I am a male who works in the mental health field and so I consider myself very aware in the areas of social justice, feminist theory, and how socialization affects genders, ethnic and other groups. I was shocked at how many of my own blind spots were illuminated by reading the stats and analyses in this book.
What I appreciate most is that this book presents facts that are difficult to argue with and speak for themselves. In fact, I think that if there was a "cliffs notes" version of this book that included only the stats then it might be even more influential to some who have a closed mind to the idea that men actually have it quite rough in our country.
I found myself thinking about how many times I have heard men be labeled as the "privileged" gender, as if it were that black and white and always easier to be a man. Now I finally know why those conversations always seemed severely oversimplified.
One recent reviewer simply said "A whiney book". I think this is a good example of Dr. Farrell's thesis. When a woman writes a book about how women are treated unfairly, it is usually called feminist progress, strength, courage, activism, advocacy, and a step towards equality. When a man writes a book about how men are treated unfairly, someone calls it "whining" in an attempt to mock/shame men into silence and not speaking up for change, by applying a label (whiner) that implies weakness for expressing vulnerability.
To any woman who feels confused about why men might be angrier than she would like, I urge you to read this book. As comes up over and over again in this book, most men want most of all to have female love, and we base our lives on how to obtain it and prevent losing it. As Dr. Farrell points out, teenage boys suffer more emotionally than girls when a breakup of a love relationship occurs, and men are far more likely to commit suicide when left by a woman than the other way around. I think most of us men don't even realize how powerless we feel to get women to appreciate us, especially since society is constantly telling us how powerful we are. If you want a loving connection with a man, this book might help you build empathy and appreciation for them, which could be a good step.
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The Myth of Male Power: Why Men Are the Disposable Sex Hardcover – August 1, 1993
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Editorial Reviews
From Publishers Weekly
Men who make their way through the interminable subtitle and embark on this orignal and significant study will find that they haven't lost the ability to cry after all. While some feminists may assert that it is an attack on women, the book attempts to show areas in which males operate at a disadvantage without claiming that women are responsible for their plight. Psychologist Farrell stresses economics, pointing out that the 25 worst types of jobs, involving the highest physical risk, are almost all filled by men. He also considers warfare, in which virtually all of the military casualties are men; the justice system, where sentences for males are customarily heavier; and sexual harassment, which has become a one-way street. He concludes with helpful advice on "resocializing" the male child, adolescent and adult. Clever cartoons enliven the text.
Copyright 1993 Reed Business Information, Inc.
Copyright 1993 Reed Business Information, Inc.
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This seminal work challenges, debunks, and redirects many of the paradigms held about men and their relationships with women. Farrell ( The Liberated Man , LJ 2/1/75; Why Men Are The Way They Are , LJ 9/1/86) calls for a gender transition movement not specifically limited to men or feminists. He shows how men's workshops and feminist organizations promulgate sexism and support limited goals while not fully addressing the issues and responsibilities involved in fully empowering both sexes. Farrell's endnotes are more diversified and complete than many dissertations. This title is more important to the male/female relationship discussion than Robert Bly's Iron John ( LJ 11/15/90), Michael Gurian's The Prince and the King ( LJ 7/92), Sam Keen's Fire in the Belly ( LJ 2/15/91), or any of Betty Friedan's works (e.g., The Feminine Mystique , LJ 1/1/63). Recommended for all public and academic libraries.
- Scott Johnson, Meridian Community Coll. Lib., Miss.
Copyright 1993 Reed Business Information, Inc.
- Scott Johnson, Meridian Community Coll. Lib., Miss.
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From Kirkus Reviews
The War Between the Sexes escalates considerably with this broadside attack in which men's-movement leader Farrell (Why Men Are the Way They Are, 1986, etc.) contends that the more subjugated sex is...the male. Farrell was on the board of directors of NOW in N.Y.C. until he realized that he'd ``been listening to women but not...to men.'' What he finally heard from men--and from his research into socioeconomic issues--is explosive. Through numerous short-take paragraphs, Farrell--armed with hundreds of thoroughly documented statistics and legal citings--argues that men are oppressed by several ``glass cellars,'' among them war (in which it's mainly men who die); suicide (``A husband whose wife dies is about ten times more likely to commit suicide than a wife whose husband dies''); and ``the death professions'' (``The Jobs Related Almanac...found that twenty-four of the twenty-five worst jobs were almost-all-male jobs''). He emphasizes that women live, on average, seven years longer than men, and that men's health issues, unlike women's, are basically ignored. He contends that women's net worth exceeds men's, and that economic power, if measured by spending rather than by earning, belongs primarily to women (``Both sexes buy more for women''). Farrell accuses government of becoming a ``substitute husband'' through welfare and through discriminating in favor of women in cases of murder, sexual harassment, and rape; castigates current laws regarding date rape and spousal rape; and claims that many accusations of rape are false. Finally, he predicts that the ``mythopoetic'' men's movement will become ``political and activist''--a prediction he seems to be trying to fulfill through this book. Farrell's claimed aim is to heal through rebalancing, not to wound. But as a veteran of confrontational TV (Oprah, Donahue, etc.) and other media, he must know that this work will cause far more dissension than dialogue--and that its very provocativeness may well make it the hottest men's book since Iron John. (Illustrations) -- Copyright ©1993, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved.
About the Author
Warren Farrell taught at the School of Medicine at the University of California at San Diego, and also taught psychology, sociology, and political science at Georgetown, Rutgers, and Brooklyn College.
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- Publisher : Simon & Schuster; First Edition (August 1, 1993)
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Well-written, powerful, paradigm-shifting - would recommend for both men and women
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I think it is fair to write that this book is one of the most socially significant books ever written. The author took a tremendous personal risk writing this, and no doubt has suffered from some personal backlash as a result. He has put into words a topic that many males are speaking about in private, but rarely convey their feelings publicly. Ironic, because that is exactly what this book is about.
The author has pulled together chapter after chapter of examples of male expendability. Everything from high risk jobs gathering resources for others, high risk jobs protecting others including military service, the amount of money spent on health issues that are unique to males, suicide statistics across cultures, homelessness statistics, reproductive rights, child custody rights, etc. Issues that affect males, but are rarely spoken of, in great part because we have learned not to speak of them.
This book is one of those rare gems that will leave the reader angered, or feeling like they've woken up from a life time of slumber. An affirmation for those who have already started the process of pondering their place in the world as a male.
The author has pulled together chapter after chapter of examples of male expendability. Everything from high risk jobs gathering resources for others, high risk jobs protecting others including military service, the amount of money spent on health issues that are unique to males, suicide statistics across cultures, homelessness statistics, reproductive rights, child custody rights, etc. Issues that affect males, but are rarely spoken of, in great part because we have learned not to speak of them.
This book is one of those rare gems that will leave the reader angered, or feeling like they've woken up from a life time of slumber. An affirmation for those who have already started the process of pondering their place in the world as a male.
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Must read for your sons. Men are not the enemy...
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The author began his intellectual life as an advocate for rights and liberation for women, but slowly came to realize that men were equally trapped in their roles and had no advocate. As he began to explore men's predicament, he was shunned by the women's movement. This book is the result of his exploration. It is the most complete discussion of why men are forced to be the way they are and why our society will not allow them to change.
This book is not a quick, light read. However, it is thought-provoking and worth the time.
This book is not a quick, light read. However, it is thought-provoking and worth the time.
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Thia book really got me to thinking of how I lool at the opposite sex. It also enables me to have more empathy and compassion towards struggles that are typically geared toward races.it really helps emphasize how we are all fighting a similar fight and can help one another along the way.
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Obligatory reading for all male feminists out there. But beware, you may get redpilled.
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This book is one of the most well known books about men's issues in history. It's easy to see why. Warren Farrell goes into complete detail about men's issues and shows people about the other side of the equation that we usually ignore. It manages to get people to understand that men have issues to and society should be attempting to help them.
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So much good information here that bit is hard to describe it all. The author did a great job of destroying the myth of male power.
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Alex
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Landmark Study, Written in the 90's but even more relevant today.
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on August 17, 2018Verified Purchase
Probably the most rational book on the topic of gender relations, similarities and differences ever written. Farrell goes to great length disarming irrational feminists and gives an honest, unbiased account of 'How men freed women but forgot to free themselves'. Farrell is a gentleman and a scholar 10/10
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Mr. S. Lau
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A brilliant and worthy read: How Men are still oppressed whilst women have both benefits of Equality & traditionalism.
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 4, 2016Verified Purchase
A masterpiece of the 90s updated in part for 2015. x
Very detailed and brilliant citations, focusing on themes of how Western (and in fact almost all civilizations today) focus societies laws and welfare systems with a heavy dose of Gynocentrism (favouring women and girls at all costs, beyond fairness) and the blight of Feminism on Western civilization.
Useful for Moms and Dads of Sons who will grow up to face a dark and uncertain future if they are not from a very highly priveliged and well connected background (financial & political power).
Very detailed and brilliant citations, focusing on themes of how Western (and in fact almost all civilizations today) focus societies laws and welfare systems with a heavy dose of Gynocentrism (favouring women and girls at all costs, beyond fairness) and the blight of Feminism on Western civilization.
Useful for Moms and Dads of Sons who will grow up to face a dark and uncertain future if they are not from a very highly priveliged and well connected background (financial & political power).
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Eric Johansson
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Horrifyingly misogynistic
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 25, 2021Verified Purchase
Horrifyingly misogynistic. Farrell strings together a myths and cases that seemingly have nothing to do with each other (mostly cause they don’t) to make the argument that men are done in badly by women. It’s also a case of a book in serious need of an editor as there are repetitions aplenty in it.
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An important text for every MGTOW or MRA.
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on October 18, 2016Verified Purchase
Farrel's classic text is more readable than many of the tomes that discuss gender politics. It is also the, perhaps unacknowledged, forefather of the latest wave in Men's Rights. The themes of The Disposable Male and of Hypergamy had their original theorisation here. An important text for every MGTOW or MRA or for that matter any woman who wants to understand the blind spots within the feminist project, and the growing separation between the sexes.
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ANNA POLNA
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a must read for everyone who claims men have it better.
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on November 23, 2016Verified Purchase
Bought this as a gift for my partner and had a read myself. This is a very well informed book, a must read for everyone who claims men have it better.
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