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The Nice Girl's Guide to Talking Dirty: Ignite Your Sex Life with Naughty Whispers, Hot Desires, and Screams of Passion Paperback – July 12, 2011

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About the Author

Dr. Ruth Neustifter holds a Ph.D. in family development and specializes in intimacy and sexuality. She is a university professor, relationship coach and respected sex educator.

She has taught workshops on relationships and sexuality in venues ranging from independent sexuality boutiques to university classrooms and international conferences in the United States, Canada, Mexico and Europe.

She is an exclusive product video-reviewer for Babeland.com and is producing a series of brief educational videos for Funwares.com, another major vendor of sexuality products. She is a “faculty member” at KinkAcademy.com and has blogged at ExploringIntimacy.com for over two year years. Recently she launched a second blog dedicated to talking dirty. Her Twitter following is under a year old and already has over 1,000 followers.
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Product Details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Amorata Press (July 12, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 9781569759387
  • ISBN-13: 978-1569759387
  • ASIN: 1569759383
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.5 x 8.4 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (43 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #244,813 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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This is the first instructional relationship book I have read and I simply loved it. Not only did it reinforce the dirty talker within me, but it also allowed me to think about WHY I talk dirty the way I do as well as WHY it gets my man and me going. This book is not only about flirting, but rather about every aspect from which the practice of dirty, intimate talking derives. If a person is shy, then Dr Ruthie suggests approaches. If a person is insecure, she suggests other approaches. There are various issues at hand in this book that are clearly analyzed and improved upon.

The book flowed really well. The writing was gentle and yet detailed enough to educate the novices and the experts at the same time. Every page left me inspired and pushed me to want to try out new things that Dr. Ruthie suggests. This book is for every lady (and man) who wants her relationship and sex life to be as fulfilling as it can be. Her focus is on relationships and how communication is key- especially in the bedroom!

I adore this book. I have dog-eared pages and highlighted empowering quotes throughout it. I think I will start passing it out to some of my girlfriends- but not before I read it again!
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I was hoping to learn a new language but what I got instead was many reasons why its okay to talk dirty, why men like it, and why I should start talking dirty to my man. Ok…so I was already at that point before I purchased the book. I was thinking to myself how I would like to turn on my man by talking dirty to him but I just didn't know what to say. This book does give lots of suggestions based on what you like as a couple, how you should talk and it does give one on going dirty talk conversation example through out the book but I was looking for specifics, such as 101 dirty phrases, which to my knowledge has not been written yet. Only buy this book if you need convincing that you should talk dirty. Don't buy this book if you are looking for examples of dirty talk.
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I "met" Dr. Ruthie on Twitter and was immediately impressed with her online educational videos and knowledge. This is a fantastic book for so many reasons, but the book title does a great job trying to summarize that IF YOU ARE a GOOD GIRL, a "normal", not "overly sexed" woman, who perhaps finds some sex books a bit over the top or not quite where you're at, then this is the book for you.

This book could very well be a relationship saver. I'm not saying that for those extremely troubled relationships, but for the vast majority of relationships in America struggling with a busy life and not enough time together. I hope more couples heat up their cell phones and email inboxes with this book!

If you're a little nervous ordering this book that is a GREAT SIGN you are an ideal reader. I promise you won't be disappointed (nor will your significant other!)

Gift Ideas for this book:
Engagement or wedding
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Your shy friend who wants more in the bedroom
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I initially started this book expecting it to be an interesting and provocative read but with little expectation that I would be able to identify with it. I was quickly surprised to find myself relating to many of the descriptions of what constitutes a "nice girl" and the sexual hang-ups associated with that mindset. Many things that Dr. Neustifter discussed resonated with me on a personal level and it set me at ease to discover that my thoughts, actions, and feelings were not unique and therefore it may actually be possible to overcome the obstacles that prevented me from verbally expressing whatever sexual thoughts I was having mentally.

What sets this book apart is the inclusion of exercises and a summary of key points at the end of each chapter. A person can read this book as a source of information, or, should they choose to, a workbook to help think outside the box and put the tips into practice. Since not everyone is easily able to jump into the practice of comfortably talking dirty, the Nice Girl's Guide eases into the process by taking time to discuss the foundations of talking dirty such as building confidence and the importance of honesty, intimacy, and communication with your partner. The actual act of talking dirty isn't covered until later in the book after the foundations for its successful execution have been thoroughly discussed. By the time the reader gets there it feels more comfortable to experiment with dialogue, fantasies, etc.

I am very thankful for this book; I feel like I read it at a critical time in my life and at times that it was written exclusively for me. I recommend this book to every nice girl who is looking to discover the nuances and facets of dirty talk while understanding that doing so in no way compromises the things that make her "nice." Talking dirty not only gives nice girls a personal sense of accomplishment but will undoubtedly enhance their interactions with a partner.
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I was hoping for some ideas to help spice up my romantic vocabulary, what I got was something childish and immature. The examples of "dirty talk" seem to have been concocted by an eighth grader, not a mature adult. The examples range from childish (for those who need an anatomy lesson) to the darkest corners of porn (disturbing, revolting and down right disrespectful). We got a good laugh though, so it's got that going for it.
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