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Ruthless: Scientology, My Son David Miscavige, and Me Hardcover – Unabridged, May 3, 2016
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*Now a #1 New York Times bestseller*
"Compulsively readable..." ―LA Weekly
“Excoriating memoir" ―Publisher's Weekly
“A sad and painful but bravely told story.” ―Kirkus Reviews
The only book to examine the origins of Scientology's current leader, RUTHLESS tells the revealing story of David Miscavige's childhood and his path to the head seat of the Church of Scientology told through the eyes of his father. Ron Miscavige's personal, heartfelt story is a riveting insider's look at life within the world of Scientology.
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- Print length256 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherSt. Martin's Press
- Publication dateMay 3, 2016
- Dimensions6.43 x 0.93 x 9.48 inches
- ISBN-101250096936
- ISBN-13978-1250096937
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"Compulsively readable...Feels as if it was written more in sorrow than in anger." ―LA Weekly
"Books attacking Scientology are nothing new. But Ruthless...hits particularly close to home ― the author’s son David Miscavige has led the church since L. Ron Hubbard died in 1986." ―The New York Times Book Review, "Inside the List"
"Recounts the Miscavige family’s experience in [Scientology], which in Ron’s view, 'has become a cult, pure and simple.' Since 1986 the church’s leader has been his son, David." ―The Boston Globe
“Excoriating memoir" ―Publishers Weekly
“A sad and painful but bravely told story.” ―Kirkus Reviews
About the Author
Dan Koon was a longtime Scientologist and an active member of The Sea Organization. He left the Church of Scientology in 2003.
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- Publisher : St. Martin's Press; Unabridged edition (May 3, 2016)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 256 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1250096936
- ISBN-13 : 978-1250096937
- Item Weight : 1 pounds
- Dimensions : 6.43 x 0.93 x 9.48 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,110,533 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #4,389 in Other Religions, Practices & Sacred Texts (Books)
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About the author

Ron Miscavige escaped from the Church of Scientology’s international headquarters outside Hemet, California, on March 25, 2012. Shortly thereafter, his son and current Scientology leader David Miscavige allegedly hired private investigators to follow Ron and file reports each day about his activities: where he went, what he did, and who he spoke to. In early August 2013, after nearly a year and a half, the PIs slipped up and one was arrested, at which point they confessed the sordid details of what they had been hired to do. When the story was printed in the Los Angeles Times in April 2015 the country was aghast and shock waves spread internationally.
Ron did not especially care for the publicity. His aim after leaving Scientology was simply to get on with his life, play his horn in Dixieland bands and sell Exer-Genies, an exercise device he had been using since the 1960s.
The other thing he did not care for was the situation that his two daughters had cut off contact with him owing to the Church of Scientology’s policy of “disconnection,” whereby church members are forced to cut all communication with anyone who they deem has been critical of the church. Ron’s departure from Scientology two years earlier placed him in bad stead with the church, and his son David prevailed upon his two sisters to sever the connection with their father. Now, having been separated from his daughters as well as his grandchildren and great-grandchildren, Ron made the decision to stand up against the church’s practice of tearing families apart and strike a blow to end the abuse. The result was his book Ruthless: Scientology, My Son David Miscavige and Me published by St. Martins Press.
Growing up in the rough and tumble Pennsylvania coal region during World War II and being a Marine veteran, Ron knows never to back down in the face of injustice and never to observe abuse without speaking out. Despite pushback from his son David and the church’s army of lawyers, Ron has joined the growing chorus calling for an end to disconnection by an organization that forces families apart while hiding behind protections afforded by the U.S. Constitution’s First Amendment.
Ron Miscavige was born in January 1936 in Mt. Carmel, Pennsylvania and has written two self-published books, humorous collections of stories about life in the coal region and the characters he grew up with entitled, True Confessions of a Kid and Hideouts for Midgets on the Lam.
Ron lives in West Allis, Wisconsin, with his wife Becky and continues to sell Exer-Genies as well as play with several Milwaukee-area Dixieland bands while also doing solo performances of old-time standards from the “Golden Age of Songwriting.”
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Customers find the book great, compelling, and hard to put down. They say it offers insight into the inner workings of the church. Readers also describe the author as honest, sincere, and candid. Additionally, they describe the book as credible, real, and authentic. Opinions differ on the writing quality and story quality. Some find it well-written and easy to read, while others say it's poorly written and immature.
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Customers find the book compelling and interesting. They say it's well-written and hard to put down. Readers also mention the book is a nice supplement to other books on the subject of Scientology.
"...Overall, this was a very good read and he is a brave man for telling the world what he knows as an insider...." Read more
"...An informative and interesting book for all those interested in the CoS and religious belief systems...." Read more
"...Glad he wrote the book, and it's worth the read, but if you are like me, you'll be thinking "what the heck" for much of it." Read more
"...A very good read showing there relationship. I think the book should have been titled My son the Ruthless Psychopath" Read more
Customers find the book insightful, informative, and fascinating. They say it's an eye-opener and gives them a good understanding of the insanity going on in Scientology. Readers also mention the perspective is interesting and unique.
"...I think it is extremely important to capture these accounts and make sure they are available for people who either are considering joining the CoS,..." Read more
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"...He seems to be quite fair in his telling. I say this from the vantage point of knowing many first person accounts of the CoS and DM...." Read more
"...fair and balanced recollection of events gives weight and lends credibility to Ron's words...." Read more
"...His feelings for his daughters seems very real. Those women have their owns set of issues but you can sense the love there...." Read more
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"...I could not put it down. I find Ron to be very honest. He does not try to set himself up as perfect...." Read more
"...This book is particularly compelling and credible because of the relationship to COB." Read more
"This man is a true survivor and very brave. He lost everything to this cult they call Scientology...." Read more
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"...For the former group, this book provides a very good look at what it is like for those who become involved in the CoS; especially for those persons..." Read more
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Customers find the content disturbingly interesting, scary, and troubling. They say it offers a fascinating glimpse inside the sick behavior of the Sea-Org of Scientology. Readers also mention the book will entertain, sadden, disgust, and enlighten them.
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"...Additionally, the writing is clean, it is easy to read, it doesn't use a phenomenal amount of Scientology speak which can be confusing for never-ins..." Read more
"...I give only 4 stars because Dan Koon is not a very good co-author, and I had to read the book twice to get past some of the dryness of it and..." Read more
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Reviewed in the United States on May 15, 2016
The silence of people like Tom Cruise's ex-wives who, no doubt, know what is going on and could speak up but they do not. For instance, Nicole Kidman's kids no longer speak to her because she is a "suppressive person". So many cowards know what is going on and refuse to speak up about it, which is just as evil. In Remini's book she talks about babies being neglected in the nurseries and other horrors. Many of the people are imprisoned in the walls and are tortured in "The Hole". One woman died within the prison walls of Scientology. I am sure later it will come at that others have as well. I was disappointed that Ron did not discuss more what has happened to his son's wife that has disappeared. Does he think she is still alive or not? Many don't. And what about other leaders that have disappeared? Some of the documentaries online go into this. Overall, this was a very good read and he is a brave man for telling the world what he knows as an insider. But I felt he knows much more than he was willing to say. I hope that his book will give others the courage to speak out as well because not speaking out is just as evil as what David Miscavige is doing and he will continue to do it as long as people keep quiet.
Reviewed in the United States on May 4, 2016
I believe both groups I mentioned will take something away from this book, but before I get too much farther into my review I wish to be very upfront about this. If you are only interested in this book because you believe you will get juicy scoops on Hollywood Celebrities - you might be disappointed. While there is some minor talk of celebrity Scientologists as it relates to the author's son and some of the author's interactions with them, this is not an expose on CoS and Hollywood celebrities. It is about the journey the author went through in and out of the CoS, and of course, a lot of particulars on how DM was from infancy, to child and as his life progressed until he became one of the most controversial leaders of a belief system that many classify as a cult. Make no mistake...this IS the story of two men's lives as it relates to Scientology.
For those who fall into the latter group I mentioned- there is quite a bit of information that is already known to those of us who follow CoS. it makes it no less poignant or tragic, IMO, that this belief system puts its "clergy" members through these types of abuses. It also paints a very vivid picture of a young DM. The background of DM probably won't come as too much of a surprise to the informed reader.
For the former group, this book provides a very good look at what it is like for those who become involved in the CoS; especially for those persons who know only the bare bones first person accounts and stories that have been catching fire and spreading awareness of the CoS. it is a huge story comparatively speaking since it deals with DM.
That being said -- this book, while very personal, is much more neutral than I expected. By that I mean that the author seems to take pains in stating his opinion quite straightforwardly without too much supposition on what could have been. He also takes more responsibility than I expected. He seems to be quite fair in his telling. I say this from the vantage point of knowing many first person accounts of the CoS and DM.
The author can occasionally come off as tip toeing gently, but due to the extremely litigious nature of the CoS I expected it. That shouldn't imply or suggest that there aren't loads of details, insight and the ability to gain hindsight perspective from this book. I think it is extremely important to capture these accounts and make sure they are available for people who either are considering joining the CoS, have family members in or for the purpose of educating yourself on what is happening behind the PR curtain of an organization that claims it is pro-human rights and claims it walks that walk, and forming your own educated opinion from all the materials available.
It took quite a lot of fortitude to pen this book considering the very personal negative information the author reveals. Imagine having all of your deepest darkest secrets in the hand of a group that allegedly espouse the priest penitent privilege -- yet all of sudden that same organization is spilling those secrets to anyone who will listen, buying websites to place that information on, having current members film testimonies that you are a "Dirty Pig" and much more yet they had no issue with you for 40+ years.
The courage that the author shows in proclaiming his shortcomings due to the "always attack" posture of CoS is not something to be taken lightly. And while you (and I) may not like some of his mistakes, I think it is far more plausible that the author takes responsibility for past actions then it is for the CoS to say they never do anything wrong - ever, ever. It's always someone else who is lying or has done something wrong as a standard response to any negativity. They are the only person/group on the planet that has never made a mistake, lied or hurt someone. And, of course, they say that the author is making this story up (for money, revenge, because he's a defrocked apostate and any other number of allegations that have been offered before on others who have spoke out about the CoS practices) despite many of the assertions being factually documented by photographs, testimony and even their own admission.
I think there are two sides to every story and if you are remotely interested in the CoS for any reason, this book is a valuable read. I won't reveal any spoilers, but I will say there is still quite a bit of new information here and this should definitely be on the reading list for those who are interested in the CoS.
I would have rated it a 3.5 if the option was there. While this doesn't break down all new barriers with every revelation, it certainly reveals enough for me to understand why the CoS was so upset about this book being published. Additionally, the writing is clean, it is easy to read, it doesn't use a phenomenal amount of Scientology speak which can be confusing for never-ins, it explains the behind the scenes of one family who raised one man who would be a Tzar of his kingdom and allows you to see that behind the CoS curtain isn't the Wizard of Oz, but just a normal man, not a God, who has allegedly caused much pain, disconnection, heart break. What kind of human the author's son is...well that's for you to decide based on your own research and opinion.
An informative and interesting book for all those interested in the CoS and religious belief systems.
I suggest reading Going Clear either prior to this book, or after this book if you haven't already read it; Going Clear really places this book in context.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Very interesting insight into Scientology
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 6, 2018
4.0 out of 5 stars ruthless
Reviewed in Italy on August 6, 2017
5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read
Reviewed in Canada on February 28, 2017
knew Mr. Hubbard personally and was a Scientologist at the time Mr. Hubbard was still alive. He still respects and values the knowledge that Mr. Hubbard brought together. He is the father of the current Headmaster of what Scientology has become. The book is an entertaining read that provides information that is not available in the many other books on the subject , in regard to the special insight into the family life of the current Boss of Scientology.
Scientology was meant for all people , and indeed its' mission is to " Clear " the planet ( uplift everyone mentally and spiritually , end poverty and criminality , end war and strife , end insanity ) , however , over the years it has devolved to it's current condition ( which to those of you that know the jargon , ain't Power ) . Here is a quote from the book that very aptly sums things up , " Scientology was no longer affordable for the average working person and , increasingly , became limited only to the wealthy ". Strangely enough a similar thing happened to early Christianity. The author believes that a restructuring will eventually take place , and remains hopeful about future developments. A good read , and a must read for those interested in the subject.
5.0 out of 5 stars Outrage
Reviewed in Australia on March 31, 2017
5.0 out of 5 stars Der Verfassungsschutz wird durch dieses Buch mehr als bestätigt
Reviewed in Germany on July 25, 2016
Es ist ein Bericht, der minutiös aufzeigt, wie man als Scientology-Anhänger denkt und handelt und immer mehr von der Sekte vereinnahmt wird, bis man vollkommen in deren Raster denkt. Unmerklich verschwinden Emotionen und man wird berechnender und kälter. Mitgefühl ist verpönt. Wie bei so vielen: Sie werden "ruthless" also immer mehr Gnadenlos wie sein Sohn David Miscavige. Und hier stellt Miscavige Senior sich immer wieder die richtigen Fragen. Am Ende muss er fliehen und schafft die Flucht. Er weiß, wenn er geschnappt wird, dann wird es zu einer lebenslangen Unterbringung in irgendeinem überwachten Loch, wenn nicht gar der Tod. Kein Mensch wird ihn und seine Frau dort finden, wie seine Schwiegertochter, die seit 10 Jahren verschwunden ist. Ich frage mich allen ernstes: Noch sind ihm weiter Detektive auf den Fersen. Werden Sie ihn kidnappen?
Auch recherchiert er selber, trotz Überwachung durch Privatdetektive mit Waffenarsenal im Kofferraum (laut Polizeibericht aus Kalifornien), und kommt zu erstaunlichen Resultaten. Leider fehlt hier der letzte Schritt, der Reflektion: Wie stark war die Hypnose bei ihm selbst und Anderen? Je länger und tiefer die Leute in die Firma einsteigen, desto schwächer wird die Chance, die Manipulation aufzuarbeiten. Aber ich bin sicher, er wird weiter Fragen und selber Antworten finden.






