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Not My Idea: A Book About Whiteness (Ordinary Terrible Things) Hardcover – Illustrated, September 4, 2018

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An honest explanation about how power and privilege factor into the lives of white children, at the expense of other groups, and how they can help seek justice.THE NEW YORK TIMES

ONE OF HUFFPOST'S RECOMMENDED "ANTI-RACIST BOOKS FOR KIDS AND TEENS"

**A WHITE RAVEN 2019 SELECTION**

NAMED ONE OF SCHOOL LIBRARY JOURNAL'S BEST BOOKS OF 2018

Not My Idea: A Book About Whiteness is a picture book about racism and racial justice, inviting white children and parents to become curious about racism, accept that it's real, and cultivate justice.

This book does a phenomenal job of explaining how power and privilege affect us from birth, and how we can educate ourselves...Not My Idea is an incredibly important book, one that we should all be using as a catalyst for our anti-racist education.THE TINY ACTIVIST

Quite frankly, the first book I’ve seen that provides an honest explanation for kids about the state of race in America today.ELIZABETH BIRD, librarian

“It’s that exact mix of true-to-life humor and unflinching honesty that makes Higginbotham’s book work so well…”―PUBLISHERS WEEKLY (*Starred Review)

A much-needed title that provides a strong foundation for critical discussions of white people and racism, particularly for young audiences. Recommended for all collections.SCHOOL LIBRARY JOURNAL (*Starred Review)

A necessary children's book about whiteness, white supremacy, and resistance… Important, accessible, needed.KIRKUS REVIEWS

A timely story that addresses racism, civic responsibility, and the concept of whiteness.FOREWORD REVIEWS

For white folks who aren’t sure how to talk to their kids about race, this book is the perfect beginning.O MAGAZINE


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Conversations about whiteness are happening over all forms of media, on college campuses, and in schools and religious communities nationwide. As more white people actively seek to unlearn racism and dismantle its structures, all need support to deepen their understanding of what whiteness is and what it does to shape a worldview.

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Not My Idea offers an emotional inlet to the crisis white children experience when they know people are being harmed and they are actively discouraged from feeling anything about it. Inspired by her own children’s curiosity, Higginbotham sets the story in present-day America, where a white child sees news coverage of a police shooting. The book empowers kids to seek an education in both white supremacy and those who have always fought against it—including some white people.

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Reading Not My Idea and then discussing it helps both children and adults engage whiteness and challenge white privilege. It’s a catalyst for social change.THE PROGRESSIVE MAGAZINE

The book not only helps children become aware of racism, it also empowers them to work toward justice and cultivates activism...appropriate for younger kids as well as older ones, making it a great tool for family discussions.THE STRATEGIST

White families may appreciate Not My Idea: A Book About Whiteness for helping children understand their personal privilege and how their choices can either contribute or dismantle white supremacy.HUFFPOST

An honest explanation about how power and privilege factor into the lives of white children, at the expense of other groups, and how they can help seek justice.THE NEW YORK TIMES

As someone floundering to find the right words to engage in conversation, I appreciate this book because it provides very clear and specific language to talk about white privilege.THE CHRISTIAN CENTURY

Very blunt, but not harsh. Incredible resources for a parent/caregiver to use with their children who may be having questions about race and racism.THE MINING JOURNAL

Higginbotham was named one of People Magazine’s "25 Most Influential People in 2018" and as more and more schools adopt her book she could end up being the most influential person among elementary school kids in America.GIANTFREAKINROBOT.COM

This book does a phenomenal job of explaining how power and privilege affect us from birth, and how we can educate ourselves...Not My Idea is an incredibly important book, one that we should all be using as a catalyst for our anti-racist education.THE TINY ACTIVIST

In her brilliant square picture book “Not My Idea”, Anastasia Higginbotham skilfully argues and explains in a child-friendly way, why 'Racism is a white person’s problem and we are all caught up in it – mostly by refusing to look at it.' The author not only informs children about white supremacy and the oppression of people of colour, she also comforts them and encourages them to make a difference, no matter how small they are.WHITE RAVEN SELECTION 2019

A much-needed title that provides a strong foundation for critical discussions of white people and racism, particularly for young audiences. Recommended for all collections.SCHOOL LIBRARY JOURNAL (*Starred Review)

A necessary children's book about whiteness, white supremacy, and resistance… Important, accessible, needed.KIRKUS REVIEWS

A timely story that addresses racism, civic responsibility, and the concept of whiteness.FOREWORD REVIEWS

For white folks who aren’t sure how to talk to their kids about race, this book is the perfect beginning.O MAGAZINE

Quite frankly, the first book I’ve seen that provides an honest explanation for kids about the state of race in America today.ELIZABETH BIRD, librarian

I am in love with Not My Idea, and with Higginbotham’s direct, radical, compassionate approach to talking about whiteness, racism, and the need to tell painful but important truths.KATE SCHATZ, NYT-bestselling author of Rad American Women A–Z, Rad Women Worldwide, and Rad Girls Can

Anastasia Higginbotham is a children's book author and illustrator, not an athlete, but to teach kids to stand up against racism, she's taking a knee next to Colin Kaepernick.FORUM

Higginbotham is silently asking her readers to be more aware of everything around them...she is able to take control of the narrative and answer questions that expand on what little the child can gleam from adults.MEL SCHUIT, blogger at Let's Talk Picture Books

Anastasia’s books are works of love and urgency...She’s doing the work that few have tried.GREG O'LOUGHLIN, founder of The Educators' Cooperative

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MORE ABOUT the critically acclaimed Ordinary Terrible Things series by Anastasia Higginbotham:

It’s that exact mix of true-to-life humor and unflinching honesty that makes Higginbotham’s book work so well…PUBLISHERS WEEKLY (*Starred Review) Author/illustrator Anastasia Higginbotham is a book creator who doesn’t shy away from tough topics. She tackles them directly in the “Ordinary Terrible Things” series, published by Dottir Press. These kid-friendly books can help start important conversations.CITIZEN TIMES A beautiful assemblage of a book—as if Romare Bearden himself rose from the dead and created a sequel to Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day.—COURTNEY E. MARTIN, columnist for On Being

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Dottir Press; Illustrated edition (September 4, 2018)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 64 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1948340003
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1948340007
  • Reading age ‏ : ‎ 4 - 9 years, from customers
  • Lexile measure ‏ : ‎ AD540L
  • Grade level ‏ : ‎ 4 - 6
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 12.8 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 8.7 x 0.5 x 8.6 inches
  • Customer Reviews:
    3.5 3.5 out of 5 stars 1,038 ratings

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Anastasia Higginbotham is an author, artist, and activist who created the Ordinary Terrible Things children’s book series which includes Divorce Is the Worst, Death Is Stupid, Tell Me About Sex, Grandma, and Not My Idea: A Book About Whiteness, published by Dottir Press. Not My Idea is the only children's picture book that roots the problem of racism in whiteness and empowers white children and families to see and dismantle white supremacy. Higginbotham makes her books by hand in collage on brown grocery bag paper, using recycled materials, including jewelry and fabric. She offers workshops at schools and libraries on art, activism, and how to make meaning through collage out of whatever broken, ragged, unraveling life circumstances we face. A speechwriter for social justice organizations, Higginbotham lives her books' messages and teaches self-defense through Prepare Inc. for students of all ages. Dottir Press will publish her next book, What You Don't Know: Not a Coming-out Story, in January 2021.

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3.5 out of 5 stars
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Customers say the book has beautiful illustrations. They also feel the topic is racist, complex, and filled with hate. Opinions are mixed on the educational value, with some finding it valuable and creative, while others say it's hard-hitting and not helpful. Readers also disagree on the writing style, with others finding it well-written and easy to read and explain to kids, while still others find it disorganized and filled of generalizations and finger-pointing.

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"...The art is cool, my kids (5 & 7) really enjoyed that, but it's written in a way that doesn't flow well, doesn't make sense to kids...." Read more

"This book has beautiful illustrations but it’s content is ugly. It would be confusing to small children...." Read more

32 customers mention "Educational value"19 positive13 negative

Customers are mixed about the educational value of the book. Some mention that it provides valuable education in highlighting systemic, difficult, and important messages that need to be shared, heard, and absorbed. They also find the topic fine, but presented in a strange way. However, others say that it's pure indoctrination, not a great teaching tool, and full of BIG concepts that would be confusing to small children.

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"...The book is full of BIG concepts. Critical concepts and COMPLEX concepts...." Read more

"...I find that a very positive message. The book does argue that injustice has occurred, and that an ideology of white supremacy caused that injustice...." Read more

"...This coming from a very liberal family. Just isn't a great teaching tool. Maybe for a kid at 9 but then it could really be a bigger book." Read more

20 customers mention "Writing style"8 positive12 negative

Customers have mixed opinions about the writing style of the book. Some find it well written and great for creating dialog with mixed families, while others say it lacks nuance, is poorly thought out, disorganized, and encourages overgeneralizations.

"...to like, the book is marred by simplistic thinking that encourages overgeneralizations...." Read more

"...It’s an experience of a book, hand-inked text with illustrations collaged out of paper bags, photos and fabric scraps...." Read more

"...It lacks any nuance. It's absolutely another form of religion. I happen to agree with its values and teachings in general, as an ADULT...." Read more

"...of the destruction that whiteness has wrought, but it ends with strong language about seeking knowledge and justice and the idea that even if you..." Read more

42 customers mention "Topic"7 positive35 negative

Customers find the topic racist, discriminatory, and filled with hate. They also say the book handles a complex social issue with zero nuance. Customers also say it's extremely disjointed, divided, and neurotic.

"...This brings home the insidiousness of this vile and racist ideology and all six people I've shared this with are now vehemently against CRT...." Read more

"...Statements like “Whiteness is a bad deal” are undeniably racist, and you can’t fight racism with more racism...." Read more

"...such as using recycled papers and what-not, is wrong, destructive, and racist . . ...." Read more

"...My primary problem with the book is that it doesn't define racism, or elaborate on how inequality manifests...." Read more

A potentially decent book ruined by bad judgment
1 out of 5 stars
A potentially decent book ruined by bad judgment
There is nothing wrong with a book educating children on the existence of racism and how it has operated in this country. And especially since race is still being exploited for political purposes, it is more important than ever to raise these issues. A book like this should serve as an opening for discussion in families and schools. However, this book is ruined by the very poor judgment to use “whiteness” as an epithet. The subtitle, “A Book About Whiteness,” is a very bad choice. The clear message, whether intended or not, is that being white is bad.I did try to disregard the subtitle and read the book objectively, giving it a fair chance. While there is much to like, the book is marred by simplistic thinking that encourages overgeneralizations. For example, while racially motivated abuses of police power are very real and should be called out, not all police are abusers and some really care about doing a good job. And sometimes the people they arrest really are guilty. It is difficult to hold such contradictory images in mind at the same time; nevertheless, a realistic assessment of the situation requires it.Among other assets, the book provides valuable education in highlighting systemic reasons for the unequal distribution of wealth in this country. Its challenge to the ways we perceive each other is helpful. But all of that is undone by a couple of really bad pages at the end (see photos). It is the frames saying “Whiteness is a bad deal” and displaying a “Whiteness” contract listing every conceivable social evil. On the next page the book does say “you can be WHITE without signing onto whiteness,” but this is a very lame disclaimer that comes too late and is stated too glibly to be of any use. The unmistakable impression this book leaves is that “white” is bad.Statements like “Whiteness is a bad deal” are undeniably racist, and you can’t fight racism with more racism. The notion that only one race is capable of racism denies human nature. The politics in many other countries have shown that when Blacks gain power they can be just as brutal as Whites. Yet the book clearly seems to imply that the tendency of those with power to oppress those without it is a distinctively "White" characteristic.This is especially unfortunate because white supremacy really is a problem in this country. Some states are making concerted efforts to disenfranchise Black people and perpetuate inequality. A book like this, with its intemperate use of language, plays right into their hands. It offers a handy excuse to people invested in denying the real malicious effects of racism still afflicting our society. In giving its opponents ample reason to dismiss it, this book actually does a disservice to its own cause.
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Reviewed in the United States on August 5, 2021
As a person of color, I ordered this book because I frankly didn't believe the stories about it and thought they were exaggerations. Upon receiving it, I quickly learned that is indeed a vile and racist book. It's almost unfathomable to me that something like this exists but it does. I have shown this to half a dozen people so far. Most of these supported Critical Race Theory or CRT beforehand or were at the most, indifferent. This brings home the insidiousness of this vile and racist ideology and all six people I've shared this with are now vehemently against CRT. This is racist and demeaning to not only White people, but Black people as well. We do not need sympathy and we do not need White Progressive's like the author writing books assigning permanent victim status or permanent oppressor status to people based on what color of skin one is born with. Does anyone see the irony of a White author getting wealthy by peddling race-baiting trash like this? And the very fact it's been written for children , complete with folksy illustrations shows the moral bankruptcy these charlatans possess. The idea for presenting "Whiteness" as evil came from one of CRT's founding papers written in 1993 at Harvard. This is it packaged in book form for children no less. Pure evil. But as I mentioned in the title, it's indispensable as a real life example of Critical Race Theory being applied and will help anyone trying to get out the word on the darkness of this Marxist inspired ideology. For that reason, I give it 5 stars (A doesn't calculate the rankings fairly anyway)
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Reviewed in the United States on July 30, 2022
There is nothing wrong with a book educating children on the existence of racism and how it has operated in this country. And especially since race is still being exploited for political purposes, it is more important than ever to raise these issues. A book like this should serve as an opening for discussion in families and schools. However, this book is ruined by the very poor judgment to use “whiteness” as an epithet. The subtitle, “A Book About Whiteness,” is a very bad choice. The clear message, whether intended or not, is that being white is bad.

I did try to disregard the subtitle and read the book objectively, giving it a fair chance. While there is much to like, the book is marred by simplistic thinking that encourages overgeneralizations. For example, while racially motivated abuses of police power are very real and should be called out, not all police are abusers and some really care about doing a good job. And sometimes the people they arrest really are guilty. It is difficult to hold such contradictory images in mind at the same time; nevertheless, a realistic assessment of the situation requires it.

Among other assets, the book provides valuable education in highlighting systemic reasons for the unequal distribution of wealth in this country. Its challenge to the ways we perceive each other is helpful. But all of that is undone by a couple of really bad pages at the end (see photos). It is the frames saying “Whiteness is a bad deal” and displaying a “Whiteness” contract listing every conceivable social evil. On the next page the book does say “you can be WHITE without signing onto whiteness,” but this is a very lame disclaimer that comes too late and is stated too glibly to be of any use. The unmistakable impression this book leaves is that “white” is bad.

Statements like “Whiteness is a bad deal” are undeniably racist, and you can’t fight racism with more racism. The notion that only one race is capable of racism denies human nature. The politics in many other countries have shown that when Blacks gain power they can be just as brutal as Whites. Yet the book clearly seems to imply that the tendency of those with power to oppress those without it is a distinctively "White" characteristic.

This is especially unfortunate because white supremacy really is a problem in this country. Some states are making concerted efforts to disenfranchise Black people and perpetuate inequality. A book like this, with its intemperate use of language, plays right into their hands. It offers a handy excuse to people invested in denying the real malicious effects of racism still afflicting our society. In giving its opponents ample reason to dismiss it, this book actually does a disservice to its own cause.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 30, 2022
There is nothing wrong with a book educating children on the existence of racism and how it has operated in this country. And especially since race is still being exploited for political purposes, it is more important than ever to raise these issues. A book like this should serve as an opening for discussion in families and schools. However, this book is ruined by the very poor judgment to use “whiteness” as an epithet. The subtitle, “A Book About Whiteness,” is a very bad choice. The clear message, whether intended or not, is that being white is bad.

I did try to disregard the subtitle and read the book objectively, giving it a fair chance. While there is much to like, the book is marred by simplistic thinking that encourages overgeneralizations. For example, while racially motivated abuses of police power are very real and should be called out, not all police are abusers and some really care about doing a good job. And sometimes the people they arrest really are guilty. It is difficult to hold such contradictory images in mind at the same time; nevertheless, a realistic assessment of the situation requires it.

Among other assets, the book provides valuable education in highlighting systemic reasons for the unequal distribution of wealth in this country. Its challenge to the ways we perceive each other is helpful. But all of that is undone by a couple of really bad pages at the end (see photos). It is the frames saying “Whiteness is a bad deal” and displaying a “Whiteness” contract listing every conceivable social evil. On the next page the book does say “you can be WHITE without signing onto whiteness,” but this is a very lame disclaimer that comes too late and is stated too glibly to be of any use. The unmistakable impression this book leaves is that “white” is bad.

Statements like “Whiteness is a bad deal” are undeniably racist, and you can’t fight racism with more racism. The notion that only one race is capable of racism denies human nature. The politics in many other countries have shown that when Blacks gain power they can be just as brutal as Whites. Yet the book clearly seems to imply that the tendency of those with power to oppress those without it is a distinctively "White" characteristic.

This is especially unfortunate because white supremacy really is a problem in this country. Some states are making concerted efforts to disenfranchise Black people and perpetuate inequality. A book like this, with its intemperate use of language, plays right into their hands. It offers a handy excuse to people invested in denying the real malicious effects of racism still afflicting our society. In giving its opponents ample reason to dismiss it, this book actually does a disservice to its own cause.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 13, 2018
“Not My Idea: A Book About Whiteness” arrived yesterday, a belated bday gift from me to my kid, and to her parents, and to her big brother when he’s home from college for Thanksgiving, and to anyone we can get to buy it/borrow it/read it/share it. After ingesting it together, my daughter read it through three more times over the evening and this morning, asking questions and remarking about the art. It’s an experience of a book, hand-inked text with illustrations collaged out of paper bags, photos and fabric scraps. It flips the typical kid-lit script on discussing race, challenging the very premise of whiteness. Putting the job of dismantling white supremacy on its heirs and beneficiaries. White supremacy wasn’t the idea of the reader — hence the title — but it’s the reader who can face, name and change it. Author Anastasia Higginbotham mostly shows vs. tells how one’s skin color affects how one moves through “the most ordinary daily experiences...” How parents and families might give conflicting/avoiding/unhelpful answers to kids’ tough questions; how they may state one thing about racial equality but model behavior that gives a different message. There are real-life examples of how kids can “be white without signing on to whiteness.” A call to “grow justice inside yourself like a bean sprout in a milk carton.” Because “a strong, internal sense of justice will not fail you — even when a lack of justice in the world does.”
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5.0 out of 5 stars Dear white people..
Reviewed in Canada on May 25, 2022
This is an amazing book that is beginner level to understanding whiteness and racism. Highly recommend for anyone at any age.
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1.0 out of 5 stars How to destroy King's message in a very few words.
Reviewed in Italy on January 14, 2022
I have in my library all sorts of books, including "Mein Kampf" by Adolf Hitler. It's important to understand where evil comes from in a society. Evil does not have to be smart or logic, sometimes it's just pushed into the brain of people, in this case very young people. As for the content Luther King would certainly be disgusted, and I am too.
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5.0 out of 5 stars great book
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on December 4, 2021
Really lovely book for supporting children to consider how to respond to institutional racism.
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1.0 out of 5 stars A racist book
Reviewed in Germany on April 6, 2021
Its not sutable for children. Some things the book tries to say is good, but over all it tries to teach a racist anti white rhetoric.
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1.0 out of 5 stars Not my idea of a good book and very revisionist
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on June 12, 2023
How to get children to move on and correct past mistakes is to tell them to hate themselves, not trust their parents and be cautious of the world?
The book mentions the restrictions that stopped black people voting in America without actually informing them that they got the vote. Makes a heroine of Nina Simone (a leftist musician at the time of the civil movement) but no reference to Martin Luther King (the face of the civil movement and peaceful activist). Really? The term "real history" is mentioned but this narrative is void of any such scope. The author has intended to mislead the child which further devalues this book. Lines such as "innocence is overated" is a great tagline for the indoctrination, both suggesting that, one, we show children content that could traumatise the child and 2, you're guilty for the crimes of the father. Knowledge is power, I agree, but this revionism of history is not knowledge, it is propaganda and divisive.

Some pages look like a ransom note which goes with a blackmailing theme of emotional guilt. The story is weak at best with a limited plot. Writing is poor and makes me questions which teacher helped in creating this "story" and whether they are competent to do their job.
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