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Preparing Your Son for Every Man's Battle: Honest Conversations About Sexual Integrity (The Every Man Series) Paperback – March 16, 2010
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But today, the stakes are higher than they've ever been. So it's vital that fathers and mothers prepare their sons to withstand the sexual onslaught of their culture through movies, television, music, and the internet.
But what should you say? And when and how should you say it?
Now there's help you can trust: Preparing Your Son for Every Man's Battle. The authors behind the best-selling Every Man series have put together all the resources and guidance you need to experience frank, thorough, and natural conversations with your son about sexual integrity. They offer an effective new communication process that ensures a deep, abiding relationship between you and your son as he moves into his teen years and beyond.
Equip your young man with the biblical information and spiritual insights he needs to stand strong, overcome temptation, and experience the blessings of godly obedience for the rest of his life. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
About the Author
He is founder and chairman of New Life Clinics, host of the daily New Life Live! national radio program, creator of the Women of Faith Conferences, a nationally known speaker and licensed minister, and the author of more than forty books. He lives in Laguna Beach, California.
Fred Stoeker is coauthor of the best-selling Every Man series. He is founder and chairman of Living True Ministries and a conference speaker who has counseled hundreds of men and married couples. Fred and his wife, Brenda, live near Des Moines, Iowa.
Top Customer Reviews
First, the good. This is a topic that fathers ABSOLUTELY need to cover with their sons. If they don't, someone will and this book provides some great ideas / thoughts on how to approach the subject.
My disappointment: 1) The topic order in the Dad / Son section is chaotic, swinging wildly from one topic to the next. For example, chapter 1 is about puberty, but then chapter 2 jumps straight into the mechanics of sex. There is a great gulf of information between these two topics that is left for other chapters that follow, if covered at all. It will require some serious planning to get the topics into an order that actually makes sense. 2) In the section for 11-13 year olds, the author covers his high school experiences. For the 13-15 year olds, he covers his college experiences. In my opinion, the intended audience of these sections is too young for the stories he shares. 3) There are topics that are completely absent but are extremely relevant today. Abuse, homosexuality, situational awareness, how to protect yourself (school, public, church), camera phones, sexting, and social networking are just a few of the missing topics.
Today's world is even more complex sexually than when we parents were kids. But this book is silent on many topics, reasons unknown. If you are going to do right by your sons in teaching them, you have got to cover all the topics they face in today's world, not just those we grew up with or those this author experienced. That means Dads (or Moms) are going to have to find other sources of information and uncover topics that may be uncomfortable but have to be explored and shared with our sons.
This book is one source of information on your journey. But, don't consider it the only source and certainly not the singular authority because it is quite lacking on several levels and topics in my opinion.
Well, Dad, that would be the worst decision you can make. This is the time of his life when he needs you more than ever. Many problems that will plague your dear son for a lifetime (including confused sexual identity, lust, pornography addiction, etc.) grow up during this period. After all, he's a good kid, but he doesn't know the ropes. Who knows how many traps are waiting for him out there - the world, the flesh, and the devil are all working against him.
The second reason the book is excellent is that it gives you a relatively painless way to go about doing what you know you should do. Many times I have struggled with starting conversations on these topics with my son, but was not quite sure where to go. I see three extremely valuable suggestions here. First off, relate stories to him. Your son probably knows little about your background. Knowing that you've faced struggles helps him to relate to you better and will probably help him to be more open sharing his own concerns and problems. This includes the dirty laundry too - such as the first time you viewed pornography.Read more ›
When I read this book, I had both of my sons in mind, and will read this with them one day. No hesitations.
A big "thank you" to Fred and Mike.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
Parents, please take your children through the process of becoming adults!! This book can be a great first guide.Published 16 days ago by Andrew E. Fehr
This book helped me bring up sensitive discussions with my son. It provides a good platform for my son to tell me what's on his mind and clear up any confusion that he might have... Read morePublished 2 months ago by LJG
A must-read for Moms and Dads everywhere. If you have a son entering pre-teen to teenage years; this is a good guide to help them along the journey.Published 3 months ago by My Never-To-Be-Humble Opinion
Great book. Husband and teenage son thoroughly enjoyed the relatable stories and material.Published 6 months ago by mom-of-two
Well written and great way to start having conversations with your son about the things that really matter in his lifePublished 6 months ago by J. Fagan
The title should be "Preparing Your Son To Make His God-given Sexuality As Much Of A Battle For Him As It Has Been For Me. Read morePublished 10 months ago by Purge187
Raise your son up with integrity and purity! Great book for preteen boys and the dad too!Published 12 months ago by Sonshine Sieg