Getting the download link through email is temporarily not available. Please check back later.
To get the free app, enter your mobile phone number.
Put the Seat Down and Other Brilliant Insights for an Awesome First Year of Marriage Paperback – October 1, 2010
The Amazon Book Review
Author interviews, book reviews, editors picks, and more. Read it now
Customers Who Bought This Item Also Bought
Top Customer Reviews
The book's format is quite straightforward. It comprises ten brief chapters on eminently practical relationship issues, from romance and sex to décor and in-laws, plus everything in between. Each chapter ends with an installment of "The Smart Guy's Guide to Being Awesome." Sounds empowering, doesn't it? Well, reader beware: in some cases be ready for a sock in the gut. The two most convicting chapters for this reviewer were the chapter on money and the chapter about the importance of showing my wife masculine, biblical consideration.
The final chapter is a brief but punchy call for the husband to lead, protect, and accept help from his wife. Chivalry is far from dead, if Jess MacCallum has anything to say about it. Not merely a door-opening, eyes-always-fixed-on-her, coats-over-mud-puddles type of chivalry (although these are noble things to do) but a chivalry that protects her life and reputation and feelings at the expense of your own.
This is a book written for men, but I can envision women benefitting from it as well. For those men who might feel that MacCallum has at times let the cat out of the bag and betrayed us, such as the page-long "explanation of two halves of a man's brain" - a section that is far from complimentary, let me tell you, but entirely warranted - I would pass along MacCallum's counsel from a different context, but which remains apt and applicable here: "Get over yourself." The better your wife/fiancée understands you, the better she can help you be a better husband/man.
This book is an all-around "strong dose of reality" (to borrow another of the author's phrases) for males who aspire to biblical manhood.Read more ›
This is the Marriage Guide for Dummies. The Idiot's Manual on Relationships. The Starter Kit for Neanderthals with a Woman.
Most marriage books start off with deep fuzzies, or dive into impossible-to-understand words about feelings and unspoken verbal cues, explaining to us all the nuances of.............never mind. They suck. They're written by counselors. for counselors, who enjoy that kinda stuff. And they're written to be sold.
This is not one of those books.
This is the Idiot's Guide. This is WHERE. You. Freaking. Start.
If you're clueless why you're sleeping on the couch again, or you've snuggled with the dog more than the wife, you need this book. It'll help you dig out of the mess you've managed to create in the first few months (or years) of your marriage relationship. It's the guide for those of us who have no freaking clue how to go from Coolest Boyfriend to AWESOME HUSBAND.
This is the one book ALL the marriage counselors should hand out on the first meeting. Seriously. If you are in those first couple of years of marriage, have been to a counselor, but weren't given a copy of this book, you should cancel your next appointment. Right. freaking. now.
First, buy this book, read it, take 10 weeks to READ and ACTUALLY FOLLOW it. There are 10 chapters. Read them one chapter at a time. Take 3 minutes to read the Smart Guy's Guide to Being Awesome (at the end of each chapter). Practice (yeah, we're men, we're thick, and we're slow... so practice)... I **GUARANTEE** you will learn. a. lot.Read more ›