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Parenting Out of Control: Anxious Parents in Uncertain Times Hardcover – May 24, 2010
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“Nelson goes beyond simplistic criticisms of ‘helicopter parents’ to illuminate the complex motivations, personal histories, and practical dilemmas that affect the parenting choices of educated professionals in our changing world. Using rich interview data, she shows that their new parenting styles reflect and in turn exacerbate the growing social isolation of these mothers and fathers and even put their marriages at risk. Persuasively argued and highly readable.”-Stephanie Coontz,author of Marriage, A History: How Love Conquered Marriage
“In Parenting Out of Control, sociologist Margaret K. Nelson bemoans the social isolation of today’s families and describes the disservice overanxious parents ultimately do. . . . While parents insist they want their offspring to be free thinkers, their tactics result in young adults still tethered to the home.”
“Nelson tries to trace what’s behind the [parenting out of control] phenomenon, looking at it from a sociological view, not a psychological one. She points at a confluence of socioeconomic factors including a reaction to sex and violence in the media, perceived danger from crime, and the feeling that today’s children must work harder to prepare for going out on their own.”
-Gordon Dritschilo,Rutland Herald
About the Author
Margaret K. Nelson is Hepburn Professor of Sociology at Middlebury College and is the author of many books, including The Social Economy of Single Mothers: Raising Children in Rural America, and co-editor, with Anita I. Garey, of Who’s Watching? Daily Practices of Surveillance Among Contemporary Families.
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Would you read your child's diary? Do you use a keystroke monitoring system to keep track of your child's computer use? Do you test your child for drugs? Based on the answers to these and other penetrating questions, Margaret Nelson explores the attitudes of today's anxious parents toward new technologies of "connection, constraint, and surveillance." The results of her research are fascinating--and scary. Not only does Nelson paint a picture of parenting out of control, she also presents an unsettling portrait of a fearful, class-divided society. If you want to keep track of where parents are at today--and where they may be headed--this is an excellent book.
Nelson paints vivid portraits of professional middle class parents who are afraid their children will not be able to secure a competitive place in the world. She contrasts these with working class parents, who fear their children will be harmed by the violence and temptation of crime. Nelson then reveals how initially confounding parental behavior is now explicable in light of these class fears and expectations.
This is a provocative book that I'm looking forward to sharing.