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Editorial Reviews

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“Beautifully crafted. A lovely collection.”
Roxane Gay, author of
Bad Feminist

“Our new decade deserves a new literary force with major literary skills. Deesha Philyaw uses the comic, the allegorical, and the geographic to examine Black intimacies and Black secrets. Her work is as rigorous as it is pleasurable to read.”
Kiese Laymon, author of
Heavy

“To encounter Deesha Philyaw’s work is to encounter contemporary folktales. They are the stories of southern customs and mores and of voices over the back fence. The daughters and granddaughters of Toni Cade Bambara and Bebe Moore Campbell readers need this book.”
Yona Harvey, author of 
Hemming the Water and writer for the Marvel Comics World of Wakanda series


“This is no mere collection of sappy romance stories. The love in Philyaw’s stories runs the gamut from sweet to bitter, sexy to sisterly, temporary to time tested, often with hidden aspects. The word
secret in the title is earned, and some of the secrets are downright juicy.”
Tara Campbell, author of
Midnight at the Organporium, from Barrelhouse magazine


“Beguiling.”
The New Yorker

“Triumphant. . . . Philyaw’s stories inform and build on one another, turning her characters’ private struggles into a beautiful chorus.”
Publishers Weekly

“A collection of luminous stories populated by deeply moving and multifaceted characters. . . . Tender, fierce, proudly black and beautiful, these stories will sneak inside you and take root.”
Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

“Vivid, vibrant stories that will linger on your tongue like sweet tea.”
Vox



“In this year of constriction and pain, juicy goodness bursts from every page of Deesha Philyaw's debut short story collection. . . . This collection marks the emergence of a bona fide literary treasure.”
Minneapolis Star Tribune

“Sex, friendship, freedom, and agency are centered throughout this cheeky, insightful, and irresistible new book.”
Ms. Magazine

“Stunning. . . Philyaw’s stories are addictive while also laying bare the depth and vulnerability of Black women.”
Observer

“The church, sexuality, and everyday life come alive in each story bringing readers closer to experiences we can, or have, seen ourselves in.”
Electric Lit, “24 New and Forthcoming Books That Celebrate Black Lives”

“The stories of these women and their friendships come alive, beating with tenderness and imperfection, and build upon one another to create a beautiful melody of female determination.”
Amazon Book Review, “12 Must-Read Books by Black Authors Coming in Fall 2020”

“Full of lived-in humanity, warmth, and compassion.”
Pittsburgh Current

“These are stories about Black women that haven’t been told with this level of depth, wit, or insight before, so it will not shock me if Oprah gets around to selecting it before the end of the year.”​​​​​​​
Pittsburgh Post-Gazette

“Incredibly moving.”​​​​​​​
Pittsburgh City Paper
 

From the Back Cover

The Secret Lives of Church Ladies explores the raw and tender places where Black women and girls dare to follow their desires and pursue a momentary reprieve from being good. The nine stories in this collection feature four generations of characters grappling with who they want to be in the world, caught as they are between the church’s double standards and their own needs and passions.

There is fourteen-year-old Jael, who has a crush on the preacher’s wife. At forty-two, Lyra realizes that her discomfort with her own body stands between her and a new love. As Y2K looms, Caroletta’s “same time next year” arrangement with her childhood best friend is tenuous. A serial mistress lays down the ground rules for her married lovers. In the dark shadows of a hospice parking lot, grieving strangers find comfort in each other.

With their secret longings, new love, and forbidden affairs, these church ladies are as seductive as they want to be, as vulnerable as they need to be, as unfaithful and unrepentant as they care to be, and as free as they deserve to be.
 

Product details

  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ West Virginia University Press; First Edition (September 1, 2020)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 189 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1949199738
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1949199734
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 11.7 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 4.72 x 0.6 x 7.48 inches
  • Customer Reviews:
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Deesha Philyaw's collection of short stories about Black women, sex, and the Black church, THE SECRET LIVES OF CHURCH LADIES is forthcoming from West Virginia University Press in September 2020. Her work has been listed as Notable in the Best American Essays series, and her writing on race, parenting, gender, and culture has appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post, McSweeney’s, The Rumpus, Brevity, dead housekeeping, Apogee Journal, Catapult, Cheat River Review, TueNight, ESPN’s The Undefeated and The Baltimore Review; Essence, Ebony, and Bitch magazines; and various anthologies. Deesha is a Fellow at the Kimbilio Center for African American Fiction and a past Pushcart Prize nominee for essay writing in Full Grown People. Deesha is also the co-author of Co-Parenting 101: Helping Your Kids Thrive in Two Households After Divorce, written in collaboration with her ex-husband.

Learn more about Deesha's work at deeshaphilyaw.com.

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The first two stories were unexpected (not sure what I expected really), I thought I was supposed to be reading about church ladies

The writing in this book is beautiful. I kept stopping to smile at the pages and appreciate the words. One of the chapters is a long letter from a sister to another while another is a list of instructions. Each different writing style is refreshing.

My favourite chapter was How to Love a Physicist, a story of pure, patient love and self discovery.

The chapter that made me laugh the most was Instruction for Married Christian Husbands.

As a people watcher, I love reading about different characters. In this book we meet and fall in love (or hate) with all sorts of characters from the very patient Physicist called Eric, the strong willed Jael and her grandma, randy men who get pepper sauce in their drinks and Jamie who had much more than that, peach cobbler making mistresses and cheating pastors.

Themes explored in this book include grief and different ways of dealing with it, love (giving and accepting it), identity, dysfunctional families, sexuality and acceptance, infidelity and caring for sick parents.

I thoroughly enjoyed this book, read both the physical copy and listened to the audio book.
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