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Refuse to Choose!: Use All of Your Interests, Passions, and Hobbies to Create the Life and Career of Your Dreams Paperback – March 6, 2007
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"Designed to help you enjoy your many interests without feeling overwhelmed and unfocused"
- Metro New York
Author of Wishcraft and I Could Do Anything If Only I Knew What It Was..., Barbara Sher has become famous for her extraordinary ability to help people define and achieve their goals. What Sher has discovered is that some individuals simply cannot, and should not, decide on a single path; they are genetically wired to pursue many areas. Sher calls them "Scanners"—people whose unique type of mind does not zero in on a single interest but rather scans the horizon, eager to explore everything they see.
In this groundbreaking book, readers will learn:
• what's behind their "hit and run" obsessions
• when (and how) to finish what they start
• how to do everything they love
• what type of Scanner they are (and which tools they need to do their very best work)
- Print length288 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherRodale Books
- Publication dateMarch 6, 2007
- Dimensions6.03 x 0.74 x 8.98 inches
- ISBN-101594866260
- ISBN-13978-1594866265
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You will read the descriptions and practically jump up and down and say "That's so me!" In my case, while I identified with one type of scanner in particular, I saw parts of myself in each one. Additionally, I found this book invaluable for examining my life and beginning to brainstorm some things I could do different. It's already paying dividends.
BTW, this book isn't just about careers, though that's part of it. Sometimes those of us interested in many hobbies need help pinpointing where we are & how to maximize our interests. For me personally, I want to move forward with career change based on what I learned but I also have a million different hobbies as well. Run, don't walk to Amazon and get yourself a copy. If you are what is described as a scanner, you will found you have "come home."
It was helpful to me because it helped organize myself... not like de-clutter necessarily, but it validated my need to have things around at easy reach, and that I don't need to feel like a failure when I don't *complete* something. For some of us our minds need to explore, or prove we can do something to a certain level, or just get our feet wet, or whatever it is you "get out of it". It's not WRONG to not pick one thing and devote your life to it like society says. That's just how *some* people are, while others of us get our satisfaction and needs met in other ways. If you're tired of hearing "when are you going to get a real job?" or settle down, or "oh, you quit__(insert hobby or job here)__, huh?" and you feel guilty for not sticking with things, you NEED this book. It will pat you on the head and tell you there's nothing wrong with you and give you confidence and tools to work with your personality style the best you can. And it's not just feel-good, it helps you get to know yourself and gives you concrete ideas of how to get along better in a world where everything is supposed to be cookie-cutter and you're not a stiff gingerbread man, lol, you want to be moldable dough that will never be baked into one shape forever! :-D







