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My Real-Life Rom-Com: How to Build Confidence and Write Your Own Relationship Rules Paperback – September 19, 2023
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Navigating dating as a teen is tough. My Real-Life Rom-Com tells it like it is. Written by twenty-year-old TikTok star and journalist Carrie Berk, this book is a resource you can turn to for any and all questions and concerns about coming-of-age love and heartbreak. Carrie shares her dating adventures (and misadventures) to help you discover more about yourself and the relationship you deserve.
How do you meet someone in a post-pandemic world? Are dating apps a good idea? When do you know if you’re really ready for sex? My Real-Life Rom-Com is filled with helpful information on everything from first kisses to devastating breakups. What if you develop a crush on your best friend’s ex? Or you’re catching feelings for an older guy? Carrie has been there, done that.
This book is packed with humor and advice that takes the edge off uncomfortable conversations. Prepare to laugh at dozens of dating disasters experienced during middle and high school. Like the date who had a fly stuck in his tooth. Or the guy who had his mommy send a breakup text.
Through Carrie’s unflinchingly honest stories, you’ll learn how to get over your first breakup; understand the art of the “situationship;” make smart, not impulsive decisions; and ultimately love yourself before loving someone else.
Ready to build your own real-life rom-com? Start here!
Be sure to follow Carrie on Instagram, TikTok, Pinterest, YouTube, and Snapchat: @carrieberkk
- Número de páginas256 páginas
- IdiomaInglés
- EditorialPost Hill Press
- Fecha de publicación19 Septiembre 2023
- Edad de lecturaDe 14 a 17 años
- Dimensiones6 x 0.7 x 9 pulgadas
- ISBN-13979-8888450529
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“Carrie poured her heart and soul into her solo debut book, with a fresh, vulnerable take on the trials and tribulations of finding love that everyone can relate to.” -- Ariel “Baby Ariel” Martin, TikTok Star (36.2M followers)
“I’ve known Carrie since our early days in social media. She has a gift for connecting with teens and making them feel seen. This book is a must-read for teenagers.” -- Zoe Laverne, TikTok Star (22M followers)
“Dating as a teen was so hard. Reading Carrie’s dating guide really opened up my eyes and gave me such good advice! I think we could all use some love advice in our life, and this book is amazing for that.” -- Danielle Cohn, TikTok Star (19.3M followers)
“The struggles, success stories, and advice surrounding dating are often told from an adult’s perspective. However, as a teen, it’s comfortable and relatable to read advice and hear stories from a teen’s perspective. I’m even more thrilled to have it come from Carrie’s perspective. She is such a talented writer whom I have read for years.” -- Jenna Davis, Raven’s Home on Disney Channel
“Carrie is an unbelievable writer. Her skills are unmatched. A teen book is much-needed, especially right now. Every teen experience is different, and people can learn from Carrie’s mistakes and successes.” -- McKenzi Brooke, TikTok Star (16.5M followers)
“Carrie is a wonderful person that has a lot of insight on people and relationships. She has given me and my girlfriend amazing advice and wise words.” -- Ayden Mekus, TikTok and YouTube Star (13.2M followers)
“Carrie is like a big sister! She is always there when I need advice about boys.” -- GiaNina Paolantonio, Dance Moms, TikTok Star (2.9M followers)
“Anyone who knows Carrie can tell how sweet and sensitive she is. It’s easy to see why she would have the best advice. Carrie is one of the kindest, caring, and loyal people you’ll meet! She’s a people person, and I trust any advice she gives me on relationships.” -- Sophia Gennusa, Tony Award Winner for Matilda
“Carrie’s writing is always so relatable. She’s seen it all, and what she writes about holds true to so many people. She is a very talented young woman, and I can’t wait to read the book!” -- Sway Bhatia, Succession, The Mighty Ducks: Game Changers
About the Author
Berk is a bestselling children’s book author with twenty-one books to her credit. She penned her first book, Peace, Love and Cupcakes, in 2012. The Cupcake Club series went on to publish twelve books (selling over 300,000 copies worldwide), and became an award-winning Off-Broadway show and featured selection in 2017’s New York Musical Festival. Her second series, Fashion Academy, stems from her passion for fashion. The six-book series also became an Off-Broadway production at Vital Theatre and is currently licensed worldwide by Concord Music Publishing. She also published a three-book series, Ask Emma.
She is a verified content creator with 3.8 million followers on TikTok and 880,000 on Instagram, with a combined engagement of more than 100 million. You can follow her @carrieberkk.
Product details
- ASIN : B0BWWM4VZ6
- Editorial : Post Hill Press (19 Septiembre 2023)
- Idioma : Inglés
- Tapa blanda : 256 páginas
- ISBN-13 : 979-8888450529
- Edad de lectura : De 14 a 17 años
- Dimensiones : 6 x 0.7 x 9 pulgadas
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,988,032 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- Customer Reviews:
About the author

Twenty-year-old Carrie Berk already has a life’s worth of accomplishments under her belt. It’s no wonder Bella Magazine declared her “an ambitious and dedicated boss babe,” and The Wall Street Journal dubbed her “a community-minded young creator.”
She is a verified content creator across several social media channels including TikTok (3.9M+ followers; 117M+ likes), Instagram (950K+ followers), Snapchat (105K+followers), YouTube (100K+ followers) and Pinterest (227K+ followers; 10M monthly views), with a monthly engagement of more than 100M.
A journalism major in college, Carrie is currently a reporter/contributing writer for HuffPost, Newsweek.com, The Daily Dot and others, on topics ranging from beauty and style to celebrity and sports. She has served as an on-camera correspondent for TigerBeat and Girls’ Life, covering red carpet arrivals and interviewing celebs at the Radio Disney Music Awards, New York Fashion Week, and the Teen Choice Awards. She has contributed to Seventeen Magazine and Girls’ Life’s print and digital channels.
She has acted on two Brat TV series, Stage Fright (as Karina) and Crown Lake (as the voice of Heather).
She is a bestselling children’s book author with twenty-one books to her credit. She penned her first book, Peace, Love and Cupcakes, in 2012. The Cupcake Club series went on to publish twelve books (selling 300,000+ copies worldwide), and became an award-winning Off-Broadway show and featured selection in 2017’s New York Musical Festival. Her second book, Fashion Academy, stems from her passion for fashion. The six-book series also became an Off-Broadway production at Vital Theatre and is currently licensed worldwide by Concord Music Publishing.
Finally Ask Emma (a three-book series for Bonnier) was based on Carrie’s firsthand experience as a teen blogger and her dedication to being a role model for positive posting. She is a dedicated anti-bullying activist and an advocate for mental health awareness, especially for teens and women.
An avid runner, she ran the New York City Marathon in November, 2022.
Instagram:@carrieberkk
TikTok: @carrieberkk
Pinterest: @carrieberkk
Youtube: @carrieberkk
Website:https://www.carrieberk.com
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- Reviewed in the United States on September 29, 2023Blown away by how well written this story was told. Real emotions were jumping off the pages, so many times I wanted to reach out and hug the author! My favorite attribute about the book was that every chapter gave an invaluable lesson on self worth and growth. An absolute need to read for all.
- Reviewed in the United States on October 6, 2023Great read, definitely worth the wait. As each page turned, I could not wait for the next chapter. Very insightful, well thought out, real and full of self growth.
Can’t wait for the next book. I think we need to see a sequel !
- Reviewed in the United States on February 17, 2024Even though I am not the target demographic for this book, I enjoyed it! The beginning of the book can be hard to relate to if you didn’t grow up in an affluent household but once you get past that, it feels like you are having a girl chat with your bff. This book had a good balance of humor and advice, and I admired Carrie’s honesty. As Carrie describes her dating adventures, so many women could relate to her experiences as they navigate the world of dating. There were some really good messages and advice throughout the book, and I liked the reinforcement of making smart decisions when dating. I really enjoyed the way the book wrapped up, and the overall message. I would recommend this book for older teens and young adults. This would make a great gift!
Favorite quote: “self-love was the key to loving someone else.”
- Reviewed in the United States on May 11, 2024Trash advice for young readers.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 19, 2023Not only a great story to learn from but so we’ll written and fun to read
- Reviewed in the United States on November 11, 2023My Real-Life RomCom is a nonfiction memoir from social media influencer Carrie Berk that discusses romance, intimacy and her past relationships in the world of social media.
This was a fun nonfiction read. Carrie presented her previous relationships in a way that was engaging and insightful, with each chapter being dedicated to a different “lesson” or piece of advice. While this book mainly addresses straight relationships between a male and female partner as it’s a reflection of the author’s personal relationships, I would have liked to have seen more gender neutrality or inclusion of LGTBQIA+ identities in this book, particularly in the areas where relationship advice is being given as the partners were always referred to as “he/him”.
Overall this was a three star read for me. A fun and engaging nonfiction read. As this is a nonfiction book, no rating will be given for spice
If you’re a fan of memoirs that discuss relationships, romance and the perils of social media, then absolutely pick this one up!
- Reviewed in the United States on October 21, 2023“My Real-Life Rom-Com” is a fast-paced and fun guide to dating. This book is full of humor and advice that make uncomfortable conversations a little easier. In addition to Carrie’s dating stories, she also shares tips on dating lingo, when to “swipe left,” date night ideas, and so much more. Although I’m married now, I can relate to many of Carrie’s dating disasters as a teen. In today’s social media-infused world, we typically only see the “highlight reel,” where everyone shares their best moments. Carrie’s openness and honesty were refreshing and very much appreciated.
CW: mentions of sex, underage drinking, and recreational drug use
- Reviewed in the United States on October 17, 2023this book is such an incredible resource for, well, anybody really! im married and i read this and it was so good. its packed full of girl-to-girl advice through her first hand experiences and reading it was like talking to a bff about all the things💗
when the cover says ‘how to build confidence and write your own relationship rules’ - it MEANS it 🌸 it also touched on mental health, which i find so amazing
id recommend this to anyone single, seeking, dating, married! it was such a fun, quick read 💛
this book is such an incredible resource for, well, anybody really! im married and i read this and it was so good. its packed full of girl-to-girl advice through her first hand experiences and reading it was like talking to a bff about all the things💗
when the cover says ‘how to build confidence and write your own relationship rules’ - it MEANS it 🌸 it also touched on mental health, which i find so amazing
id recommend this to anyone single, seeking, dating, married! it was such a fun, quick read 💛
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