Brilliant Friend is a sweeping family-centered epic that encompasses issues of loyalty, love, and a transforming Europe. This gorgeous novel should bring a host of new readers to one of Italy's most acclaimed authors."
--The Barnes and Noble Review
"Ferrante draws an indelible picture of the city's mean streets and the poverty, violence and sameness of lives lived in the same place forever . . . She is a fierce writer."
--Shelf Awareness
"Ferrante transforms the love, separation and reunion of two poor urban girls into the general tragedy of their city."
--The New York Times
"Beautifully translated by Ann Goldstein . . . Ferrante writes with a ferocious, intimate urgency that is a celebration of anger. Ferrante is terribly good with anger, a very specific sort of wrath harbored by women, who are so often not allowed to give voice to it. We are angry, a lot of the time, at the position we're in--whether it's as wife, daughter, mother, friend--and I can think of no other woman writing who is so swift and gorgeous in this rage, so bracingly fearless in mining fury."--Susanna Sonnenberg, The San Francisco Chronicle
"Everyone should read anything with Ferrante's name on it."
--The Boston Globe
"The through-line in all of Ferrante's investigations, for me, is nothing less than one long, mind-and-heart-shredding howl for the history of women (not only Neapolitan women), and its implicit j'accuse . . . Ferrante's effect, critics agree, is inarguable. 'Intensely, violently personal' and 'brutal directness, familial torment' is how James Wood ventures to categorize her--descriptions that seem mild after you've encountered the work."
--Joan Frank, The San Francisco Chronicle
"Lila, mercurial, unsparing, and, at the end of this first episode in a planned trilogy from Ferrante, seemingly capable of starting a full-scale neighborhood war, is a memorable character."--Publishers Weekly
"An engrossing, wildly original contemporary epic about the demonic power of human (and particularly female) creativity checked by the forces of history and society." --The Los Angeles Review of Books
"Ferrante's own writing has no limits, is willing to take every thought forward to its most radical conclusion and backwards to its most radical birthing."-
--The New Yorker
The United Kingdom
"The Story of a New Name, like its predecessor, is fiction of the very highest order."--Independent on Sunday
"My Brilliant Friend, translated by Ann Goldstein, is stunning: an intense, forensic exploration of the friendship between Lila and the story's narrator, Elena. Ferrante's evocation of the working-class district of Naples where Elena and Lila first meet as two wiry eight-year-olds is cinematic in the density of its detail."
--The Times Literary Supplement
"This is a story about friendship as a mass of roiling currents--love, envy, pity, spite, dependency and Schadenfreude coiling around one another, tricky to untangle."
--Intelligent Life
"Elena Ferrante may be the best contemporary novelist you have never heard of. The Italian author has written six lavishly praised novels. But she writes under a pseudonym and will not offer herself for public consumption. Her characters likewise defy convention . . . Her prose is crystal, and her storytelling both visceral and compelling."
--The Economist
Ferrante is an expert above all at the rhythm of plotting: certain feuds and oppositions are kept simmering and in abeyance for years, so that a particular confrontation - a particular scene - can be many hundreds of pages in coming, but when it arrives seems at once shocking and inevitable."
--The Independent
Italy
"Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay evokes the vital flux of a heartbeat, of blood flowing through our veins."
--La Repubblica
"We don't know who she is, but it doesn't matter. Ferrante's books are enthralling self-contained monoliths that do not seek friendship but demand silent, fervid admiration from her passionate readers . . . The thing most real in these novels is the intense, almost osmotic relationship that unites Elena and Lila, the two girls from a neighborhood in Naples who are the peerless protagonists of the Neapolitan novels."
--Famiglia Cristiana
"Today it is near impossible to find writers capable of bringing smells, tastes, feelings, and contradictory passions to their pages. Elena Ferrante, alone, seems able to do it. There is no writer better suited to composing the great Italian novel of her generation, her country, and her time than she."
--Il Manifesto
"Elena Ferrante is a very great novelist . . . In a world often held prisoner to minimalism, her writing is extremely powerful, earthy, and audacious."
--Francesca Marciano, author of The Other Language
"Regardless of who is behind the name Elena Ferrante, the mysterious pseudonym used by the author of the Neapolitan novels, two things are certain: she is a woman and she knows how to describe Naples like nobody else. She does so with a style that recalls an enchanted spider web with its expressive power and the wizardry with which it creates an entire world."
--Huffington Post (Italy)
"A marvel that is without limits and beyond genre."
--Il Salvagente
"Elena Ferrante is proving that literature can cure our present ills; it can cure the spirit by operating as an antidote to the nervous attempts we make to see ourselves reflected in the present-day of a country that is increasingly repellent."
--Il Mattino
"My Brilliant Friend flows from the soul like an eruption from Mount Vesuvio."
--La Repubblica
Australia
"No one has a voice quite like Ferrante's. Her gritty, ruthlessly frank novels roar off the page with a barbed fury, like an attack that is also a defense . . . Ferrante's fictions are fierce, unsentimental glimpses at the way a woman is constantly under threat, her identity submerged in marriage, eclipsed by motherhood, mythologised by desire. Imagine if Jane Austen got angry and you'll have some idea of how explosive these works are."
--John Freeman, The Australian
"One of the most astounding--and mysterious--contemporary Italian novelists available in translation, Elena Ferrante unfolds the tumultuous inner lives of women in her thrillingly menacing stories of lost love, negligent mothers and unfulfilled desires."
--The Age
"Ferrante bewitches with her tiny, intricately drawn world . . . My Brilliant Friend journeys fearlessly into some of that murkier psychological territory where questions of individual identity are inextricable from circumstance and the ever-changing identities of others."
--The Melbourne Review
"The Neapolitan novels move far from contrivance, logic or respectability to ask uncomfortable questions about how we live, how we love, how we singe an existence in a deeply flawed world that expects pretty acquiescence from its women. In all their beauty, their ugliness, their devotion and deceit, these girls enchant and repulse, like life, like our very selves."
--The Sydney Morning Herald
"The best thing I've read this year, far and away, would be Elena Ferrante...I just think she puts most other writing at the moment in the shade. She's marvelous. I like her so much I'm now doing something I only do when I really love the writer: I'm only allowing myself two pages a day."
--Richard Flanagan, author of Book prize finalist, The Narrow Road to the Deep North
Spain
"Elena Ferrante's female characters are genuine works of art . . . It is clear that her novel is the child of Italian neorealism and an abiding fascination with scene."
--El Pais
About the Author
Elena Ferrante is the author of The Days of Abandonment (Europa, 2005), which was made into a film directed by Roberto Faenza, Troubling Love (Europa, 2006), adapted by Mario Martone, and The Lost Daughter (Europa, 2008), soon to be a film directed by Maggie Gyllenhaal. She is also the author of Incidental Inventions (Europa, 2019), illustrated by Andrea Ucini, Frantumaglia: A Writer’s Journey (Europa, 2016) and a children’s picture book illustrated by Mara Cerri, The Beach at Night (Europa, 2016). The four volumes known as the “Neapolitan quartet” (My Brilliant Friend, The Story of a New Name, Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay, and The Story of the Lost Child) were published by Europa Editions in English between 2012 and 2015. My Brilliant Friend, the HBO series directed by Saverio Costanzo, premiered in 2018.
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- Publisher : Europa Editions; 1st edition (September 25, 2012)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 331 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1609450787
- ISBN-13 : 978-1609450786
- Item Weight : 3.53 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.34 x 0.97 x 8.22 inches
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Elena Ferrante is the author of seven novels, including four New York Times bestsellers; The Beach at Night, an illustrated book for children; and, Frantumaglia, a collection of letters, literary essays, and interviews. Her fiction has been translated into over forty languages and been shortlisted for the MAN Booker International Prize. In 2016 she was named one of TIME’s most influential people of the year and the New York Times has described her as “one of the great novelists of our time.” Ferrante was born in Naples.
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As a patriarchal society, women were sometimes subjected to daily domestic violence. After a chain reaction of violent events that begun in the streets, wives bore the brunt of their husbands’ displaced anger in the home. Parents were often harsh and punitive toward their children in an atmosphere of a scarcity of food, loss of hope and a great level of violence in their community.
Lila and Lenu’s friendship was begun around the age of six. There were no similarities in the girls’ personalities. Lenu, the narrator, knew early on Lila, clever, competitive and stubborn, would be the uncontested leader in social and girlhood activities. Lila appeared bold and adventuresome, rebellious and defiant, whereas Lenu showed timidity and caution.
An outspoken Lila challenged their teacher, Maestra Oliviero, and disrupted the class; unafraid of the consequences. Lila seemed good at suppressing her emotions. But Maestra Oliviero discovered Lila was brilliant. There was nothing Lila couldn’t learn or do. She surpassed all of her classmates, and became Maestra Oliviero’s favorite.
Lenu worked harder to reach Lila’s academic level. Yet Lila always exceeded, leaving Lenu feeling anxious.
By their middle years, Lenu was beset by fears of her mother, whom she disliked, wanting her to quit school. Maestra Oliviero intervened more than once, informing her parents Lenu would have a brighter future if she remained in school.
During adolescence, Lila, probably bored, quit school to work in her father’s shoe repair store. She and her brother, Rino, secretly attempted to build a business designing and making shoes.
Lenu showed absolute alliance and loyalty to her best friend, Lila. She studied harder to prove herself on Lila’s level, welcoming the interest of their instructor, Maestra Oliviera. The girls still competed, with Lila continuing her studies on her own at home, and continuing to override Lenu’s achievements at school.
Lenu spent time in Ischia during her fifteenth year, and became beset with a moral dilemma that she never shared with Lila.
The depth of Lenu’s emotional feelings, especially anxiety are real. I wondered if she would outgrow her feelings of inadequacy concerning Lila.
The reactions of the young men in their circle, Rino, Antonio, and Enzo, are heartfelt, raw, and palpable concerning disrespect toward female family members and friends. Anger often spewed uncontrollably. Their valor appeared intense and unwavering.
Although smart and well-read, Lila, toughened and hardened by the ‘mean streets’ of Naples, grew to be a sophisticated young woman who made an amazing transition.
Indecisive, Lenu wanted to advance and eventually move away. She wanted to gravitate to a better life, away from her violent surroundings, and the anger that permeated her young adult friends, who unlike her, were not educated, and spoke in dialect. She wanted to be around people with like-minded ideas. She knew her desires could only be achieved through education. She was confused about boyfriends, and like most teens, did not have a secure identity, or a positive sense of self.
Ferrante’s writing style is very visual and emotional. I relived some of my own childhood angst concerning physical and emotional changes during puberty, friendships, and competitiveness.
The book refers to ‘spoken in dialect,’ which is the language spoken by those who were uneducated or did not attend secondary school and learn formal Italian.
The word concrete was used a number of times throughout the book, which I think refers to things we know through our senses that are touchable and tangible.
I enjoyed reading My Brilliant Friend. I gave the book five stars.
The novel involved the lives of Elena Greco (Lenu), and Rafaela Cerullo (Lila). The girls resided in a poverty-stricken area of Naples, Italy, post Second World War, early 1950s. The Black Market was still in existence and some families gained power and status in their neighborhood.
As a patriarchal society, women were sometimes subjected to daily domestic violence. After a chain reaction of violent events that begun in the streets, wives bore the brunt of their husbands’ displaced anger in the home. Parents were often harsh and punitive toward their children in an atmosphere of a scarcity of food, loss of hope and a great level of violence in their community.
Lila and Lenu’s friendship was begun around the age of six. There were no similarities in the girls’ personalities. Lenu, the narrator, knew early on Lila, clever, competitive and stubborn, would be the uncontested leader in social and girlhood activities. Lila appeared bold and adventuresome, rebellious and defiant, whereas Lenu showed timidity and caution.
An outspoken Lila challenged their teacher, Maestra Oliviero, and disrupted the class; unafraid of the consequences. Lila seemed good at suppressing her emotions. But Maestra Oliviero discovered Lila was brilliant. There was nothing Lila couldn’t learn or do. She surpassed all of her classmates, and became Maestra Oliviero’s favorite.
Lenu worked harder to reach Lila’s academic level. Yet Lila always exceeded, leaving Lenu feeling anxious.
By their middle years, Lenu was beset by fears of her mother, whom she disliked, wanting her to quit school and get a job or stay home and help out. Maestra Oliviero intervened more than once, informing her parents Lenu would have a brighter future if she remained in school.
During adolescence, Lila, probably bored, quit school to work in her father’s shoe repair store. She and her brother, Rino, secretly attempted to build a business designing and making shoes.
Lenu showed absolute alliance and loyalty to her best friend, Lila. She studied harder to prove herself on Lila’s level, welcoming the interest of their instructor, Maestra Oliviera. The girls still competed, with Lila continuing her studies on her own at home, and continuing to override Lenu’s achievements at school.
Lenu spent time in Ischia during her fifteenth year, and became beset with a moral dilemma that she never shared with Lila.
The depth of Lenu’s emotional feelings, especially anxiety are real. I wondered if she would outgrow her feelings of inadequacy concerning Lila.
The reactions of the young men in their circle, Rino, Antonio, and Enzo, are heartfelt, raw, and palpable concerning disrespect toward female family members and friends. Anger often spewed uncontrollably. Their valor appeared intense and unwavering.
Although smart and well-read, Lila, toughened and hardened by the ‘mean streets’ of Naples, grew to be a sophisticated young woman who made an amazing transition.
Indecisive, Lenu wanted to advance and eventually move away. She wanted to gravitate to a better life, away from her violent surroundings, and the anger that permeated her young adult friends, who unlike her, were not educated, and spoke in dialect. She wanted to be around people with like-minded ideas. She knew her desires could only be achieved through education. She was confused about boyfriends, and like most teens, did not have a secure identity, or a positive sense of self.
Ferrante’s writing style is very visual and emotional. I relived some of my own childhood angst concerning physical and emotional changes during puberty, friendships, and competitiveness.
The book refers to ‘spoken in dialect,’ which is the language spoken by those who were uneducated or did not attend secondary school and learn formal Italian.
The word concrete was used a number of times throughout the book, which I think refers to things we know through our senses that are touchable and tangible.
I enjoyed reading My Brilliant Friend. I gave the book five stars.
The world which Elena and Lila live in is a hard one and Elena tells us that it is ‘a world in which children and adults were often wounded, blood flowed from the wounds, they festered, and sometimes people died […] our world was like that, full of words that killed: croup, typhus, gas, war, lathe, rubble, work, bombardment, bomb, tuberculosis, infection.’ Even as children they are not exempt from the violence all around them; after Lila’s arm is broken by her father the only reflection is that ‘Fathers could do that and other things to impudent girls’.
Within the neighbourhood Lila is in control, a fearless, almost feral child with ‘a gaze that appeared not very childlike and perhaps not even human’ who is determined to overcome her circumstances. The dynamics of the relationship, where Lila leads and Elena follows, are turned on their head the first time they venture outside, when Lila’s nerve gives out while Elena has the revelation that ‘distance – I discovered for the first time – extinguished in me every tie and every worry’. It is through education – at the insistence of her elementary school teacher, Elena is allowed to progress – that the boundaries of this world can be stretched, but for Lila’s father this is an impossibility, and so at ten years old Lila must leave school and begin the life it is expected of her to live.
The passions and uncertainty of childhood are captured brilliantly; the fear and determination, the utter seriousness with which they take the world are all there on the page. As they progress into adolescence and their paths diverge, with Elena continuing through first middle and then high school, there develop new tensions between them. Not only the girls but the whole community is changing, ‘quivering, arching upwards as if to change its characteristics, not to be known by the accumulated hatreds, tensions, ugliness but, rather, to show a new face.’ There is new prosperity to be had – cars, electricity, even, if a girl plays her cards right and marries well, ‘hot water that came from the taps, and a house not rented but owned.’
Negotiating this world is now Lila’s task and adulthood seems suddenly thrust upon her. 14 is not too young to be engaged to a man in his 20s, and Lila turns her precociousness to making the most of the limited opportunities she has. Elena on the other hand must balance the demands of two competing worlds, while struggling without Lila, who ‘knew how to be autonomous whereas I needed her’. The world outside is an unknown place and seems filled with possibilities, but Elena is also a teenage girl who wants nothing more than to fit in at home, to be accepted and not to be left behind by Lila who she sees as entering womanhood before her.
I could go on and on about this book. It is the story of a friendship, but it is so much more than that. It brilliantly captures the time and place and presents the reader with a fully realized world, full of conflicts and history and danger and also love and friendship. Ferrante’s writing is crisp and precise, evoking the intensity of childhood and adolescence but without ever being subsumed by them. I am quite sure that this will be the best book I read this month and it will be in strong competition for my favourite of the year – and that’s in a year of highly impressive books.
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One of the things that helps the girls to do this is their friendship, which evolves through several phases, many marked with ambiguity (including the intriguing question of which is the brilliant one). Later on, there are relationships with boys to complicate matters (at one point, I realised I was thoroughly confused as to the identity of the narrator's current boyfriend - which is perhaps the effect that the writer intended). I greatly enjoyed the story, finishing it in a rush, and look forward to the next volume in the series.
The two have been friends since their childhood in a dense working-class neighbourhood of Naples, where most families were poor and envious and resentful of those who were better off in their own small district, let alone of those in the prosperous parts of Naples. Lina is the dominant of the two: a rebel at school and the leader in daredevil exploits. During their childhood Leni, though often fearful, copies her in almost everything.
There was much violence in the neighbourhood (in one case murderous), and fierce feuds, both among adults and among the children at school – but never between Leni and Lila: Leni had come to accept that Lina would always be first and she second. Lila also had a cruel streak, but Leni never asserted herself for fear of losing Lila’s friendship.
There is much about the relationships between the children at the elementary school and between them and their teachers. Lila was never popular at school – she was too clever, too aggressive, and was skinny and dirty. Leni, on the other hand, was much in demand. She filled out and reached puberty long before Lila did.
Both girls were recommended to take the test for going on to middle school. Lila’s parents refused to pay for the extra preparatory lessons and she could not take the test; but Leni did well in it. Lila did not take it well. She quarrelled violently with her family until her father literally threw her out of a window and she broke her arm.
The dominance of Lila continues in the second part, “Adolescence”. Of course adolescence is a turbulent and confusing period, with frequent changes of mood and of boyfriends. In this book, I found them quite bewildering, especially as two of Leni’s three boy friends were, I thought, distinguishable only by their names. Leni is still dependent on Lila, though Leni has gone on to high school while Lila worked in her father’s shoe-repair shop with her elder brother Rino, who turned from being a rather gentle person into one who was often physically violent towards her. (The shoes they make play a big part in the story.)
When she knew that Leni was studying first Latin, then Greek and then English, Lila taught herself those, too, and was quicker at them than Leni was. Leni did exceptionally well at school by her own efforts - it is never quite clear which of the two of them is the “brilliant friend” - but, whenever Lila was not the spur, Leni attached little value to her own achievements.
We follow their ever-shifting relationships with each other and with various young men. Though Lila had developed physically later than Leni, when Lila did catch up, she became more attractive to the young men than Leni was, and created enormous tensions between her admirers. (At that stage, the girls are only fourteen. The two of them also discuss Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky.) From one of these admirers, a communist, Lila learnt how practically everyone in the neighbourhood had been, in one way or another, compromised during the fascist period. But she yields to none of the young men, and is positively hostile to one of them who, better off than the others, is something of a cock of the walk in the neighbourhood and whose advances to her are favoured by her parents, impressed by the gifts he brought on every visit.
On the rebound from the cock of the walk, Lila became friendly with one of his rivals, who ran a grocery shop but had also inherited a lot of wealth from his late father who had been a black-marketeer during the war. In the end, Lila became engaged to him. She became transformed into a fashionable young woman, living in a different world from Leni or indeed from that of her family and neighbours. She ceased to be interested in discussing Leni’s academic work with her. She dismisses Leni’s worries about theology with remarks that are astonishingly precocious for a girl of then fifteen. Leni felt that her academic achievements were worthless.
But Leni became deeply involved, at Lila’s request, in preparation for the wedding, at the same time as she felt, agonisingly, that the wedding would finally separate the two of them. The novel ends with the wedding and the celebratory meal in a restaurant. It is a whirlwind of all the names in the book. Leni feels distant from them all, from the entire society in which she has grown up.
There is a Prologue, in which Lila’s 40 year old son contacts Leni to tell her that his mother had disappeared. Nowhere in the book is there any link to this Prologue. Perhaps the later volumes in the Tetralogy will relate to it – but I have no wish to read them. I cannot share the enthusiasm of so many readers.
















