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Running Ransom Road: Confronting the Past, One Marathon at a Time Hardcover – October 9, 2012
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Q&A with Caleb Daniloff
Q. How did you come up with the idea to run marathons in all of the places where you used to drink and behave badly?
A. I wrote an essay for Runner’s World about how I used running as a sobriety tool and it came out a few months before the 2009 Boston Marathon, which I had signed up for. Boston was my first marathon and I felt like I’d be conquering something with it, though I wasn’t sure what. Then I happened to notice that Burlington, Vermont, where I’d lived for a number of years, hosted a marathon four weeks later and I thought it might be interesting to run through that old stomping ground. It seemed a shame to waste all the training I’d done for Boston on one race.
Both Boston and Burlington were places where I did some heavy drinking, so what started as a way to carry my training over to a second marathon became something more. Then I found out that Moscow had a marathon a few months after Burlington, and New York a few months after that. And so it went. It was almost like the races presented themselves to me.
Q. You write that running didn’t help you quit drinking, but helped you survive sobriety. Can you explain?
A. Quitting drinking is one thing, a very hard thing, but navigating sobriety is another beast altogether. It’s lonely, depressing, panicky, insecure, frustrating, at times enraging, and hopeless-feeling. It’s starting over, giving up dreams as well as delusions. There’s a big hole you’re suddenly facing. It’s figuring out who you were, who you are now. It’s about making amends, and ultimately finding a sort of peacefulness or reconciliation. It takes a long time and you can beat yourself up pretty well along the way. But at some point, you have to stop, accept the loose ends and the things you can’t change, try and be a positive force, and live your life.
Q. And running filled the hole?
A. There were many years of stagnation and operating from fear. Running gave me back a sense of forward motion, the courage to take action, to move through things rather than around them. It brought richness back to my life.
Q. Why didn’t you go the AA route?
A. I used to get in a fair amount of trouble because of drinking. I was ordered to plenty of AA meetings, group therapy sessions, and psychiatrists offices. Those settings were like punishment to me and groups had always made me feel claustrophobic and panicky, certainly without a drink in my hand. Those feelings were still there when I quit, maybe even more pronounced. I also believed, rightly or wrongly, in muscling through, in a certain Soviet-style stoicism. I’m sure there are AA folks who would claim I went about sobriety the wrong way. Who knows, maybe I’d have moved farther faster in an AA setting. I have nothing against AA and I’d never discourage anyone from going. I have stolen bits and pieces of its philosophy over the years, but I don’t believe in One True Paths. AA people talk about eventually reaching the stage where one neither regrets nor shuts the door on the past. I neither regret, nor, clearly, have I shut the door on my past.
Q. Is running really a spiritual activity?
A. For me, it is, or it certainly can be. Because running is physically demanding, there is simply no room to bullshit yourself. You come to face to face with who you are. It’s you at your essence. You can sort through problems, answer nagging questions, witness creative thoughts bubbling up. The repetitive rhythm can become mesmerizing and you achieve a kind of presence or awareness, and feel certain truths. It’s freedom from yourself, and from the world. Something magical happens within that space.
Q. What role did your parents play in trying to get you help for your drinking?
A. They confronted me and forced me to see psychiatrists. “The drinking” was an ongoing issue, sometimes in the background, sometimes in the foreground. But theirs was mostly a punitive approach, which fueled me to act out even more, especially against anything and anyone I deemed the slightest bit authoritative. Eventually, I became more secretive and put greater, albeit not always successful, effort into covering my tracks and minimizing my exposure. There were many years of distrust and distance on both sides.
Q. In the book, you consider whether former drunks can truly be happy again. Have you been able to answer this?
A. Until four or five years ago, I was doubtful. I figured the low-level misery was simply punishment for all the negative impact I’d had. To feel joy was somehow disrespectful to those I’d harmed. The general discomfort was just and something I’d have to live with, a fact. But at some point, you realize you weren’t put on this earth to be a vessel of quiet suffering or negativity. You can and you must earn permission to be happy again, to feel joys, to feel life. It might take a while to get there, but you have to try. Life is just too short. To do otherwise is to continue living a wasted life.
Q. Do you consider yourself recovered?
A. By my definition and standards, yes. Or pretty close. You never really fully recover from anything.
Q. Would you ever take a drink again?
A. Sometimes when I think about never drinking again, it breaks my heart. So I tend not to think in absolutes. I used to give myself these deadlines: ten years and you can have a drink; be sober as long as you were drinking; run a marathon for every year you drank; run a 100-miler and you can crack a beer at the finish line. But convincing myself that I have that option almost makes it easier. I just keep putting it off. I have no plans to drink. I’ve been sober almost 14 years. I’m used to it. And there is a part of me that fears what might happen. I’d hate to throw all of this away.
Q. What if you couldn’t run anymore? Does this worry you?
A. It used to. But these days, you can run in almost any condition—legless, armless, blind. If my joints start acting up, I’ll consider Vibrams. I also do yoga and there’s always swimming, which I used to love. As long as I can stay active and sweat and pump my heart, I’ll think I’ll be OK. Though, in my view, nothing beats running.
Q. What was the hardest part about writing the book?
A. Letting it go. It’s my first book and I desperately wanted it to be perfect and annoyed my copyeditor with multiple last-minute changes. I continued to revise it in my head; I know I can make it better, just give me another chance. It’s easy to lose perspective when you’ve been working on something intensely for several years. But you have to let it be, imperfections and all, and move on.
"Daniloff’s raw descriptions of his alcohol and drug abuse...are some of the most compelling parts of the book. They harshly illustrate the destruction of addiction and the courage it takes to walk away and build a new life."
"In an engaging voice, the author brings the courses alive for readers. He replicates the physical demands of running such courses and the barriers, mental and physical, that need to be broken through to get to the finishing line. He interweaves the story of each race with memories and dialogue from the past, and he is candid about his childhood problems and his competition with his marathon-running father. Confidence in the future lends appeal to this deeply personal memoir."
"A vital, honest, and arresting account of one flawed runner’s emotional and spiritual renewal with each step toward the finish line. "
“Daniloff’s unblinking, ultimately triumphant account of his journey from mean, hopeless drunk back to humanity and himself—through distance running. It’s a searing tale of spiritual redemption--one marathon, one mile, one brave, difficult step at a time.”
--Steve Friedman, co-author of New York Times bestseller, Eat and Run: My Unlikely Path to Ultramarathon Greatness and author of Lost on Treasure Island: A Memoir
"Caleb Daniloff once poured everything he had into his drinking, and it nearly killed him. Then he poured everything into his running, and he was saved. Now he pours everything into writing about both, and we are graced by the result. Running Ransom Road is a brave, necessary, and uncompromising book."
– John Brant, author of Duel in the Sun: Alberto Salazar, Dick Beardsley, and America’s Greatest Marathon
Top Customer Reviews
Daniloff divided his book into chapters describing seven races he had run, starting with his first marathon - the Boston Marathon, which he entered through a charity, and ending with Marine Corps Marathon in Washington DC. The described races are not all the races he had run - only the ones that he had chosen as important, connected in some way with some periods in his life. He lives in Boston, so Boston was quite obvious... And he was born in Washington. Going on with the races, Daniloff describes his past and this memoir serves as his catharsis. He writes honestly about very painful and shameful events from his past. I think not everyone would have courage to do it.
A son of a journalist, Daniloff moved with his family where his father got a job as a correspondent. The move to Moscow when Caleb was in school, had a great impact on the life stability - his sister decided to stay in the US, he did not know the language, the reality of the Soviet Russia was dramatically different that the American dream, and at the end his father was arrested by the KGB, accused of being a spy. Daniloff, always a rebel, experimented with drugs and alcohol, and eventually found himself an alcoholic and struggled with the addiction for fifteen years.Read more ›
The result is perhaps my favorite book on marathoning. It is certainly the one with the most dog-ears on my paperback copy, and definitely the one which spoke most personally to my experience as a marathoner and recovering addict who is constantly running to stay just a few steps faster than the addiction demons nipping at my heels.
The author visits marathons located in key locations related to his history of addiction; Boston, New York, Moscow, and his place of birth, Washington DC, among other races. The book shoots back and forth from past to present, linking the author's current thoughts and goals of running to his past life of self-destruction. The author recounts and reflects on his alcoholism, fighting through an understanding as his legs fight to keep moving towards the finish line. Yes, he is the very unlikely marathoner, considering the extent to which he dedicated his life to drinking. The goal is partially to break the 4 hour barrier, but also to break through to a better understanding of himself, and come to something close to peace with the wreckage of his past.Read more ›
There's always work left to do, more road, more corners, more hills. It is the grappling with invisible monsters on a road with no name that leaves fang holes in your neck. The struggle is in learning to open your eyes to see." That's from "Running Ransom Road" by Caleb Daniloff, a memoir about running and recovery.
I have a lot in common with Mr. Daniloff. We were born within three weeks of each other in 1969, and when he writes, "That old feeling of not belonging crept into my throat," and, "I still felt uncomfortable with good decent people befriending me. I was afraid they'd detect something offensive and feel duped," I know exactly what he's talking about. But we differ somewhat in our philosophy of recovery.
It appears that he's saying that running has helped him recover and I don't doubt that, especially when he writes, "Running was my prayer service, the marathon my vision quest."
But if that worked for me, I wouldn't be sitting in prison today. The year before I was arrested, I ran the Walt Disney World Marathon and The Blue Angel Marathon in Pensacola, Florida. I love running. I love it the same way I love drugs and alcohol - I love the way it makes me feel.
But it's the flip side of the same coin, not an antidote, for me anyway. I agree with Daniloff when he writes, "Psychiatrists, psychologists, chemical dependency counselors, and people in recovery programs the world over are constantly debating the best approach.Read more ›
Most Recent Customer Reviews
Great read. Very interesting for me as I attended the same schools and lived in Middlebury growing up as well and familiar with some of the other cities covered in the book.Published 26 days ago by larrybbaker
Reading Caleb Daniloff reminds me of the best of Cormac McCarthy, as he conjures parts of the English language I did not even know existed in telling his own story of intense... Read morePublished 3 months ago by N. Fisher
A wonderful, gripping read. Introspective, funny, bittersweet and made all the better by the shifting locations. Read it in two days- couldn't put it down.Published 14 months ago by Jordanna LEsperance
There are no big surprises here. A brief description of this book will give you a pretty clear idea of the content. Read morePublished 15 months ago by Liysa
Caleb Daniloff's "Running Ransom Road" is a must-read for all runners; for those who have run no more than one mile, a race of any length, or are a marathoner to the... Read morePublished 15 months ago by Meg Lucas
Excellent read! Absorbed in the pages, I even enjoyed taking the MBTA this winter while I was reading Running Ransom Road. Read morePublished 15 months ago by Evan Dana
Caleb transports us intimately through his past, taking us race by race back to his youth sharing with vivid detail the dark, twisted past that haunts his present. Read morePublished 15 months ago by Natalie Keylon
This is an amazing read! We all have things that we've done in our past that perhaps we're less than proud of. Perhaps we've even been different people. Read morePublished 16 months ago by Seth Waltz