- Hardcover: 496 pages
- Publisher: W. W. Norton & Company; 4.9.2011 edition (May 9, 2011)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0393705951
- ISBN-13: 978-0393705959
- Product Dimensions: 6.5 x 1.3 x 9.6 inches
- Shipping Weight: 2 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
- Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars See all reviews (58 customer reviews)
- Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #52,527 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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About the Author
John M. Gottman, PhD, is William Mifflin Professor of Psychology at the University of Washington in Seattle. World-renowned for his work on marital stability and divorce prediction, Dr. Gottman has conducted 40 years of breakthrough research with thousands of couples. He is the author of over two dozen books, including Seven Principles to Making Marriage Work, The Heart of Parenting (with J. DeClaire), When Men Batter Women (with Neil Jacobson), Why Marriages Succeed or Fail, The Marriage Clinic, and The Science of Trust.
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Top Customer Reviews
That said, the book is heavy reading in the later chapters. Gottman has a lot of mathematical modeling that, personally, I love--but imagine others who've read his more popularized books might find challenging, even though these parts are well explained.
My recommendation: if you're serious about relationships, and are patient, get it and read what you can. You'll learn something worthwhile.
If you want to understand how to nurture a relationship or recognise certain characteristics of relationships
This explains a lot of how relationships work or do not work, also when they continue or split, why and what predicts it and how to make things go well in a relationship in ways that build trust. Looking in my past, this book made a lot of sense.
It is also interesting as to how they setup experiments to learn about these positive neutral and negative processes in loving relationships.
This Gottman book is not a workbook so its good for an emotionally intelligent bachelor preparing for a life long relationship as well as those already in a relationship.
I purchased the audio version and found it incredibly tedious - it was unabridged and at times the book came across as being written more like a dissertation with facts and citations that only academicians want to know about. There were lengthy chapters on game theory, endless naming of sources, and other elements that didn't answer questions about couples. I wanted a distillation of the facts, and kept thinking "Get to the point, already!" The audio absolutely needs to be abridged to be useful.
By breaking "emotions" into defined step by step processes & by introducing a process for communication it makes relationships possible.