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90 Seconds to a Life You Love: How to Master Your Difficult Feelings to Cultivate Lasting Confidence, Resilience, and Authenticity by [Dr. Joan Rosenberg]

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Learn how to manage your most difficult feelings and build the emotional strength you need to create the life of your dreams.

Sadness, shame, helplessness, anger, embarrassment, disappointment, frustration, and vulnerability. In 30 years as a practicing psychologist, Dr. Joan Rosenberg has found that what most often blocks people from success and feeling capable in life is the inability to experience, move through, and handle these 8 unpleasant feelings. Knowing how to deal with intense, overwhelming, or uncomfortable feelings is essential to building confidence, emotional strength, and resilience. Yet when we distract or disconnect from these feelings, we move away from confidence, health, and our desired pursuits, ultimately undermining our ability to fully realize our ambitions.

Neuroscientists suggest that the biological lifespan of a feeling, often known first through bodily sensations, lasts approximately 90 seconds. Dr. Rosenberg teaches readers to be aware, consciously lean into, and balance these unpleasant emotions by riding one or more 90-second waves of the bodily sensations. By staying present to these 8 feelings, we cultivate the confidence that we can handle life's challenges and the deep sense we can pursue whatever we want.

Combining more than three decades of clinical experience with aspects of clinical psychology, mindfulness, and neuroscience research, 90 Seconds to a Life You Love is a strategic and practical guide on building core emotional strength, reducing anxiety, and developing the confidence you need to create a life of your design -- a life you love.

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Joan Rosenberg, PhD, is a cutting-edge psychologist who is known as an innovative thinker, speaker and trainer. A two-time TEDx speaker and member of the Association of Transformational Leaders, she has been recognized for her thought leadership in personal development. She is a professor at Pepperdine University and a United States Air Force veteran.

She has been featured in the critically acclaimed documentaries I Am with Tom Shadyac, The Miracle Mindset with JJ Virgin, Pursuing Happiness with Adam Shell, and The Hidden Epidemic with Daniel Amen. She's been seen on CNN's American Morning, the OWN network, and featured on radio programs across the country.
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"A groundbreaking book built around a simple idea that will energize, transform, and uplevel your life."―Joan Borysenko, PhD, author of Minding the Body, Mending the Mind

"Joan's approach is simple, practical, and effective. It represents a significant breakthrough on the path to success. If you want unwavering confidence to pursue your goals and dreams, then this will guide you to it."―Jack Canfield, co-author of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series and The Success Principles

"Every once in a while, you meet someone capable of turning conventional wisdom on its head. Dr. Joan Rosenberg is both a brilliant clinician and compassionate presence. Her book inspires and invites people to be authentic, to become their best and most fully expressed selves. It's a game changer for anyone ready to take their life, relationship, and career to the next level."―Ron Howard, film director, producer, and actor

"As for so many others, Dr. Joan Rosenberg has been my lifeline...There is a special kind of hope that comes from finally understanding that fear is not your enemy. Until you experience it yourself, it's hard to imagine what a difference 90 seconds can make."―JJ Virgin, New York Times bestselling author of The Virgin Diet and JJ Virgin's Sugar Impact Diet --This text refers to an alternate kindle_edition edition.

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ASIN ‏ : ‎ B07DHK5WYB
Publisher ‏ : ‎ Little, Brown Spark; Illustrated edition (February 12, 2019)
Publication date ‏ : ‎ February 12, 2019
Language ‏ : ‎ English
File size ‏ : ‎ 2532 KB
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Print length ‏ : ‎ 305 pages
Page numbers source ISBN ‏ : ‎ 0316414328

Best Sellers Rank: #408,577 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #320 in Emotions & Mental Health
- #970 in Self-Esteem Self-Help
- #1,164 in Emotional Mental Health

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Best-selling author, consultant, media host and master clinician, Dr. Joan I. Rosenberg, creator of Emotional Mastery™ and Emotional Pilates®, is a cutting-edge psychologist who is known as an innovative thinker and acclaimed speaker and trainer. As a TEDx speaker and member of the Association of Transformational Leaders, she has been recognized for her thought leadership and influence in personal development. A California-licensed psychologist, Dr. Rosenberg has shared her life-changing ideas and models in business, educational, health and professional seminars on how to build confidence, self-esteem, core emotional strength and resilience; vulnerability; emotional, conversational and relationship mastery; neuroscience and psychotherapy; and suicide prevention.

Dr. Rosenberg was featured in the critically acclaimed documentaries “I Am”, "The Miracle Mindset", “Pursuing Happiness” and “The Hidden Epidemic” with Dr. Daniel Amen. She’s been seen on CNN’s American Morning, the OWN network and PBS, as well as appearances and radio interviews in all of the major metropolitan media markets. She has shared stages with speakers and trainers such as Brendon Burchard, Mary Morrissey, Bo Eason, John Assaraf, John Gray and JJ Virgin.

She hosts The MindStream Podcast, an influential and thought-provoking iTunes podcast. She is the author of the #1 Amazon bestseller: Ease Your Anxiety: How to Gain Confidence, Emotional Strength and Inner Peace, and of a forthcoming book: 90 Seconds to a Life You Love: How to Master Your Difficult Feelings to Cultivate Lasting Confidence, Resilience and Authenticity, a neuroscience based book that describes the “how to” path to confidence, resilience and authenticity. She has penned several articles for professional and trade journals as well as being a popular blogger and the co-author of Mean Girls, Meaner Women.

Copy the link below to view her TEDx talks:

Emotional Mastery: The Gifted Wisdom of Unpleasant Feelings https://youtu.be/EKy19WzkPxE

Emotional Mastery: The Unexpected Riches of Grief https://youtu.be/UacbvBcbP34

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Gail Lewis

Extremely useful and motivational.

Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on November 13, 2022

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The Rosenberg Reset works on all levels of insight and growth.

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Laura Steward

My new manual for life

Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on February 17, 2019

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I received an advance copy of this book in prep for an iHeart radio interview with the author. The book shifted my thinking and feeling so much that I bought a Kindle copy as well so I could always have it with me to look to when I find myself not allowing myself to process through my uncomfortable emotions.

Today, as I am writing this review, I keep having flashbacks to finding my mom struggling on the floor in 2017 after a massive stroke that took her life two days later. The trigger? The shirt I put on after I got out of the shower and went to my mom's bedroom to see why she wasn't up and about yet. I was getting dressed after a shower this morning and saw the shirt in my closet.

I wanted to avoid the feelings, as I want to as I type this review. Instead I am allowing the tears to flow through and the grief to surface as often as it needs to. Feeling these emotions as they want to surface creates much more ease in my body and mind and leaves me feeling calmer and more at ease. I can feel the tension leave my body when I follow the advice and exercises in Dr Joan's book.

Dr. Joan Rosenberg's book is filled with exercises to help you master the difficult feelings so any one, who is wiling to do the work, can embrace the confidence within, become resilient and live a life that reflects who they truly are. My advance copy is dog eared and the replay of the interview, and notes I took during it, are tagged for repeat listening.

If you are tired of feeling tired or sad or angry or ashamed or any other difficult emotion, I encourage you to get a copy of this book and read it through once. Then go back and read it again and work through each of the exercises. Take it in small bites or embrace it all at once. It has made a difference in my life. May it do the same for you.

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Patrice A

Insightful, Specific Strategies and Examples, Easy to Understand, Prompts for Reflection

Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on October 16, 2021

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Dr. Rosenberg, a highly regarded expert psychologist, has years of experience behind her observations and using her method successfully. Her suggestion that people tend to distract or avoid experiencing uncomfortable emotions/feelings resonated with me. The strategies I used to avoid even slight discomfort included behaviors that appeared healthy, but they were not. Other behaviors I used were self-destructive. Because I avoided the uncomfortable feelings, I therefore, avoided the source and missed an opportunity to address that. Using Joan's journalling prompts as she presented information was very helpful. I did not read this book in a few days. I really needed to take my time, even though I wanted to adopt her methods right now, today. I think this book would be great for someone who is on a journey to better understand themselves and develop the courage to experience and appreciate all their emotions - pleasant and unpleasant. (Note: No longer can I say good/bad...because all emotions are helpful/good. There are no 'bad' emotions.)

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Dr Susanne

Dr. Joan's life work in one book! So grateful!

Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on February 28, 2019

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I love Dr. Joan's 90 Seconds book! First of all...I think everyone one of us have challenges with our emotions-sadness, anger, anxiety, frustration, loneliness but we also suffer from low self-esteem and confidence that prevent us from moving forward in life. This book gives you the tools to get out of your own way, first by helping you recognize what is going on in your body as you are "feeling" the emotions...that in 90 seconds, the physiological expression of the emotions will die down so you can you can stop worrying, stop obsessing, stop ruminating. She then gives you strategies to create new thoughts and feelings about whatever issue you have. Some of the best quotes I have ever read are in this book "The more you are able to face the pain you experience, the more capable you become." In Chapter 6, The Six Steps to Reclaim your Personal Power, is amazing: Step 4 is a big one, ask yourself: "What uncomfortable or unpleasant thoughts or feeling am I trying to keep out of my awareness". Just this alone can help millions of us get to know ourselves better and start loving and appreciating who we really are as humans and be more forgiving of others. This is one book I will read over and over again!

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CK WindyCity

90 Seconds to a healthier mindset

Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on February 12, 2019

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I first heard Dr. Joan Rosenberg describe the concept of 90 Seconds to a Life You Love in a Ted Talk. I was intrigued, and when I saw the book come out, I had to get it.  This book has a ton of content about emotions from a true expert in the field of psychology. A major theme is how we distract from our true emotions. I agree wholeheartedly!

This book helps you 1) realize when you are running away from your true emotions, 2) face your difficult emotions (riding the waves), 3) choosing to live a life full of meaning and intention.

It’s hard to summarize this book because there is so much helpful information packed inside. The things I found most helpful include:
—> How to speak your truth
—> Bad emotional math
—> Dealing with grief
—> Identifying and overcoming distractions
—> Parental influence on feelings
—> Visualizing decisions

After reading this book, I’m much more aware of the physiological experience when I have negative emotions. And knowing that they will only last 90 seconds. It is a game changer for your mindset.

Also there is a tip in the anxiety chapter that I don’t want to spoil, but it’s genius! I use it every day.

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Mrs L

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Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on September 22, 2019

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Bought this book a few months ago after watching the TED talk. I feel better in ways never before. The book has helped me understand, deal with and move on from difficult emotional issues with calmness and confidence.

Dr Rosenberg has covered everything relating to human emotions in a simple understandable way. She explains how we can deal with them, using her 90 second reset process. Admittedly, it was a challenge to remember to follow it initially but now it really is quite simple to do. She has also given talks and interviews (available on You Tube) which are excellent. I have direct experience of how approachable she is. I made an enquiry about the kindle edition of the book and she replied to this herself. She now sends out regular emails (personally addressed to me), each focusing on an aspect of the book. I found this very valuable and feel that she is passionate about helping others.

I can honestly say that I have been wowed by Dr Rosenberg and by the life changing impact her work has had on me. Thank you Dr Rosenberg! I wholeheartedly recommend this book.

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Alice

Must read!

Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on April 9, 2019

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Some really interesting exercises in this book to help with anxiety. A good read! .......how to stay with emotions for 90 seconds

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MR D BOOTHMAN

Very helpful and beneficial book

Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on February 10, 2021

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An amazing book written with the reader in mind. I used this book for my personal understanding and part of my life long learning.

Dorn Clarke

Easy to follow and so informative

Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on August 26, 2019

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A deep insight into our deepest emotions

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Very powerful and well thought out.

Reviewed in India 🇮🇳 on January 3, 2022

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I have barely started to do it and I am already seeing increased confidence and well being over the past few days.
A very practical and simplified teaching based on solid science and psychology-practice based observations of about 50000 hours. Very well thought out. It is taught here precisely, specifically and is ready to be implemented.

I had heard many teachers say similar things but all that was vague and too abstract. They didn't tell what to do exactly, and they didnt say the body has an important role in our mental well being and feeling that we are capable.
Buy it if you feel bewildered about life. If you have trauma, add TRE(David Bercelli) to the mix, to take care of the past while this helps you face the present.

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