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Blog postWhat if someone told you that you needed to repent for a lack of romance in your marriage? You’d probably respond like us: bewildered, defensive, and with nervous laughter. In today’s podcast episode we’ll dig beneath the surface understanding of romance and talk about how how it’s connected—in more ways than one—to the states of our hearts. It was a fun, challenging talk but our…1 week ago Read more
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Blog postAttachment styles are all about the way you interact the way you do, particularly around need, affection, and conflict. In this episode we talked through the four common attachment styles for relationships and, as usual, looked at Scripture to see how the gospel informs this area of marriage. We hope it blesses you! Our brand new marriage learning project, Gospel Centered Marriage is now LIVE.…1 month ago Read more
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Blog postLike a virus, discontentment infects and sickens every healthy aspect life and marriage. It infects our affections, our views of each other, and our very trust in God. Author Nancy Wilson wrote, “Contentment is the result of spiritual strength that comes directly from Christ. Contentment is the ability to stay satisfied with God’s will in all circumstances, whether easy or difficult. Though it is simple…2 months ago Read more
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Blog postDivorce affects the majority of married couples today—some 75% of couples have one or both spouses who come from a divorced or blended family. This week we discussed a few of the unspoken but very common ways that divorce affects individuals and the marriages they occupy. Selena shared some of her personal experience and reflected on recent reading she’s done on the subject. ALSO… we…2 months ago Read more
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Blog postMany find themselves in one of two camps on this topic: “Avoid opposite-sex friends like the plague!” or “Don’t be a prude!” We think there’s a third way—one that’s biblical and wise. In this episode, Ryan and Selena discuss this controversial topic while sharing their own experiences and biblical understanding of how we “can have the wisdom to know and enjoy the blessing of friendship…3 months ago Read more
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Blog postOne of the first pieces of advice we received as newlyweds was to never use sex as a weapon. What we’ve come to realize, however, is that sometimes it should be… just not how you might think. Listen in as we discuss Paul’s words on the topic. Thanks for listening! If you’d like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly patrons get plenty…3 months ago Read more
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Blog postEveryone knows marriage has incredible highs and very frustrating (and difficult) lows. In today’s episode, we shared how we’ve been in a prolonged “funk” lately but have found a path forward through prayer. Listen in as we discuss the miracle of prayer for believers and practical ways you can make praying a part of your ongoing battle strategy in your fight for a God-honoring, flourishing…4 months ago Read more
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Blog postStriving to enter rest sounds counterintuitive. Funny enough, that language comes directly from Scripture (Hebrews 4). In today’s episode, we discussed the biblical idea of Sabbath and what it means for Christian homes today—and how you, as a married couple, can “strive to enter rest” the way the bible commands. Thanks for listening! If you’d like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly…4 months ago Read more
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Blog postWhat if we told you that marriage matters more than we realized? What if we told you that whenever you fight for your marriage, you’re engaging in cosmic warfare. In this episode, we looked at the magnitude of marriage and looked at three specific battlefronts where we wage the warfare of marriage. We hope this episode blesses and emboldens you! Thanks for listening to the…5 months ago Read more
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Blog postIf you’ve ever felt discontent with your sex life, you’re not alone. in this episode, we answered the oft-asked question, How often should we be having sex? As you’d imagine, we looked at various passages of Scripture and contrasted the biblical view with that of the world. We then ended with three very practical questions for you to ask yourself and your spouse about your…6 months ago Read more
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Will you take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge?
Every marriage begins with purpose, passion, and intentional pursuit, but few marriages stay that way. Wife in Pursuit aims to help change that.
Over the course of 31 days, your marriage will be transformed as you dig into God’s Word, rediscover how Christ has pursued you, and take real action to intentionally pursue your husband. In this book, you will:
- Gain a deeper understanding of your identity in Christ
- Apply the gospel to how and why you pursue your husband
- Complete 31 “Pursuit Challenges” that turn gospel truths into real action
- Have honest conversations, initiate intimacy, plan memorable dates, devise elaborate escapes, and explore small ways to show genuine affection
Wife in Pursuit offers a gospel-centered, practical path toward loving your husband well. Will you take the challenge? And if you do, dare you complete it?
Note:
This book was written alongside Husband in Pursuit. Couples are encouraged to take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge together.
BONUS: "50 CREATIVE DATE IDEAS" INCLUDED
The author has crafted a custom list of fun, creative, and unconventional date ideas (each with a twist) to help women in their pursuit of their husbands... just in case they need a boost of inspiration.
When Ryan survived, they both realized that they still had a future together. But the near loss changed the way they saw all that would lie ahead. They would live and love fiercely, fighting for each other and for a Christ-centered marriage, every step of the way.
Fierce Marriage is their story, but more than that, it is a call for married couples to put God first in their relationship, to measure everything they do and say to each other against what Christ did for them, and to see marriage not just as a relationship they should try to keep healthy but also as one worth fighting for in every situation. With the gospel as their foundation, Ryan and Selena offer hope and practical help for common struggles in marriage, including communication problems, sexual frustration, financial stress, family tension, screen-time disconnection, and unrealistic expectations.
Fierce Marriage authors Ryan and Selena Frederick think your marriage deserves better. In this new, paradigm-shifting book, they show you how to develop a see-through marriage, one that is marked by full transparency and confident vulnerability. Through personal stories, testimonies from other couples, and biblical truth, they make the case that living authentically in front of each other is the only way to experience love the way we were designed to.
If you desire an honest, no-holding-back marriage where you are fully known, fully accepted, and fully loved, you need this book.
Fiercely Focused on Christ
Learn how the gospel relates to every aspect of your marriage by tracing core issues to their source and seeking Jesus as the answer to every question.
Visually Rich and Challenging
Each day starts with an image/quote combination designed to inspire and stimulate conversation. Explore passages of the Bible, connect the gospel to real challenges, and pray alongside your spouse.
10 Bonus Images Include
In addition to the 30 devotional images, enjoy 10 bonus graphics with space to express why they matter to you. Cut out a few pages, write on the backs, and place them around your home or work place as constant reminders.
Chapters and Outline
Day 1: Rocks, Rockets, & the Gravity of Belief
Day 2: No Longer Two
Day 3: The Blessed Fountain
Day 4: Busier Isn't Better
Day 5: Created Beautiful
Day 6: A Worthwhile Pursuit
Day 7: Christ is Enough
Day 8: Foundational Friendship
Day 9: An Unparalleled Adventure
Day 10: Perseverance (doesn't equal) Perfection
Day 11: Fully Known & Fully Loved
Day 12: Laugh, Listen, Love
Day 13: The Generous Marriage
Day 14: Keep the House, Toss the Bulb
Day 15: Lost in Intimacy
Day 16: Works in Progress
Day 17: No shortcuts, No Substitutes
Day 18: Reconciliation Over Retaliation
Day 19: Lives Marked by Pursuit
Day 20: Pray, Play, Stay
Day 21: The Three Proximities of Intimacy
Day 22: Seeing the Same Truth
Day 23: This Grace in Which We Stand
Day 24: Love for All Occasions
Day 25: Beautiful In-Between
Day 26: Design Your Time
Day 27: Exchange Fear for Faith
Day 28: Love vs Lust
Day 29: A Generational Gift
Day 30: Love Endures All Things
Bonus Images
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