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Not My Idea: A Book About Whiteness (Ordinary Terrible Things) Hardcover – Illustrated, September 4, 2018

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Conversations about whiteness are happening over all forms of media, on college campuses, and in schools and religious communities nationwide. As more white people actively seek to unlearn racism and dismantle its structures, all need support to deepen their understanding of what whiteness is and what it does to shape a worldview.

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Children’s Perspective

Not My Idea offers an emotional inlet to the crisis white children experience when they know people are being harmed and they are actively discouraged from feeling anything about it. Inspired by her own children’s curiosity, Higginbotham sets the story in present-day America, where a white child sees news coverage of a police shooting. The book empowers kids to seek an education in both white supremacy and those who have always fought against it—including some white people.

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Reading Not My Idea and then discussing it helps both children and adults engage whiteness and challenge white privilege. It’s a catalyst for social change.THE PROGRESSIVE MAGAZINE

The book not only helps children become aware of racism, it also empowers them to work toward justice and cultivates activism...appropriate for younger kids as well as older ones, making it a great tool for family discussions.THE STRATEGIST

White families may appreciate Not My Idea: A Book About Whiteness for helping children understand their personal privilege and how their choices can either contribute or dismantle white supremacy.HUFFPOST

An honest explanation about how power and privilege factor into the lives of white children, at the expense of other groups, and how they can help seek justice.THE NEW YORK TIMES

As someone floundering to find the right words to engage in conversation, I appreciate this book because it provides very clear and specific language to talk about white privilege.THE CHRISTIAN CENTURY

Very blunt, but not harsh. Incredible resources for a parent/caregiver to use with their children who may be having questions about race and racism.THE MINING JOURNAL

Higginbotham was named one of People Magazine’s "25 Most Influential People in 2018" and as more and more schools adopt her book she could end up being the most influential person among elementary school kids in America.GIANTFREAKINROBOT.COM

This book does a phenomenal job of explaining how power and privilege affect us from birth, and how we can educate ourselves...Not My Idea is an incredibly important book, one that we should all be using as a catalyst for our anti-racist education.THE TINY ACTIVIST

In her brilliant square picture book “Not My Idea”, Anastasia Higginbotham skilfully argues and explains in a child-friendly way, why 'Racism is a white person’s problem and we are all caught up in it – mostly by refusing to look at it.' The author not only informs children about white supremacy and the oppression of people of colour, she also comforts them and encourages them to make a difference, no matter how small they are.WHITE RAVEN SELECTION 2019

A much-needed title that provides a strong foundation for critical discussions of white people and racism, particularly for young audiences. Recommended for all collections.SCHOOL LIBRARY JOURNAL (*Starred Review)

A necessary children's book about whiteness, white supremacy, and resistance… Important, accessible, needed.KIRKUS REVIEWS

A timely story that addresses racism, civic responsibility, and the concept of whiteness.FOREWORD REVIEWS

For white folks who aren’t sure how to talk to their kids about race, this book is the perfect beginning.O MAGAZINE

Quite frankly, the first book I’ve seen that provides an honest explanation for kids about the state of race in America today.ELIZABETH BIRD, librarian

I am in love with Not My Idea, and with Higginbotham’s direct, radical, compassionate approach to talking about whiteness, racism, and the need to tell painful but important truths.KATE SCHATZ, NYT-bestselling author of Rad American Women A–Z, Rad Women Worldwide, and Rad Girls Can

Anastasia Higginbotham is a children's book author and illustrator, not an athlete, but to teach kids to stand up against racism, she's taking a knee next to Colin Kaepernick.FORUM

Higginbotham is silently asking her readers to be more aware of everything around them...she is able to take control of the narrative and answer questions that expand on what little the child can gleam from adults.MEL SCHUIT, blogger at Let's Talk Picture Books

Anastasia’s books are works of love and urgency...She’s doing the work that few have tried.GREG O'LOUGHLIN, founder of The Educators' Cooperative

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MORE ABOUT the critically acclaimed Ordinary Terrible Things series by Anastasia Higginbotham:

It’s that exact mix of true-to-life humor and unflinching honesty that makes Higginbotham’s book work so well…PUBLISHERS WEEKLY (*Starred Review) Author/illustrator Anastasia Higginbotham is a book creator who doesn’t shy away from tough topics. She tackles them directly in the “Ordinary Terrible Things” series, published by Dottir Press. These kid-friendly books can help start important conversations.CITIZEN TIMES A beautiful assemblage of a book—as if Romare Bearden himself rose from the dead and created a sequel to Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day.—COURTNEY E. MARTIN, columnist for On Being

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Dottir Press; Illustrated edition (September 4, 2018)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 64 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1948340003
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1948340007
  • Reading age ‏ : ‎ 3 - 9 years, from customers
  • Lexile measure ‏ : ‎ AD540L
  • Grade level ‏ : ‎ 4 - 6
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 12.6 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 8.7 x 0.5 x 8.6 inches
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Anastasia Higginbotham is an author, artist, and activist who created the Ordinary Terrible Things children’s book series which includes Divorce Is the Worst, Death Is Stupid, Tell Me About Sex, Grandma, and Not My Idea: A Book About Whiteness, published by Dottir Press. Not My Idea is the only children's picture book that roots the problem of racism in whiteness and empowers white children and families to see and dismantle white supremacy. Higginbotham makes her books by hand in collage on brown grocery bag paper, using recycled materials, including jewelry and fabric. She offers workshops at schools and libraries on art, activism, and how to make meaning through collage out of whatever broken, ragged, unraveling life circumstances we face. A speechwriter for social justice organizations, Higginbotham lives her books' messages and teaches self-defense through Prepare Inc. for students of all ages. Dottir Press will publish her next book, What You Don't Know: Not a Coming-out Story, in January 2021.

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A potentially decent book ruined by bad judgment
There is nothing wrong with a book educating children on the existence of racism and how it has operated in this country. And especially since race is still being exploited for political purposes, it is more important than ever to raise these issues. A book like this should serve as an opening for discussion in families and schools. However, this book is ruined by the very poor judgment to use “whiteness” as an epithet. The subtitle, “A Book About Whiteness,” is a very bad choice. The clear message, whether intended or not, is that being white is bad.I did try to disregard the subtitle and read the book objectively, giving it a fair chance. While there is much to like, the book is marred by simplistic thinking that encourages overgeneralizations. For example, while racially motivated abuses of police power are very real and should be called out, not all police are abusers and some really care about doing a good job. And sometimes the people they arrest really are guilty. It is difficult to hold such contradictory images in mind at the same time; nevertheless, a realistic assessment of the situation requires it.Among other assets, the book provides valuable education in highlighting systemic reasons for the unequal distribution of wealth in this country. Its challenge to the ways we perceive each other is helpful. But all of that is undone by a couple of really bad pages at the end (see photos). It is the frames saying “Whiteness is a bad deal” and displaying a “Whiteness” contract listing every conceivable social evil. On the next page the book does say “you can be WHITE without signing onto whiteness,” but this is a very lame disclaimer that comes too late and is stated too glibly to be of any use. The unmistakable impression this book leaves is that “white” is bad.Statements like “Whiteness is a bad deal” are undeniably racist, and you can’t fight racism with more racism. The notion that only one race is capable of racism denies human nature. The politics in many other countries have shown that when Blacks gain power they can be just as brutal as Whites. Yet the book clearly seems to imply that the tendency of those with power to oppress those without it is a distinctively "White" characteristic.This is especially unfortunate because white supremacy really is a problem in this country. Some states are making concerted efforts to disenfranchise Black people and perpetuate inequality. A book like this, with its intemperate use of language, plays right into their hands. It offers a handy excuse to people invested in denying the real malicious effects of racism still afflicting our society. In giving its opponents ample reason to dismiss it, this book actually does a disservice to its own cause.
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There is nothing wrong with a book educating children on the existence of racism and how it has operated in this country. And especially since race is still being exploited for political purposes, it is more important than ever to raise these issues. A book like this should serve as an opening for discussion in families and schools. However, this book is ruined by the very poor judgment to use “whiteness” as an epithet. The subtitle, “A Book About Whiteness,” is a very bad choice. The clear message, whether intended or not, is that being white is bad.

I did try to disregard the subtitle and read the book objectively, giving it a fair chance. While there is much to like, the book is marred by simplistic thinking that encourages overgeneralizations. For example, while racially motivated abuses of police power are very real and should be called out, not all police are abusers and some really care about doing a good job. And sometimes the people they arrest really are guilty. It is difficult to hold such contradictory images in mind at the same time; nevertheless, a realistic assessment of the situation requires it.

Among other assets, the book provides valuable education in highlighting systemic reasons for the unequal distribution of wealth in this country. Its challenge to the ways we perceive each other is helpful. But all of that is undone by a couple of really bad pages at the end (see photos). It is the frames saying “Whiteness is a bad deal” and displaying a “Whiteness” contract listing every conceivable social evil. On the next page the book does say “you can be WHITE without signing onto whiteness,” but this is a very lame disclaimer that comes too late and is stated too glibly to be of any use. The unmistakable impression this book leaves is that “white” is bad.

Statements like “Whiteness is a bad deal” are undeniably racist, and you can’t fight racism with more racism. The notion that only one race is capable of racism denies human nature. The politics in many other countries have shown that when Blacks gain power they can be just as brutal as Whites. Yet the book clearly seems to imply that the tendency of those with power to oppress those without it is a distinctively "White" characteristic.

This is especially unfortunate because white supremacy really is a problem in this country. Some states are making concerted efforts to disenfranchise Black people and perpetuate inequality. A book like this, with its intemperate use of language, plays right into their hands. It offers a handy excuse to people invested in denying the real malicious effects of racism still afflicting our society. In giving its opponents ample reason to dismiss it, this book actually does a disservice to its own cause.
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