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A deeper probe into relationships starts with our heart's desires At last, a 'relationship book' that looks past what separates us to examine what connects us! Dr. Mark and Debra Laaser go to the heart of the matter. Instead of focusing on how to sidestep or compensate for perceived differences, they dig deeper, to the core of our souls, to examine how the basic desires and needs of all people make us more alike than different. The Seven Desires of Every Heart explores the common desires God gives you---to be heard, affirmed, blessed, safe, touched, chosen, and included. Using stories, Biblical references, and sound psychological principles, the Laasers explain each desire and show us how we seek it and what it feels like to have it truly fulfilled. You also will learn healthy ways to embody these desires in your relationships. You will be given the tools you need to start repairing and rebuilding relationships and developing new skills for creating emotional and spiritual intimacy.

About the Author

Mark Laaser, MDiv, PhD, is the founder of Faithful & True, a Christian-based counseling center in Minneapolis, specializing in sexual addiction. Dr. Laaser is regarded as the leading sexual addiction authority in the Christian counseling community. He is author of many books, including Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction, Becoming a Man of Valor, Taking Every Thought Captive, and The 7 Principles of Highly Accountable Men.



Debbie Laaser, MA, is a licensed marriage and family therapist and has been involved in recovery with her husband, Mark, for over twenty-seven years.  Debbie facilitates therapy groups and counsels   spouses who have been relationally betrayed. She speaks with her husband at training events and workshops around the country. Mark and Debbie Laaser are also the authors of The Seven Desires of Every Heart.

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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Zondervan (October 2, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0310278163
  • ISBN-13: 978-0310278160
  • Product Dimensions: 6.1 x 0.8 x 9.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 15.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (28 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #432,600 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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I have seen, first hand, with my own eyes the result of the work the Laaser's do in the lives of people who's marriages are beyond hope. Their work did not "fix" the couple; it "changed" them.

If you are not dealing with marital issues but you still live on planet earth and have to deal with other people this is also a must read. CAUTION: Read this book slowly. Read it when you are fully awake; no TV on to distract you. Read it with a pen and paper at hand to take notes. You will get out of it what you put in.
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"The Seven Desires Of Every Heart" by Mark and Debra Laaser focuses on what the authors perceive are the 7 great needs of every human being:

1. To be heard and understood
2. To be affirmed
3. To be blessed
4. To be safe
5. To be touched
6. To be chosen
7. To be included

The authors show how important these needs are and how the reader may have them met in legitimate ways that please God.

The book is a good read and encourages and challenges the reader to think of the ways he or she tries to have these needs met and how their current methods are working.

Recommended.
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By Patti on November 2, 2008
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The Seven Desires of Every Heart is a great book to use for a couple's small group study. I read through the book quickly and gleaned a lot, but collected much more valuable information when I slowed down and pondered the points the authors were making. These points are not to be missed to help you refocus on understanding your own needs and the needs of those you love. I look forward to working through the workbook that is coming out to help solidify these concepts in my heart and mind so they can become a compass for quality living.
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What a phenomenal book! This has helped me identify my basic desires and how to fulfill them. The second chapter is worth the price of the whole book! The questions at the end of each chapter really help too. Highly recommended.
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An excellent tool for personal growth and understanding why folks react the way they do. We used it for our devotions each morning and found it worked well to stimulate thinking, interaction, understanding, and therefore communication. I would highly recommend this book.
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By Peaches on February 26, 2015
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I enjoyed this book. It steps away from the cliched perspective of how men and women are different to focus instead on how we are alike. I have found the seven desires useful in settings outside of marriage so this book has been doubly helpful.
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Everyone has been hurt by others in some way. This book details the basic seven desires of human need and how we can ask for them from others, but they truly can only be achieved completely through our relationship to God.
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The seven desires is a great read. As humans we all want the same things in principle and this books drives that home and teaches us how to take others into consideration and give them what they want without suffering any harm.
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