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9 years later, we see the results
on March 31, 2018
I read this when my son was 3 (he's 12 now, in 6th grade), and as soon as I was done reading it told my husband, "don't EVER praise him for being smart ... only for effort!" So ever since, we've been telling him "I can see you tried really hard at that!" The results have been incredible. He's self-motivated, a hard worker, and straight-A student (we never put pressure on him, only care about the effort he puts in). I recommend buying this book for yourself or any new parents in your life.