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Parenting the Hurt Child: Helping Adoptive Families Heal and Grow Paperback – June 29, 2009

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The world is full of hurt children, and bringing one into your home can quickly derail the easy family life you once knew. Get effective suggestions, wisdom, and advice to parent the hurt child in your life. The best hope for tragedy prevention is knowledge! Updated and revised.
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Sadly, the world is full of children who have been hurt by someone they should have been able to trust. If you've chosen to bring one of these children into your family, you likely have hopes, dreams, and images of success--dreams and images that might now look dark and hopeless.
In this updated and revised sequel to Adopting the Hurt Child, authors Gregory C. Keck and Regina M. Kupecky share valuable suggestions to help your hurt child heal, grow, and develop. You'll learn what works and what doesn't, as well as hear stories from those who have been there.
The best hope for parenting a hurt child is knowledge. Get started here.

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Gregory C. Keck, PhD, is the founder of the Attachment and Bonding Center of Ohio as well as a psychologist and adoptive parent of two sons. He is coauthor of Adopting the Hurt Child and author of Parenting Adopted Adolescents.
Regina M. Kupecky, LSW, is a therapist who treats children with attachment disorders at the Attachment and Bonding Center of Ohio. She has been named "Adoption Worker of the Year" by the Ohio Department of Human Services and is coauthor of Adopting the Hurt Child.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ NavPress; Revised and Updated ed. edition (June 29, 2009)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 304 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1600062903
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1600062902
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 13.6 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6.02 x 0.84 x 9.04 inches
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Customers find this book informative and practical for parenting children with challenges. They find it easy to understand and a must-read for foster and adoptive parents. The book provides useful information on discipline techniques that are not generally used when dealing with kids without parents.

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Customers find the book informative and helpful for caring for children. It provides practical advice and insights into common behaviors. Readers appreciate the positive techniques and principles to help foster or adoptive families. Overall, it's a useful resource for understanding children who have experienced disruption in their lives.

"Helpful both philosophically and practically with issues related to caring for a hurt child in the home, no matter the relationship" Read more

"...It really covers all perspectives in a comprehensive way. As adoptive parents we like to think that we can fix everything with love and care...." Read more

"I found this book to be very informative. It's imperative that we learn the best ways to help children affected by the lack of love...." Read more

"I ordered this book after being told my son has RAD. It is very informative...." Read more

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Customers find the book helpful for foster and adoptive parents. It provides practical strategies and examples from parents and therapists. The book provides an introduction to children with attachment issues and other trauma-based problems.

"...There are also writings within the book from adoptive parents and adopted children. It really covers all perspectives in a comprehensive way...." Read more

"...a great guide with ideas on how to build a trusting and loving relationship with your child...." Read more

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  • Reviewed in the United States on October 26, 2024
    Helpful both philosophically and practically with issues related to caring for a hurt child in the home, no matter the relationship
  • Reviewed in the United States on January 25, 2014
    My son is 11 years-old, but he came to live with us when he was 2 years 9 months after living in 4 different foster homes. I wish that I had read this book when he was younger. It really helped me to understand what he has been through and to see things through his eyes. I am thinking about buying multiple copies and distributing them at our local National Adoption Day. At a recent team meeting for my son at his school, I shared the book with his teachers, the school adjustment counselor and the principal. It not only helps to provide an understanding of the child, but it offers practical tips for home and school. There are also writings within the book from adoptive parents and adopted children. It really covers all perspectives in a comprehensive way. As adoptive parents we like to think that we can fix everything with love and care. This book helps parents to set realistic goals and to appreciate every baby step that their child takes in the long process of healing.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on May 4, 2012
    I found this book to be very informative. It's imperative that we learn the best ways to help children affected by the lack of love.

    As a Christian, I believe fully that Jesus Christ forgives and restores all. I also believe that we need to reinforce to the hurt child that they are not bad, they are not ugly, they are not unloved. We need to inforce all the good they are - as the blessing the Lord has created.

    This book is a great guide with ideas on how to build a trusting and loving relationship with your child. I will use the techniques here along with the Word of God to help my soon-to-be-adopted daughter in her path to a normal and healthy life.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on August 13, 2024
    Came as pictured!!
  • Reviewed in the United States on December 1, 2021
    I ordered this book after being told my son has RAD. It is very informative. I would recommend it to any parent that has a child with a conduct issue, trauma, or adhd as well. The only thing I had an issue with is that some of it is repetitive.
  • Reviewed in the United States on December 14, 2013
    A year ago my husband and I adopted three sisters from foster care. Before they came home I stumbled upon this book and read it along with the book Adopting the Hurt Child and I'm so glad that my husband and I read it because it was so helpful and so many times we said "Oh, this is what they were talking about." We have a better understanding of what our girls need from us and hope that there are other people out there going through the same thing and our children can heal and bond. Adopting three children with reactive attachment disorder at ages 5, 7, and 9 is the by far most challenging and heart breaking experience of my life. Every day is hard and any resource that is available is so helpful. If you only read the last chapter on he success stories it's worth it right there, I've read those stories so many times I think I can recite it from memory. Please read this book, it's life changing.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 3, 2018
    This is a wonderful book. There is so much great information, examples, parent/child stories, insight to how your hurt child is feeling, and understanding on how to help them no longer hurt. I would recommend this to anyone foster or adopting. As well as to the families of those who foster/adopt.
  • Reviewed in the United States on October 24, 2011
    This book should be on the required reading list for parents wanting to foster and/or adopt. I am an adoptive parent of a child who suffers from attachment difficulties and this book validated my feelings when my family and people around me couldn't understand what was going on inside my home. No one understands unless they have lived with a disturbed child before. The child manipulates others into thinking that they are charming and it must be the parent, when in fact, the opposite is true.
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  • susan
    5.0 out of 5 stars loved it
    Reviewed in Canada on June 2, 2014
    Very helpful. Lots of pointers on how to handle certain situations, some could also be used for children who have not been hurt.
    Some points also reinforced what you already know or do especially if you were unsure if these tactics were helpful.
  • Miss C A Sherman
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    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on August 6, 2014
    Amazing book and arrived very quickly
  • Cliente Kindle
    4.0 out of 5 stars è importante averlo
    Reviewed in Italy on January 8, 2013
    ci tenevo molto a questo libro perchè in Italia cultura in questo argomento va ancora formata, grazie alla competenza di questi operatori del settore che sono stati in grado di andare oltre
  • Leanne
    5.0 out of 5 stars must read
    Reviewed in Canada on May 17, 2014
    Awesome book that every adoptive parent should read! Let your family read it when you're done so they too can understand/help!
  • shelly carson
    4.0 out of 5 stars Great book.
    Reviewed in Canada on September 9, 2018
    Lots of good information.