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It's Okay To Be Different (Todd Parr Classics) Paperback – Picture Book, April 1, 2009
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With his colorful illustrations, playful humor, and inclusive storytelling, beloved author Todd Parr has long been a favorite among young readers and caregivers. His books promote an essential message of love and acceptance that is inspiring, empowering, and accessible.
It’s okay to need some help.
It’s okay to dance by yourself.
It’s okay to be different.
It's Okay to Be Different celebrates all the ways we are unique and inspires kids to embrace everyone’s individuality. Whether you have an invisible friend; feel mad, embarrassed, or proud; need a helping hand; or like to eat mac and cheese in the bathtub, this book offers the perfect affirming message for anyone who has ever felt like the odd one out.
A bilingual English-Spanish edition, It's Okay to Be Different / Está bien ser diferente, is also available for purchase.
- Reading age2 - 5 years, from customers
- Print length32 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Grade levelPreschool - 1
- Lexile measureAD200L
- Dimensions9.88 x 0.13 x 9.88 inches
- PublisherLittle, Brown Books for Young Readers
- Publication dateApril 1, 2009
- ISBN-100316043478
- ISBN-13978-0316043472
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| Enjoy more of bestselling author Todd Parr's signature color and charm! | A bestseller for 20 years, this beloved classic cleverly delivers the important messages of acceptance, understanding, and confidence. | UH-OH! A book about embracing mistakes and the joy of happy accidents. | Open this book and find out about all the different feelings you can have. | A reassuring story about how when things are scary or confusing, there's always something comforting around the corner. Don't worry! | Explore the value and joy in being kind to others through Todd Parr's signature bright colors and bold lines. | Everyone loves mac and cheese, even monsters! Get ready for the funkiest potluck in this interactive book, perfect for storytime. |
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"The book unites the concept of tolerance of differences with simple images for easy understanding and comprehension. It's Okay to be Different encourages readers to accept themselves and others."―Children's Literature
"[Parr] wisely doesn't zero in on specifics, which would force him to establish what's 'normal.' Instead, he focuses on acceptance and individuality and encourages readers to do the same."―Publisher's Weekly
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- Publisher : Little, Brown Books for Young Readers
- Publication date : April 1, 2009
- Edition : Reprint
- Language : English
- Print length : 32 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0316043478
- ISBN-13 : 978-0316043472
- Item Weight : 2.31 pounds
- Reading age : 2 - 5 years, from customers
- Dimensions : 9.88 x 0.13 x 9.88 inches
- Part of series : Todd Parr Classics
- Grade level : Preschool - 1
- Lexile measure : AD200L
- Best Sellers Rank: #20,291 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #79 in Children's Values Books
- #178 in Children's Self-Esteem Books
- #729 in Children's Friendship Books
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About the author

Todd Parr is a three-time New York Times bestselling author and illustrator of more than 50 books for children, including The Thankful Book, The Earth Book and The I LOVE YOU Book, as well as The Kindness Book and the recently released The Spring Book and The Activity Book, all from Little, Brown Books for Young Readers. He has inspired and empowered children around the world with simple, hopeful and powerful messages such as “be kind”, “love yourself” and “be who you are” all set with vibrant images utilizing eye-catching primary colors. His books have received numerous awards and are available in nearly 20 languages. He also is the co-creator of the popular three-time Daytime Emmy©- nominated animated TV series, ToddWorld with Gerry Renert of SupperTime Entertainment. Several short films for Sesame Street have been based on Todd’s work.
A flight attendant before becoming a full-time author/illustrator, Todd’s first book, The Okay Book, was published in 1999. Todd devotes time to numerous philanthropic causes supporting pet adoption, children’s hunger, health, and literacy. He is a frequent reader and fund-raiser for The Ronald McDonald House, and he also currently serves on the board of directors for the Virginia Children’s Book Festival. Todd’s corporate collaborations include Best Buy, Stouffer’s, and the San Francisco-Marin Food Bank, among others.
The Wyoming native lives in Berkeley, CA, with his three adopted pit bulls and enjoys cooking. He is often whipping up macaroni & cheese, tacos, and grilled cheese recipes, which he regularly shares with fans. For more information on Todd visit his website, Facebook, or Instagram.
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Customers appreciate this children's book for its encouraging message about appreciating differences and teaching about diversity. The book is written in a way that young children can relate to and understand, making it a good tool for starting conversations. Customers find it colorful, silly, and fun to read, with one customer noting how the bold pictures capture children's attention.
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Customers appreciate the book's message about appreciating differences in others and teaching about diversity, with one customer noting how it helps lead into discussions about people.
"...This book has such an important message- that it truly is okay to be different. I can't wait until my son is old enough to understand the words." Read more
"...They are great for teaching little ones lessons about differences, acceptance, kindness, etc. I have bought 8 of his books and we love all of them...." Read more
"Great book with a positive message and appropriate for young children." Read more
"...Plus it’s a great message to know it’s okay no matter who you are." Read more
Customers find this book excellent for children, as it is written in a way that young readers can easily understand and relate to, making it a good tool for starting conversations with them.
"...It is simple and easy to read, gives you the ability to talk through the various ways that someone can be different and has cute illustrations that..." Read more
"...They teach introspection and empathy, acceptance and confidence, in simple words and concepts that children can easily understand...." Read more
"This is a great book for kids... each page is "it's okay to..." with any number of issues listed (have a big nose, lose something, be mad, etc.)..." Read more
"...Simple, loving messages that children respond to." Read more
Customers appreciate the book's colorful illustrations.
"...There are colorful, interesting pages with examples of people with different color hair, someone in a wheel chair, and my favorite--different types..." Read more
"...He loves the bright colors and simple message of love and uniqueness of everyone. Plus it’s a great message to know it’s okay no matter who you are." Read more
"...Granted he did love the silly pictures and colorful pictures but thats it. We spent more time talking about the pictures than the lesson of the book." Read more
"...absolutely loves this book and would give it 5 stars. Bright colors and simple words so he can turn the page quickly to the next and it has a great..." Read more
Customers find the book fun and amusing, with all children enjoying it, and one customer noting its fantastic ideas for conversations.
"...The book is so colorful, fun, and is very child friendly! Todd Parr is great and I love all his books." Read more
"Such a fun book! A bit big and just paper pages, but baby loves the color and illustrations! Reaches for it first." Read more
"...were also some funny lines as well as serious ones to keep them interested and entertained...." Read more
"This is one of my grandson’s favorite books! Love how bright and fun the illustration is! Highly recommend!" Read more
Customers find the book humorous, describing it as silly and fun.
"Beautiful colors. Smart, funny and simple way of introducing kids to accept diferences. Excellent self-esteem book. We read it very often." Read more
"...It's silly, cute AND real. It's always a good baby shower gift for the future mom to be who wants to start a library for her child." Read more
"Silly and serious..." Read more
"...There were also some funny lines as well as serious ones to keep them interested and entertained...." Read more
Customers love Todd Parr's books.
"This is a great Todd Parr book. I also love "the family book." This is one of my daughter's favorites (14 months old)" Read more
"...The book is so colorful, fun, and is very child friendly! Todd Parr is great and I love all his books." Read more
"My children loved Todd Parr's books and now I always give one at baby showers. Simple, loving messages that children respond to." Read more
"LOVE TODD PARR. another awesome book for kids learning thay it's ok to be exactly who they are!" Read more
Customers appreciate the brightness of the book, with one mentioning the clear photos and another noting how the bold pictures capture children's attention.
"This is one of my grandson’s favorite books! Love how bright and fun the illustration is! Highly recommend!" Read more
"...message is exactly what kids need to hear and the bold pictures will capture their attention. I recommend this book to all parents and teachers!" Read more
"Love the message and bright clear photos since I teach students with visual impairments." Read more
"...ways that someone can be different and has cute illustrations that are bright and enjoyable for a young reader...." Read more
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- Reviewed in the United States on April 22, 2025Bought for my autistic kiddo to understand diversity, differences, being adopted and how we are all alike too. Book was a big hit! "It's okay to have no hair" came in handy! Met a boy with no hair. My son said pointing with a smile "it's okay to have no hair!" It was a sweet interaction indeed.
The books were in pristine condition too.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 30, 2025It’s Okay to Be Different is another hit from Todd Parr. The illustrations are fun and the message is powerful and affirming. A must for any preschool or kindergarten shelf.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 12, 2009This book shows young children that it is okay to be "different" in many ways. There are colorful, interesting pages with examples of people with different color hair, someone in a wheel chair, and my favorite--different types of families. This is especially important for children who come from non-traditional households like single parent households, same-sex households, or whom are adopted. There is a page on being adopted but you can basically add any story to that page if adoption does not apply.
The words are simple and because the pictures are open to interpretation you can add your own story to them. Whatever you need to explain--for instance a disability in addition to the wheel chair, or a non-traditional family arrangement on the pages with two "moms" and two "dads" that can easily be interpreted as gay parents or a birth mom and an everyday (or adoptive) mom. Or, any two caregivers if a child comes from a family with no mom and no dad (for instance grandparent and aunt or uncle).
I really like this book because for small children it is often difficult to understand these kinds of differences and this book makes is okay to talk about them and opens up space to discuss them in ways appropriate to the child's age. It also gives them the ability to start piecing together their own story to share with classmates, because these things inevitable come up in school.
I first ran across this book in a preschool class. The teacher used it to discuss descriptions (like hair color, clothing, etc.) because of the colorful pictures but also to make the point of the book and it is a great resource for both academic learning and social learning. I'm very happy with it and it keeps my 4 year old's attention and sparks more conversations, which let me in on how he understands his relationships with other people.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 12, 2015My daughter is 6, she has grown up with one of her closest friends having Down syndrome. But when she made her way to public school in first grade there were difference in religion, clothing, appearances, and language that she was being faced with. And as all children do, she started to ask questions about why her new friends weren't like her old friends. So we bought this book after seeing it in a store, and she loved it!!!!
As a mommy, I loved it because t blended serious differences with silly ones, that helped keep her attention. The drawings assist in keeping her attention and created a visual representation of what the book was talking about.
Weeks after purchasing and reading the book, she brings it up and talks about it when we are out and about and see things that make every person different. It really helped me explain mental illnesses, religion, and other things that make people different, but not visually different. It also helped her to defend a friend at school that was getting picked on for not celebrating Halloween, she explained to the kids about all of the ways that people can be different. One proud mommy!!!! And a grateful mommy for a book that helped simplify a difficult conversation.
- Reviewed in the United States on December 22, 2022I bought this book as a present for my Preschool class. We made a Christmas Tree related to the book. The illustrations are so inclusive to any type of student and they all loved seeing the different types of classmates my students could be exposed to at any school. The book is so colorful, fun, and is very child friendly! Todd Parr is great and I love all his books.
5.0 out of 5 starsI bought this book as a present for my Preschool class. We made a Christmas Tree related to the book. The illustrations are so inclusive to any type of student and they all loved seeing the different types of classmates my students could be exposed to at any school. The book is so colorful, fun, and is very child friendly! Todd Parr is great and I love all his books.Preschool 3 loves this book!
Reviewed in the United States on December 22, 2022
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- Reviewed in the United States on March 19, 2025Great book and my grandson loved it.
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PriyankaReviewed in India on September 12, 20155.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Loved the book!
Mike FReviewed in the United Kingdom on December 3, 20125.0 out of 5 stars Mike F
Found this book to be very helpful for my 5 year old daughter in explaining to her about racial differences and how everyone is different but everyone is the same. The book is funny and has wonderfully wacky drawings that she really enjoys. The style of the book is fun but all the same the message is important.
For adoptive parents with children from different racial backgrounds this book is really useful in gently reminding children on how similar we all are, despite obvious racial differences.
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ShawaReviewed in France on August 21, 20175.0 out of 5 stars Awesome book - Super livre
An excellent book for kids and grown-ups about the acceptance of oneself and others - a must-have!
Un excellent livre pour petits et grands qui aborde le thème de l'acceptation de soi et des autres - un incontournable !
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Ricardo M. A. SantosReviewed in Brazil on July 7, 20215.0 out of 5 stars Recomendo. Crianças e adultos! Uma graça!So cool and educational. I do recomend it.
Excelente,lindo e educativo! Um estímulo à valorização pessoal e à auto estima!
Ricardo,Rio,Brazil.
Excellent, beautiful and educational! A stimulus to personal appreciation and self-esteem!
Ricardo,Rio,Brazil.
Excelente,lindo e educativo! Um estímulo à valorização pessoal e à auto estima!5.0 out of 5 stars
Ricardo M. A. SantosRecomendo. Crianças e adultos! Uma graça!So cool and educational. I do recomend it.
Reviewed in Brazil on July 7, 2021
Ricardo,Rio,Brazil.
Excellent, beautiful and educational! A stimulus to personal appreciation and self-esteem!
Ricardo,Rio,Brazil.
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mich888Reviewed in Japan on May 9, 20245.0 out of 5 stars Interesting pictures
My kid loves to look at the pictures and the words are easy to understand. The size is good for bedtime reading and the content shares good values to kids.



















