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Normal Is Just a Setting on the Dryer Hardcover – January 1, 2004

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ BARNES & NOBLE (January 1, 2004)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 192 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0760765324
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0760765326
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 7.7 ounces
  • Customer Reviews:
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Adair Lara
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Adair Lara started her career writing for local magazines--first at San Francisco Focus, the city magazine, and then at SF, a design magazine at which she passed herself off as someone passionately interested in interior design. She wrote freelance humor pieces for the San Francisco Chronicle Sunday section, and in 1989 they invited her to join the staff and write a regular column of my own. The newspaper was famed then for its columnists, which include Pulitzer Prize winners Stanton Delaplane, Charles McCabe, and Herb Caen. She has published some ten books or so, including several collections of columns (for more information, go to http://www.adairlara.com). Her essays have been anthologized upwards of fifty times.

She has won a wide range of awards including:

* 1990: Associated Press, Best Columnist in California.

* 1997: Humor Columns for Newspapers over 100,000, National Society of Newspaper Columnists

* 1998: First place, general interest columns, National Society of Newspaper Columnists.

* 1999: Second place, commentary, American Association of Sunday and Feature editors contest, competing against papers with circulation over 300,000.

* May 17, 2002 was declared Adair Lara Day in San Francisco by proclamation of Mayor Willie Brown

Published books include:

* Naked, Drunk, and Writing (Ten Speed Press, 2010)

* The Granny Diaries (Chronicle Books, 2008)

* The Bigger the Sign, the Worse the Garage Sale (Chronicle Books, 2007)

* You Know You're A Writer When (Chronicle Books, 2007)

* Oopise! Ouchie! (Chronicle Books, 2004) - a board book for kids

* Normal is Just a Setting on the Dryer Chronicle Books (2003)

* Hanging out the Wash (Redwheelweiser, 2002) - sold 11,043 copies

* Slowing Down in a Speeded-Up World (Redwheelweiser, 2002) - sold 18,061 copies

* Hold Me Close, Let Me Go (Broadway Books, 2001) - sold 22,000 copies in hardcover and paperback

* The Best of Adair Lara (Scottwall Associates, 1999) - sold 19,500 copies

* At Adair's House (Chronicle Books, 1995)

* Welcome to Earth, Mom (Chronicle Books, 1992)

Praise for Hold Me Close, Let Me Go

The thrilling level of honesty and discovery burned into every line of Hold Me Close, Let Me Go is something that rarely informs a memoir of any kind. In this case, Adair Lara has transcended the genre of self to achieve selflessness. Her story of her struggle, the mistakes, the triumphs, the abiding love and pure anguish to save her brilliant and self-destructive daughter is a must read for anyone who loves a child, or ever hopes to love a child. Not every child will follow Morgan's stormy passage to redemption, but many will, and for any parent, Lara's book will be a beacon.

--Jacqueline Mitchard, author of The Deep End of the Ocean

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  • Reviewed in the United States on December 23, 2023
    This book is a bunch of funny jokes lifhtvheated not what I expected but just fun quick read to help you feel a little more positively a nice book to read with or gobble To a friend
  • Reviewed in the United States on June 11, 2022
    I simply HAD to capture screenshots of several gems of wisdom to share with family, friends, acquaintances and former coworkers, some of whom might have seen reflections of lives lived incompletely. And laughed about it.
  • Reviewed in the United States on June 16, 2022
    Not all that funny. There were a few items that made me chuckle but overall it was a yawn. There are other places to hear these things like Facebook. There is very little value for the money here.
  • Reviewed in the United States on December 9, 2012
    This is such a fun book. First saw it in my chiropractor's office and fell in love with it. It has many words of wisdom, as well as off-the-wall insights that you can relate to, but don't know always how to express. This book definitely is for people who have a sense of humor and for others that are just trying to get through each day. It definitely will bring a smile to your face just by picking it up.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on July 23, 2011
    Someone gave me this book, but it is definitely worth buying. It's so fun and full of words to live by! "Never have sex if you don't want to." "Never continue dating anyone who is rude to the waiter." My personal fav, "Blame your parents and get on with your life."

    When you need a smile, just open to any page and drink in the wisdom!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on January 5, 2005
    This little book is packed with the advice we wish someone had told us about before we experienced it for ourselves. In the introduction Adair states she asked the people she knew "who live in the real real world what they wished they'd known."

    To say this book was an easy read is an understatement. I whizzed through the 191 pages in two sittings but it could easily have been done in one. The lines are relatable and believable.

    Adair Lara has five books under her belt, three of which are collections from her columns at the San Francisco Chronicle. Lara is not alone on this voyage into the real world. There are over 100 black and white illustrations by Roxanna Bikadoroff to help drive home the importance, realism and humour of each tidbit of advice. The images and quotes work well together.

    My absolute favourite: A woman lounging in a chair with her feet up, nursing a bag of potato chips in front of the TV. Her husband/boyfriend stands in the doorway of the kitchen dumbfounded. The attacted statement reads: Sometimes a woman wants to do nothing about dinner. A man has no concept of that-doing nothing about dinner. -- I thought I was the only one!

    The last page is a list of the real contributors. I would have liked to see their names with the corresponding advice. A note or two about each person would also have been a nice touch.

    Lara has organized a book of sage advice ranging from endearing to flippant and often humorous. In a society that is becoming increasingly solitary, Lara's book pinpoints our simple connection: experience. This would be a handy little book for travelling and discussion groups. Imagine the stories it could evoke.

    "It's ok," I said when `Da Boss' asked me about Adair Lara's new book, "Normal is Just a Setting on the Dryer." This little book is packed with the advice we wish someone had told us about before we experienced it for ourselves. In the introduction Adair states she asked the people she knew "who live in the real real world what they wished they'd known."

    To say this book was an "easy read" is an understatement. I whizzed through the 191 pages in two sittings but it could easily have been done in one. The lines are relatable and believable.

    Adair Lara has five books under her belt, three of which are collections from her columns at the San Francisco Chronicle. Lara is not alone on this voyage into the real world. There are over 100 black and white illustrations by Roxanna Bikadoroff to help drive home the importance, realism and humour of each tidbit of advice.

    The images and quotes work well together. "Forgive yourself the big mistake. It isn't the end of your life. It will not define who you are, unless you stay stuck on it," is an informative reminder but displayed with Bikadoroff's visual of a man contemplating the empty plaque on his wall labelled "The One That Got Away," adds so much more.

    My absolute favourite: A woman lounging in a chair with her feet up, nursing a bag of potato chips in front of the TV. Her husband/boyfriend stands in the doorway of the kitchen dumbfounded. "Sometimes a woman wants to do nothing about dinner. A man has no concept of that-doing nothing about dinner." I thought I was the only one!

    The last page is a list of the real contributors. I would have liked to see their names with the corresponding advice. A note or two about each person would also have been a nice touch.

    After talking with `Da Boss' I put normal out of my mind. Bits and pieces of the Lessons kept coming back to me throughout the day, eventually altering my view from being "ok" to leaving a lasting impression. Lara has organized a book of sage advice ranging from endearing to flippant and often humorous.

    In a society that is becoming increasingly solitary, Lara's book pinpoints our simple connection: experience. This would be a handy little book for travelling and discussion groups.

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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 14, 2014
    This book is sure to put a smile on your face. Some people learn different lessons in the real world.
    3 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 23, 2015
    I found myself nodding in agreement and frequently smiling at these nougat of life wisdom. One out of five people is said to be mentally ill. Take a look at four of your friends. If none of them is crazy,it must be you.

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  • B Waterman
    5.0 out of 5 stars I can't stop buying it!
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on June 4, 2017
    This is actually the greatest book ever. I've bought about 6 copies over the years because I keep giving it out as gifts to people. Brilliant life lessons and funny little tidbits. Would highly recommend.