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Q: What do I do when my kid has an accident?
A: First, stay calm, which I know is hard to do, especially when you thought your child had this potty-training thing in the bag. If you are at home, treat the accident just like you would have when you were potty training. Scoop up your child mid-pee and redirect him to the bathroom as quickly as possible. Then say (without anger and frustration), 'Little Bob, you are supposed to tell me when you need to go potty. Did you forget? Now your underwear and your pants are very wet and yucky. You have to tell me every time you need to go potty, because peeing on the floor isn’t a choice. Your pee always needs to go in the potty, okay! Let’s go clean up the pee that went onto the floor instead of inside the potty.'
If you are out in public, I’m very, very sorry. Even though accidents in public are embarrassing for everyone involved, for some reason, it bothers me when people tell their kids, 'It’s okay. Accidents happen.' Yes, accidents happen, like spilling the box of cereal on the floor or dropping a cup of milk, and those are okay. It shouldn’t, at this point, be okay if your child pees anywhere else but the toilet, and you can let her know this by being firm without yelling or getting angry. If you just tell her, 'It’s okay,' every time, then you are, literally, saying it’s okay to do this! It’s not okay!
You can say, 'Oh no, you peed on the floor at [fill in the blank]. I don’t have extra clothes for you now, so your underwear is going to be wet until we get home, and then you can put on clean, dry underwear. You need to tell me every time you have to go potty, even when we’re not home, so I can help you avoid accidents like this.' There are consequences to actions, so this is a lesson to be learned.
Q: What is my next step if the initial three days of potty training didn’t work?
A: As I have said before, persist with this plan for at least 10 days before stopping. While three days is long enough to introduce something new, it definitely isn’t long enough to create a new habit for your child, especially when she has had three years of peeing in a diaper and only three days of peeing on the potty. Try to maintain perspective on that point.
Q: What should I say to my child if she tells me she is scared of the potty?
A: I’ve come across children genuinely scared of or intimidated by the potty and also children who use 'I’m scared' as a tactic to avoid doing things they don’t want to do.
When a child says she is scared, most parents will coddle her and say something like, 'It’s okay, you don’t have to do it if you’re scared,' instead of saying, 'It’s okay to be scared, but being scared shouldn’t keep us from trying new things.'
If you think your child is genuinely intimidated by the potty, it’s most likely because it’s bigger than she is, she isn’t really sure what it is, it makes loud noises, and she has no personal experience with it. For these reasons, I encourage people to introduce the toilet to their kiddos and explain it isn’t something to be scared of. Allowing your child to flush toilet paper down or flush after you have used the toilet are good ways to get her to feel more comfortable before you start potty training.
Parents Who Have Worked with Brandi Say...
I’m so grateful for the information that Brandi gave me and my family! Her knowledge was priceless. This book will make any parent feel like a hero!
– Jenn Taylor
Brandi’s potty training system fit perfectly into our family’s regular routine. And best of all… it works! She left everyone feeling happy, and kept the underpants dry for good.
After the disastrous experience I had potty training my oldest son, I was dreading the process of potty training my twins. Brandi accomplished in three days what took me nine months the first time.
Per Brandi's suggestion we devoted 3 days home to the process. My son was completely trained within those three days with minimal accidents after. I will most definitely use her plan to potty train my daughter next year!
Brandi made potty training easy with a step by step plan. Not only that, I started training Addison's younger sister at the same time, and she is doing wonderfully, too! Thank you from the bottom of our hearts!
―Betsy, John, Addison, and Samantha Hinojosa
About the Author
BRANDI BRUCKS, CPST, is the Director of Your Village Consulting in Austin, Texas. As a Potty Training Consultant and Behavior Specialist, she potty trains children as young as 21 months up to 4 years old. She also helps children correct sleep issues and establish healthy sleeping habits. She holds a Master’s Degree in Elementary Education from Simmons College in Boston, Massachusetts.
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UPDATE - it has been over 1 month now and my son only wears Pull Ups to bed. He is completely potty trained to PEE on the toilet. Really, no accidents with the pee. He sometimes goes poop on the potty, but we are still working on that. Most parents tell me that comes later and the training takes longer. I would also like to add that my husband was not on in the same page with me when we started training and we fought alot (the books states that this might happen and training may not be successful) And I was worried. I stuck to the plan anyway. My son was making progress and I was happy. To the parents out there, we all know every child is different so let's not be so hard on ourselves. If you decide to give this book a try, I guarantee you will get out of it the effort you put in. But don't be upset if your child isn't completely trained in 3 days. We all know it takes longer than that. Good title for this book should be "POTTY TRAINING BASICS IN 3 DAYS". That being said, good luck and hope my review was helpful.
Best tip I could give when he/ she is pretty much there...... Make it a condition to prelude and activity.... want to go play, go potty first....need to leave the house for errands, go potty first. In my house GO POTTY FIRST. He doesn't even fight us. No diapers since he was 22 months...But there has be a bottle of floor cleaners. Lol.
My second advice is, if they won't poo in the big toilet (ie my son), the traning floor potty works better. I think they like to have their feet on the ground. I do. Have you tried to poo with your feet dangling?
Good luck mommy's and daddy's stay strong. Remember you are the boss. They well get it. We all do
A few tips for parents just going into it (and a couple ways I varied from the author):
Be patient and sensitive of your child's developmental needs. We tried this method when our son was 25-months-old, and it only created tears, stress, and frustration. The author seems to think that your child should be able to be potty trained when YOU, the parent, decide. But if your kid's not physiologically ready, then forcing it can do more harm than good. If you're unsuccessful, don't beat yourself up. Give it a break and try again in a few months.
Consider having your child naked from the waist down for the first day. I know the author suggests underwear only, but if your undivided attention is on your child, it is much easier to see when he/she starts peeing when naked than if in underwear. Naked, I was able to rush our son to the toilet after the first drop of urine. With underwear, there would be a stream of pee down his leg or puddle on the floor before we got to the bathroom.
Cave in and get juice. We are usually very strict about beverage choices for our kids. Water and milk are the only options. For potty training, I bought a couple bottles of apple juice and Gatorade. Our son was ecstatic that mommy was letting him drink something sweet, and it has made potty training more special and magical for him.
It's ok to tell your kid to go. The author believes you should only take your child when they ask or if they have an accident, but we have set times everyday when I make my son sit on the potty if he hasn't gone in awhile. Upon waking, when his little brother goes down for his nap, before lunch, at naptime, etc. About once every 2 hours. I think having a schedule has helped him learn to go before his bladder is fit to burst, and by the 4th day, he's been asking to go when he actually needs to, and not just when mommy makes him.