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The Secret of Letting Go Paperback – October 8, 2007
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With more than two million copies of all of his books in print, Guy Finley's message of self-liberation has touched people around the world. Discover how to extinguish self-defeating thoughts and habits that undermine true happiness. Exploring relationships, depression, and stress, his inspiring words can help you let go of debilitating anxiety, unnecessary anger, paralyzing guilt, and painful heartache. True stories, revealing dialogues, and thought-provoking questions will guide you toward the endless source of inner strength and emotional freedom that resides within us all.
Praise:
"There is something profoundly healing in the way Guy Finley talks to us, as if he understands what we have gone through and what we are now capable of."―Hugh Prather, author of Notes to Myself
"Guy Finley is one of the most respected people in self-development because he guides the seeker's soul with common sense, humor, and ultimate spirituality."―Linda Mackenzie, general manager, Healthylife.net
"Guy Finley's insights are an absolute goldmine of true wisdom...he is simply one of the best at describing the inner game and awakening to a higher level of self."―Karen King, co-founder, InnerHealingCompass.com
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- PublisherLlewellyn Publications
- Publication date
2007
October 8
- Dimensions
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- ISBN-100738711985
- ISBN-13978-0738711980
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With more than 275,000 copies sold, Guy Finley's message of self-liberation has touched people around the world. Discover how to extinguish self-defeating thoughts and habits that undermine true happiness. Exploring relationships, depression, and stress, his inspiring words can help you let go of debilitating anxiety, unnecessary anger, paralyzing guilt, and painful heartache. True stories, revealing dialogues, and thought-provoking questions will guide you toward the endless source of inner strength and emotional freedom that resides within us all.
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"The Secret of Letting Go has the power to help you remove the blockages that may be holding you back from enjoying the life you deeply want to live. This book is vital to anyone who wishes to break free of self limiting beliefs and behaviors. I highly recommend it."―Peggy McColl, author of the New York Times bestseller Your Destiny Switch: Master Your Key Emotions and Attract the Life of Your Dreams
"There is something profoundly healing in the way Guy Finley talks to us, as if he understands what we have gone through and what we are now capable of."―Hugh Prather, author of Notes to Myself
"Guy Finley is one of the most respected people in self-development because he guides the seeker's soul with common sense, humor, and ultimate spirituality."―Linda Mackenzie, general manager, Healthylife.net
"Guy Finley possesses a natural capacity to apply profound wisdom in everyday life situations."―Michael Toms, New Dimensions World Broadcasting Network
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"Guy Finley possesses a natural capacity to apply profound wisdom in everyday life situations." -- Michael Toms, New Dimensions World Broadcasting Network
About the Author
Guy Finley is an internationally renowned spiritual teacher and bestselling self-help author. He is the Founder and Director of Life of Learning Foundation, a nonprofit center for transcendent self-study located in Merlin, Oregon. He also hosts the Foundation's Wisdom School, an online self-discovery program for seekers of higher self-knowledge. He is the best-selling author of The Secret of Letting Go and 45 other books and audio programs that have sold over 2 million copies, in 26 languages, worldwide. Guy's latest book, Relationship Magic: Waking Up Together, applies decades of spiritual wisdom to practical relationship challenges, transforming any relationship from mundane to magical. Visit him online at www.guyfinley.org.
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- Publisher : Llewellyn Publications; Revised ed. edition (October 8, 2007)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 312 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0738711985
- ISBN-13 : 978-0738711980
- Item Weight : 11 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.82 x 0.75 x 8.1 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #346,722 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #3,898 in Success Self-Help
- #5,358 in Motivational Self-Help (Books)
- #6,404 in Personal Transformation Self-Help
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Guy Finley is a best-selling self-help writer and internationally renowned spiritual teacher. He is the author of over 45 books and audio/video programs including his acclaimed seminal book The Secret of Letting Go. His popular books and audio programs, several of which have become international best sellers, have sold over 2 million copies worldwide.
Considered a modern-day Mystic and practical Philosopher, Guy’s wisdom cuts straight to the heart of today’s most pressing personal and social issues – relationships, success, addiction, stress, peace, happiness, freedom. His teachings reveal a broader and deeper understanding of life that opens new possibilities, helps release new energies, and delivers welcome relief from all of life's troubles.
Over the past 35 years, he has presented over 5,000 unique self-realization seminars to thousands of grateful students throughout North America and Europe. Each week over one hundred thousand subscribers in 142 countries read his inspiring Key Lesson eNewsletter – a short, inspirational email with powerful lessons on how to improve every aspect of your life.
Published in more than 26 languages, his popular works are widely endorsed by doctors, business professionals, and religious leaders of all denominations. Among many others, his popular titles include: The Secret of Your Immortal Self, The Essential Laws of Fearless Living, Let Go and Live in the Now, Design Your Destiny, The Lost Secrets of Prayer, and Secrets of Being Unstoppable.
Guy has been a featured guest on over 700 television and radio shows including national appearances on ABC, NBC, CBS, CNN, and NPR. He is a regular contributor to the Huffington Post, Beliefnet, Positively Positive and many more.
As the Founding Director of Life of Learning Foundation, (a non-profit Center for Self-Discovery in Merlin, Oregon) he presents four self-realization classes weekly. These meetings are ongoing and open to the pubic. He also hosts on-line courses through Life of Learning’s Wisdom School. In 2011, he launched the OneJourney Project (OneJourney.net) an award winning interfaith website illuminating the unseen spiritual unity underlying all world religions.
Guy’s newest book, Relationship Magic: Waking Up Together (Llewellyn), is scheduled for release in October, 2018.
For more information please visit www.guyfinley.org
Follow Guy Finley on Facebook (www.guyfinley.org/facebook), Twitter (www.guyfinley.org/twitter), and YouTube (www.guyfinley.org/youtube).
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I did not understand that until this book came up in a search for the answer of the answer! I used the techniques and that set the Ego on fire for a couple months, but I stuck with the technique and broke the Egos hold. Anyone can do this, anyone. Sadly few will stick with it. But if you can get past the initial discomfort you can begin to finally feel free. Give this too yourself and it also makes a great gift.
I read some, skimmed some, walked away, came back.
And I understand letting Life guide you.
But what about necessary struggles? Life says be a musician, but your child needs food and shelter? How do you pay the bills?
I found nothing about accountability toward those you are involved with.
"Hey, grandma, Life says I need to head to Oregon for a retreat. You need to find someone else to drive you to the grocery. Bye!"
I gave it away. Going back to prayer.
I bought three more copies to give to family members and friends, but may need more, as I find many people living in the past, or hanging on to unhealthy patterns in their lives.
This book is filled with wonderful instruction about how to let go of all the things that are holding us back from achieving happiness in our lives. The book is well written, easy to understand and filled with stories to illustrate or illuminate the point the author is making.
While it is easy to read, for some people it will take more than one reading to fully grasp the concepts Guy Finley is advocating. The book requires us to adopt a totally different mindset. That does not happen overnight. It requires some indepth study and contemplation. We need to develop an awareness of how we are blocking our quest for happiness - -how we get in our own way and become our own worst enemy.
We all have been programmed with lots of mis-information. We need to re-program our minds. To let go of all these negative thoughts. We must let go of fear, anger, resentment. This book tells us how to let go of all the things that keeps us stuck in our present circumstances.
But it will take accepting these truths and then acting on them to realize the true value of letting go. It is simple, but because of our prior programs which have become ingrained habits, it will not be easy.
Here are a few selected gems from the book:
"The more you depend on others to confirm you to yourself, the less real life you have of your own."
"Right isn't something you feel, it is something you are."
"Self-doubt is born out of being identified with the idea that how you feel about yourself depends upon how others feel about you."
There is a world of wisdom in this book. If you are tired of living in doubt and fear, tired of carrying around a lot of excess baggage then read this book and learn the secret of letting go.
This book has the information to change your life. Of course the information is only valuable if you accept it and start to live your life in accordance with the ideas given.
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I think this book is well written considering the topic, and comes from the same stable as Eckhart Tolle’s (ET) “The power of Now”. I get the impression Guy really does ‘get it’ and ‘lives it’, and does his best to give us a mind-shattering cognitive process to self-realization, rather than calling out to us from some enlightened state (which miraculously happened i.e. ET) as to how we need to be (devoid of a process to get there). He asks lots of good ego mind eroding questions (your days are numbered), and provides good chapter summaries that are helpful. It’s not an easy book to specifically recall its gems from, but I think with a few rereads of my highlighted sections it will become so.
If you’ve ever accessed altered states of consciousness spontaneously, or using shamanic practices (drumming, plant medicine) or via sacredly timed meditation-psychedelics i.e. Unity states of consciousness, transcending ego-body-space-time boundaries, chakra and kundalini activations, ego death, Satcitananda etc., as well as been afforded “glimpses” of your higher self in this realm (the eternal, observing, ever present, real mind knowingly connected to the source and awaiting our awakening) then I believe this book offers a language and partial process to help you/me begin the disassembly of our imposturous ego mind’s influence in creating our lives. Unbeknown to most of us, the challenge we’ve all got with God’s paradoxical gifted journey in life is to evolve our individual (and species collective) consciousness so we may experience, then stabilize, the higher self. Why? So we may eliminate the suffering we cause and escape karmic rebirth. If we fail this mission in this life, then we will be repeatedly gifted life until we experience / stabilize these higher states of consciousness and transform our lives (& deaths). Thats the cosmic game plan!
Will this book help you experientially achieve that higher-self realization and stabilization? I’m not sure. But I do know this is an important read for those on the healing and awakening path. I believe it offers us a window cleaning approach to begin to let some of the “light” shine out of our hearts and to glimpse the higher self. Perhaps it might offer a proverbial dam busting sledge hammer or acid dissolving agent for those who are ready to awaken i.e. eliminate the imposturous ego mind’s influence so the higher self may become realised and stabilized. Becoming aware of the higher self is all well and good, but stabilization then becomes the next challenge; and that is the tough part not really detailed herein (in my view). Nonetheless, this is an important cognitive adjusting / light shining step on our journeys and a must read.
Now if you combined this book with the ritual access of altered states of consciousness via Ritual Meditation (see www.carltonbrownv47.com) then you will have some complementary tools to experientially awaken/glimpse (instantaneous), then begin the journey to higher-self stabilization (a life long journey of spiritual and cognitive practice). That’s certainly my approach to this valuable and insightful book and spiritual tool. Thanks Guy Finley for a great book.
I simply do not believe any of that mojo
Still a valid book I would just edit the parts i consider voodoo









