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The Overachievers: The Secret Lives of Driven Kids Paperback – Bargain Price, August 7, 2007
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I took on too much throughout high school because my father pushed me. I interned at a biotech company, I headed three clubs at school, I took a full load of AP classes, and I missed lunch each day. I routinely stayed up all night, or slept 2 or 3 hours, to fit it all in and maintain my grades.
Red Bull was my life. Coke didn't do it anymore. Neither did coffee.
And then one day I passed out in the hallway at my house, and wound up in the hospital for two weeks with an irregular heartbeat from all the caffiene. I was so worn out, so out of shape, such a mess.
And you know what my father's first reaction was? "You're never going to get into Harvard if you're in this hospital and missing all this school!" I kicked him out of the room and cried. I thought I was dying and he was worried about Harvard.
The stories in this book are very real, and very helpful. I thought I was the only one who went through this. And the characters' stories give me hope. Thank you for writing this.
But Walt Whitman is not only a school for highly achieving, stressed-out, Ivy League strivers. It is also a school for average kids, quiet kids, goths, drug users, dope sellers, artists, devoutly religious kids, and single-pointed nerds who are the farthest thing from the polished, well-rounded, resume kings and queens portrayed in this narrative. At least, it was when I attended the school and graduated nearly twenty years ago, and to a large extent, it probably still is today.
The average students are rarely featured in the narrative, except in terms of their relationships with the overachievers, but it would have been interesting had the author focused a little more on how an elite public school like Walt Whitman shapes the expectations of its average kids.
Many of these youngsters probably benefitted from exposure to high achievers, particularly since they may have shared at least a few AP classes with them (not every AP student is a classic overachiever). But many of the average youngsters also feel the same stress that overachievers experience, along with a greater sense of inadequacy when comparing their modest achievements and SAT scores against the gold standard established by Whitman's top twenty percent. Some of the these average kids may deliberately model their academic and social behavior to contrast with the norm established by the school's dominant elite as a way of establishing their own identities, but whether this helps or harms them in the long run is a topic the author didn't get around to addressing.Read more ›
And yet I found I was very interested in what happened to these students. Alexandra Robbins (who attended this very high school and then Middlebury College and then graduate school at Yale) tells the stories from the students' perspectives. In between finding out what is motivating these teenagers, Robbins explores a host of relevant subjects: peer pressure, family pressure, No Child Left Behind, the SAT and AP exams, prescription drugs (especially Ritalin), teenage sleep patterns, college rankings, education in other countries, teen suicide rates, gap year, cheating, and more. Any of these subjects would make a compelling study on its own, but taken altogether, you begin to understand, and even sympathize with, these overprivileged students. Several of these subjects have already been excellently covered by books such as The Cheating Culture by David Callahan, My Freshman Year by Rebekah Nathan, and The Winner-Take-All Society by Robert Frank.
Obviously, The Overachievers isn't just about high school students. It's also about their parents, the schools, politics, and money. It turns out that what motivates these kids most is fear. Fear of failure, of disappointing their families and friends, of not getting a great job, of not making scads of money.Read more ›
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it is a very exaggerated and stereotypical vision. It uses anecdotal evidence to generalize, which is wrong. You don't draw conclusions on a population based on one anecdote. Read morePublished 20 days ago by jkv
Came just as advertised. A bit old, but not too bad. I needed it for school, but I plan to order another one in due time as I enjoyed the book, but annotated the one I purchased.Published 1 month ago by Alex
Great book for insights into stressed out students. However, it does go on and on making the same point.Published 2 months ago by Laura M.
First off- great book, very informative and appeals to readers’ feelings and logic. The Overachievers: The Secret Lives of Driven Kids is a book that not only shows examples of... Read morePublished 3 months ago by WEL
Robbins does a phenomenal job at characterization; all the characters felt relatable and real. Coming from the perspective of other high school students in a stressful and... Read morePublished 3 months ago by Amazon Customer
Outstanding book! Though it was written 10 years ago, so much of it is still applicable today. In fact, things seem to have really spiraled out of control on many levels that this... Read morePublished 6 months ago by Kate Kindbom