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Relationship Saboteurs: Overcoming the Ten Behaviors that Undermine Love Paperback – June 3, 2010
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Relationship Saboteurs is for anyone who wants long-lasting love and can’t figure out how to find and keep it. Randi Gunther’s honest, illuminating, and straightforward approach helps us to understand something so basic yet so complex: how to love and be loved.”
Lori Gottlieb, bestselling author of Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough
Once you know where the land mines are, it’s much easier to avoid them. Randi Gunther’s Relationship Saboteurs is the guidebook you need to defuse and disarm the behaviors that implode relationships.”
Barton Goldsmith, Ph.D., psychotherapist and author of Emotional Fitness for Couples and Emotional Fitness for Intimacy
Randi Gunther is a lifesaver. She has saved mine a few times over. With this book, she puts her decades of experience and her phenomenally deep and intuitive knowledge of couples dynamics into an easily digestable and applicable form. Whether one does the included exercises or not, a careful reading of this book will give you a roadmap to get on the path towards a healthy relationship or marriage.”
Larry Klein, Grammy-award winning record producer, musician, and composer
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Randi Gunther put a face, a name, an understand to my illness. Though our familys love us uncoditionally, sometimes they unwittingly plant a seed or seeds that our life expierences will foster into demons in our life. I reguard no ill will toward my parents, they did the best the could. This book set me free of the bondage of self desructive behaviors I have been doing to myself all this time. I not only see my problems, but I recognize the illnesses of others, which has allowed me the compassion and empathy I need to be a true friend.
If you have sruggled with passed failed relationships, as I have, this book will most likely shine the light of trueth on the common denominator, not to say you or I were solely responsible, but we were the common denominator. She speaks plainly and candidly. This book will probaly shed light on your partner if you can't explain why the more you love them the more they push you away.
Finally, if you ever wondered why it's been said, watch what you say to your, or any child, this book will enlighten you, hopefully educate you.
This book is not for somebody looking to blame somebody, it's for people who can look at themselves in the mirror and say, "I need help"
Thank you Dr. Randi Gunther for giving us the tools to be successful.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
An enlightening read that made me reflect more about myself and my rocky relationship. It helped a lot, made me stronger and helped me understand more on relationships!Published 15 months ago by Everett Henderson
lot of common sense approach to the book, good read over all, I bought as a gift for someone else but read it first and I do think it will be helpful to person I bought it for.Published 17 months ago by Sharon
Very informative. Been using it to help a friend out that seemed to have issues.Published 20 months ago by L. Hobbs
I felt that it does not provide you with a true mechanism in which you can change be true to your self. Read morePublished on May 26, 2014 by Yugen Naidoo
I'm a firm believer that no one out there is perfect. This book is for everyone. I've never been good in relationships simply because I usually get scared and jump ship once i... Read morePublished on March 9, 2014 by Joshua S. Morris
I haven't been in that many love relationships but I've had a few and a few shorter ones. It's pretty interesting to reflect on someone who didn't work out and see what Saboteurs... Read morePublished on March 1, 2014 by HotRods4Ever