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The Real Experts: Readings for Parents of Autistic Children Paperback – November 4, 2011
“Full of practical advice and transcendent ‘Aha!’ moments, The Real Experts offers young autistic people and their families the kind of wise mentorship from tribal elders that was unavailable in previous generations. It’s a landmark book.” – Steve Silberman, NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity
How do I help my child to thrive? To be healthy and happy, to fulfill his or her positive potentials, and to grow up to lead a good life? Every parent of an autistic child struggles daily with this question. Just trying to understand an autistic child’s actions, feelings, and needs can seem like an overwhelming challenge. It doesn’t help that professional “experts” and the mass media bombard us with all sorts of harmful and terrifying misinformation about autism.
Fortunately, more and more parents are discovering an essential source of insight into autism: the writings of autistic adults. Who better to help us understand autistic children and their needs, than the people who have actually been autistic children?
Listening to the insights and experiences shared by autistic bloggers has helped Michelle Sutton to help her two autistic children to thrive. In The Real Experts , Michelle has collected writings from a dozen autistic authors, containing “insider” wisdom on autism that has been invaluable to her family. The result is an extraordinary resource for families with autistic children, and also for educators, therapists, and other professionals.
“This book is a gift to parents who want to get the real scoop from the real experts on autism — autistic people themselves. Michelle Sutton has gathered excellent first-person accounts of what it’s like to grow up, live, and thrive as an autistic person. More than anything, autistic people and their families need to see and hear autistic role models who can help them understand, support, and celebrate their unique autistic loved ones. The Real Experts is a wonderful contribution to the autism community, and to us all.” – Karla McLaren, M.Ed., The Art of Empathy and The Language of Emotions
“Wow. What a breath of fresh air. I read this book with unfolding delight… Finally, people on the spectrum are being heard, and it is a phenomenon that gathers momentum as parents and others realize they can learn from what is being said.” – Dawn Prince-Hughes, Songs of the Gorilla Nation: My Journey Through Autism
The Real Experts features essays by Nick Walker, Ally Grace, Emily Paige Ballou, Alyssa Hillary, Cynthia Kim, Kassiane Sibley, Sparrow Rose Jones, Michael Scott Monje Jr., Elizabeth J. Grace, Briannon Lee, Morénike Giwa Onaiwu, and Amy Sequenzia, with a introductions by Michelle Sutton.
- Print length104 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateNovember 4, 2011
- Dimensions6 x 0.24 x 9 inches
- ISBN-100986183563
- ISBN-13978-0986183560
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About the Author
Michelle's website,michellesuttonwrites.com, offers a collection of written and infographic resources that are used internationally. Michelle writes on a varietyof topics, including neurodiversity and neurodivergence, identity,autism, bipolar, depression, self care, human rights, injustice,inclusion, acceptance, homeschooling, parenting, advocacy, andoccasionally chickens and gardening. Her first book "The Real Experts:Readings for Parents of Autistic Children", a collection of essays byAutistic authors, was published by Autonomous Press in 2015.
Michelle lives with her husband and their 6 children in the Blue Mountains inNSW, Australia. As part of a neurodivergent and neurodiverse family,Michelle has 20 years experience parenting children with extra supportneeds.
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- Publisher : Autonomous Press (November 4, 2011)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 104 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0986183563
- ISBN-13 : 978-0986183560
- Item Weight : 12.6 ounces
- Dimensions : 6 x 0.24 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #2,037,429 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #2,229 in Parenting & Family Reference
- #2,824 in Parenting Books on Children with Disabilities
- #17,818 in Parenting (Books)
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About the authors

Alyssa Hillary is an Autistic graduate student, studying neuroscience. They do work in Augmentative and Alternative Communication, both as relating to brain computer interfaces and as used by autistic adults. Alyssa's masters is in mathematics, and they have undergraduate degrees in math, mechanical engineering, and Chinese.
They've been into writing since high school, writing narrative essays, academic essays, poetry, and short fiction, typically science fiction or fantasy. Disability themes are also common, and even when disability isn't a theme per se, disabled characters have a tendency to show up. Forced homogeneity of the cast is a very poor plot driver, after all.
Supposedly, their disability and/or creative writing is done "on the side." This may or may not be accurate.

Nick Walker is a queer, transgender, flamingly autistic author of both speculative fiction and nonfiction, and co-creator of the urban fantasy webcomic Weird Luck (weirdluck.net). Her nonfiction explores the edges and intersections of queerness, neurodivergence, embodiment, and creative transformation. Dr. Walker is a professor of psychology at California Institute of Integral Studies, an aikido teacher, and a lifelong zen practitioner; for more information on her work, check out her website at neuroqueer.com.

Morénike Giwa Onaiwu, PhD, is a global self-advocate, educator and disabled non-binary woman of color in a neurodiverse, serodifferent family. Diagnosed with autism in adulthood after the diagnoses of their two youngest children, Morénike is a prolific writer, public speaker, social scientist/activist, and survivor whose work focuses on meaningful community involvement, inclusion, digital media, narratology, race, gender, human rights, justice, and intersectionality.
Morénike, a Black (Yoruba, Caboverdiano, American) Xennial and parent of six biological and adopted children with disabilities, is a Humanities Scholar in the Center for the Study of Women, Gender, and Sexuality at Rice University, a former full-time K-12 and college professor as well as the founder of a grassroots nonprofit, Advocacy Without Borders.
A recipient of numerous awards, Morénike is a widely sought after keynote presenter who has been an invited speaker in the White House and the UN and loves reading, writing, beaches, Steven Universe, and Dragonball Z & Super.
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Michelle Swan (was Sutton) is an internationally known autistic Australian writer, speaker, resource developer, mentor, and neurodiversity rights advocate. She travels regularly, educating teachers, parents, carers, and health professionals. In her local community Michelle works with autistic young people as a mentor and advocate. She also practices and teaches karate. Michelle’s work in all settings focusses on self-understanding and personal development, peer support, community building and meaningful inclusion in all settings. Through centring the voices of neurodivergent people in conversations about neurodiversity, she encourages real understanding of their experiences and appropriate ways to support them.
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Everyone is different, but it provides a window into some things that children may not yet be able to articulate, as well as into what life can look like, for some, as autistic adults. This is important and groundbreaking, because most media coverage and resources for parents are focused almost entirely on young children. Most of the authors are verbal. One is non-verbal, and she communicates by typing. The book is subtitled "Readings for Parents of Autistic Children," and, while some authors address parents directly, some pieces seem more general (I think some were not written specifically for this collection, but are previously published works by the individual authors). That's not a bad thing and there is lots of insight to be gained, but, from the title, some parents may be expecting more specific guidance on how to help their kids in various contexts and life stages.
A few of the authors are openly anti-ABA, based on their own traumatic childhood experiences with traditional ABA. Some acknowledge the therapeutic techniques that fall under the broader umbrella of "ABA" today that are more child-led, natural, and accepting, and do not include those in their critique. That said, even if you don't agree with their conclusions about ABA, it is helpful to see where therapy can go wrong and be sensitive to that. This is not a main thrust of the book (maybe a few mentions and one piece specifically about ABA), but just wanted parents to be aware of this perspective. I hope parents who are using ABA with their kids will not dismiss these concerns, and take the time to see what they are about.
Michelle and all the amazing authors...thank you!




