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The Secrets Of Female Sexuality Be The Masterful Lover Women Crave Paperback – September 16, 2009
by
David Shade
(Author)
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Women can only get all the things they really want when men know these truths, but women cannot speak these truths because that would violate all the rules. Society covers up these truths to maintain order, but it leaves women unfulfilled and men confused. Men are further frustrated by the seemingly contradictory logic of women. She wants a 'nice guy' yet she is addicted to a self-absorbed jerk. Has a woman ever cried on your shoulder because the bad boy that she is so in love with is inconsiderate, while you are a respectful 'good guy'? What is this power that bad boys have? They operate outside of social norms, and thus know the secrets. After many years in development, the book that needed to be written reveals the truths hidden behind social programming and explains the female mind with perfect clarity. A good guy, equipped with these truths, is far more powerful than any bad boy could ever comprehend. Like wearing X-ray vision glasses, the truth breaks the restraints of misconceptions and kicks butt into an enlightened future of personal empowerment. Discovered: What women want. Freud never could figure it out, but David Shade did. Explained: Why nice girls have the rape fantasy. The secrets make perfect sense of it. Exposed: Why women go outside of their marriage. There are four things that a woman must have, and she will risk her own marriage to get them. Revealed: How to bring out her primal carnal ruthlessly expressive natural sexual creature. Every woman has an inner animal waiting and wanting to be unleashed. David Shade is the renegade sex expert who had the courage to go outside the boundaries of conventional wisdom to find the things that really work, and work very powerfully. If you are a man who respects women and has the brass balls to handle the truth and a sense of responsibility enough to be entrusted with the power, you are the man who can make a woman wildly happy. Things will never look the same again. Women want you to know the truth, but for them to tell you the truth would violate all the rules. That's why it's called... Secrets. Women are glad to see someone else explain it. Women are happy to endorse this. Then they get exactly what they really want. Discover what those rules are, why they cannot violate those rules, why they want men to know the truth, and what it is that women truly want.
- Print length270 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherDavid Shade Corporation
- Publication dateSeptember 16, 2009
- Dimensions5.5 x 0.65 x 8.5 inches
- ISBN-100692004475
- ISBN-13978-0692004470
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Reviewed in the United States on October 24, 2011
This book captured exactly how I feel. I am a professional, business woman. My dad's a preacher, so I was raised with strong values and I would say people would call me a 'good girl'. But yet, I want to have passionate, slightly aggressive sex. I want my man to pull me towards him, or push me up against a wall, or rip my clothes off, or slap my butt. I want my man to call me a bad little girl or to talk to me dirty. I still like the romantic kissy stuff, but I like a mix of the other stuff too. I would only want this with the man I am friends with too because I would need to trust him and be madly in love with him to make the sex great. I have heard from more and more women that they have a hard time being the 'slut' with their husband compared to when they were dating. I think husbands have a hard time calling the woman they love a slut or being aggressive with her, but it really is what we want. If we don't get it with our husband, we imagine having it with someone else and it's not uncommon for this desire to get so strong that we eventually cheat or leave our husband so we can get that kind of sex that gives us real orgasms we don't have to fake. All men need to read this book and start using the suggested techniques with their wives, even if they feel uncomfortable doing it at first or don't think their wife will like it. Believe me, they will love it!
Reviewed in the United States on October 21, 2009
I am not finished with this book yet and I feel like I have been lied to about women all my life. Had I had the info in this book when I was younger I might have, would have not been so afraid of women and had more sex and better quality sex. I would have understood things like why things are the way the are between men and women. Why in movies women are told sex is bad and for boys that are told sex is a great thing. That is something that still plays tricks with me to this day.
Every man should get this book to see women more honestly than women see themselves.
This book his about how a woman want to be treated in and out of your bed. I look forward to the days and the wonderful nights ahead.
Oh, I'm only a quarter of the through this book and I've already think I got my money's worth and I a very slow reader that just opened the book at 7:00pm and I can't put it down at 4:30am. I want to know more, a must read! I'll let you know more if there's anything else to say.
Every man should get this book to see women more honestly than women see themselves.
This book his about how a woman want to be treated in and out of your bed. I look forward to the days and the wonderful nights ahead.
Oh, I'm only a quarter of the through this book and I've already think I got my money's worth and I a very slow reader that just opened the book at 7:00pm and I can't put it down at 4:30am. I want to know more, a must read! I'll let you know more if there's anything else to say.
Reviewed in the United States on August 28, 2017
This is a marketing tool to get you to purchase the $97 full collection. At best it's a motivational read with little information or substance that will help you. I put about 3+ hours in reading it on Kindle and feel my time was just ripped off and a bit offended by this kind of marketing that is now so prevelant in digital books and on the web. This marketing format is also heavily used on his websites and newsletters ...eg promises if you click a link or download you will get amazing insights only to find out you get your time wasted reading and reading with a lot of appeals to purchase something else. Being an alpha man who thinks and reasons for himself I find this form of marketing an affront to my intelligence and no matter how good your next level of content might be I will never purchase it this way. If you had laid out in some intelligent data based format what your facts are, what your methods and tools are, no matter how skimpy in this prelude, if it seems reasonable and real I would move on to purchase more, but using relentless teases and conquest sex talk you lost me. I am going to look elsewhere for more information on the subject. I do feel that the author did try to get his message across that he genuinely loves and respects women but I did not find that same message of respect in many of the testimonials and conquest examples used ... esp the last "big" one. This was a real turn off.
Reviewed in the United States on November 8, 2009
I've been a follower of David's for quite a while and have most of his products. His insight into the needs of the female to feel fulfilled is above and beyond many in the field. This book should be required reading for any man who truly has the desire to understand how the mind of women works and what it takes to fulfill their needs. My only problem with the book is that almost half of it is copies of emails that David has received, mostly from women who are complaining about some aspect of the man or men in their lives. Sometimes full chapters are just emails. I understand the purpose was to give examples of what women are saying and sometimes to edify the author but I think he got a bit excessive.
Overall I found it enlightening and I will re-read it in the future but I will skip over most of the emails. C. O. Seattle, WA
Overall I found it enlightening and I will re-read it in the future but I will skip over most of the emails. C. O. Seattle, WA
Reviewed in the United States on October 11, 2009
I always wanted to know why my relationships never lasted or why I was still single. Now I know! I also know now, what to look for in a woman.
I'm still single and that's probably a good thing, because I can test what David Shade teaches. Immediately upon meeting a woman, I know for a fact if she is the type of woman I want to be in a relationship with! Then once we get to know each other, I find out my hunch is right.
The dates I've gone on recently have been with quality women and now I'm the one that get's to pick and choose who I want to be in a relationship with. Ever spend a lot of time with someone, wondering if it will work? Only to be frustrated that it only lasted a few weeks or months?
Get The Book, READ IT, APPLY WHAT David Shade teaches from his and other's experiences. Only then will you understand what it means to be the man women want and to find the woman every man deserves to have!
I'm still single and that's probably a good thing, because I can test what David Shade teaches. Immediately upon meeting a woman, I know for a fact if she is the type of woman I want to be in a relationship with! Then once we get to know each other, I find out my hunch is right.
The dates I've gone on recently have been with quality women and now I'm the one that get's to pick and choose who I want to be in a relationship with. Ever spend a lot of time with someone, wondering if it will work? Only to be frustrated that it only lasted a few weeks or months?
Get The Book, READ IT, APPLY WHAT David Shade teaches from his and other's experiences. Only then will you understand what it means to be the man women want and to find the woman every man deserves to have!
Top reviews from other countries
R. Gerding
1.0 out of 5 stars
Good to read if you know the man you're dating ...
Reviewed in Canada on January 4, 2015
Good to read if you know the man you're dating has a copy - so you can know how he's trying to manipulate you. Not content that will create any lasting meaningful relationships or even lasting enjoyable sex. You might get to stroke your ego for a while though. The only book I ever ripped the cover off of and recycled with the garbage so it wouldn't end up in the Goodwill store and create hurt for another woman.
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Splash_42
5.0 out of 5 stars
Very Interesting Stuff!
Reviewed in Germany on July 15, 2014
If you're interested in improving yourself as a man, and not only regarding your sexlife, you really should take a look at this book.
Michaël Lebrun
5.0 out of 5 stars
This book will connect you and your lover on a very deep level.
Reviewed in France on January 30, 2011
Amazing book!! You have to get this book!! If you apply the things in this book and get the mindset, you will have a much deeper connection with your lover, make her crazy about you, keep her for life, and be much more in love with each other, which will also benefit your kids to see their parents madly in love.
Magic Lemur
5.0 out of 5 stars
** ALL men should be made to read this book (WITHOUT EXCEPTION!) **
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on December 18, 2009
There is something odd about
the Bible
. Every time God addresses Men in the Bible, he does it twice (e.g. Ex 3:2: "Moses, Moses" & Acts 9:4: "Saul, Saul").
Why is this? Simple answer: Men always need to be told everything twice!
And God has it easy - Women trying to tell Men about how to be good in bed, what they should read/ view & how they really aren't the Lothario they think they are? It falls on deaf ears. The World's most powerful Evangelists in their prime (including Dawkins), 50 Martin Luther-Kings (with megaphones & loud speakers) AND a fleet of airplanes (that could write it across all the skies of the World) couldn't get the message across.
Why are they so stubborn? Because (in the words of Jay Leno on Top Gear ) "Sex is like driving a car; all men think they're good at it!"
Reading this book, I fell into this trap myself - my ego kept saying what a stud I was & how I didn't need ANY of this material. Had I been in a relationship at the time, it would have been even worse as the 'Just Be Yourself' routine would have stopped me learning anything at all. I also suggested this book to male friends & they were incredulous as to why I was even bothering to read it.
However, I'm so glad I continued reading & read all the emails of Women saying 'Help me to Help him!' & how they'd surely cheat if their Man didn't start listening & correct their behaviour. It really is an amazing revelation to see, with open eyes, one of the greatest causes of domestic strife in modern times (& probably a few World Wars!).
The sad & sorry truth is: Most Men are terrible in bed & (even worse) are unwilling to learn how to rectify it or even see it as a problem.
Women frequently buy this book (& 'How to Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms') for their partners, read it themselves & then beseech their partners to do so. Few Men do & most have such fragile egos that they ignore the message. If only they had the humility to learn, they would find that the truth really does set you free; knowing how to make a Woman happy in bed is *crucial* to every relationship & knowing what an exquisite thing the feminine is, is to be a complete human being.
Imagine if everyone knew the techniques in this book. There's be fewer divorces. There'd be no Bad Boys 'sharking' around other people's marriages looking for homes to ruin. And the whole World would feel more happy, more complete & more fulfilled.
All this said, there are weaknesses to this book. The first (& most obvious) is that much of this book consists of lots of emails from Women one-after-another-after-another, with little or no input from the author. It's almost like Mr Shade has employed 'Polly Filler' from Private Eye to fill out the book to over 250 pages!
Furthermore, I noticed that Mr Shade uses a lot of his material from here in his newsletter & vice versa. This is mostly forgivable, but it can be a little annoying when you expect a brand new newsletter & find old material from this book. It's almost a disincentive for buying it.
That said, NO disincentive should dissuade people from buying this book. There is still an epic crisis out there & one of the few places you will find a remedy is within the pages of this book. Hopefully, one day all people will see this & Men will show themselves as the leaders they are born to be & fulfil their purpose in life.
So, to conclude, if you're a Woman, then please buy this for your Man (even if he is actually good in bed). I personally have even had female colleagues asking me for a copy & wanting to see mine, so you're not alone. Oh, and if you want to persuade your man, show them this review! ;)
If you're male, then I encourage you to buy this & discover what it really is to be a Man.
As for me? I'm buying a copy to put in my local pub...
Why is this? Simple answer: Men always need to be told everything twice!
And God has it easy - Women trying to tell Men about how to be good in bed, what they should read/ view & how they really aren't the Lothario they think they are? It falls on deaf ears. The World's most powerful Evangelists in their prime (including Dawkins), 50 Martin Luther-Kings (with megaphones & loud speakers) AND a fleet of airplanes (that could write it across all the skies of the World) couldn't get the message across.
Why are they so stubborn? Because (in the words of Jay Leno on Top Gear ) "Sex is like driving a car; all men think they're good at it!"
Reading this book, I fell into this trap myself - my ego kept saying what a stud I was & how I didn't need ANY of this material. Had I been in a relationship at the time, it would have been even worse as the 'Just Be Yourself' routine would have stopped me learning anything at all. I also suggested this book to male friends & they were incredulous as to why I was even bothering to read it.
However, I'm so glad I continued reading & read all the emails of Women saying 'Help me to Help him!' & how they'd surely cheat if their Man didn't start listening & correct their behaviour. It really is an amazing revelation to see, with open eyes, one of the greatest causes of domestic strife in modern times (& probably a few World Wars!).
The sad & sorry truth is: Most Men are terrible in bed & (even worse) are unwilling to learn how to rectify it or even see it as a problem.
Women frequently buy this book (& 'How to Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms') for their partners, read it themselves & then beseech their partners to do so. Few Men do & most have such fragile egos that they ignore the message. If only they had the humility to learn, they would find that the truth really does set you free; knowing how to make a Woman happy in bed is *crucial* to every relationship & knowing what an exquisite thing the feminine is, is to be a complete human being.
Imagine if everyone knew the techniques in this book. There's be fewer divorces. There'd be no Bad Boys 'sharking' around other people's marriages looking for homes to ruin. And the whole World would feel more happy, more complete & more fulfilled.
All this said, there are weaknesses to this book. The first (& most obvious) is that much of this book consists of lots of emails from Women one-after-another-after-another, with little or no input from the author. It's almost like Mr Shade has employed 'Polly Filler' from Private Eye to fill out the book to over 250 pages!
Furthermore, I noticed that Mr Shade uses a lot of his material from here in his newsletter & vice versa. This is mostly forgivable, but it can be a little annoying when you expect a brand new newsletter & find old material from this book. It's almost a disincentive for buying it.
That said, NO disincentive should dissuade people from buying this book. There is still an epic crisis out there & one of the few places you will find a remedy is within the pages of this book. Hopefully, one day all people will see this & Men will show themselves as the leaders they are born to be & fulfil their purpose in life.
So, to conclude, if you're a Woman, then please buy this for your Man (even if he is actually good in bed). I personally have even had female colleagues asking me for a copy & wanting to see mine, so you're not alone. Oh, and if you want to persuade your man, show them this review! ;)
If you're male, then I encourage you to buy this & discover what it really is to be a Man.
As for me? I'm buying a copy to put in my local pub...
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Lala
5.0 out of 5 stars
Erleuchtend
Reviewed in Germany on January 29, 2015
Das Buch öffnet dein Bewusstsein um dir zu zeigen was alles möglich ist . Ich kann es definitiv jeden Mann empfehlen.








