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Sex Recharge: A Rejuvenation Plan for Couples and Singles Paperback – Bargain Price, January 27, 2009
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“Love Sex and the City? Revisit the world of strategic dating with Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either.” (People )
“Men, while still lame, can no longer hide behind the old excuse of ignorance when it comes to pleasuring a woman--the facts are all here in this complete guide.” (Dr. Drew Pinsky, co-host of Loveline )
“Move over, Casanova. Step aside, Don Juan. Out of the way Mr. Big. Meet Ian Kerner, the author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman.” (New York Post )
“Required reading for all men who are dating and all women who are wondering why they’re not satisfied.” (Cindy Chupack, writer/executive producer of Sex and the City )
“Take note, guys. This book is your secret weapon.” (Jauretsi Saizarbitoria, Jane Magazine )
“This book has an incredible amount of detailed, useful information about pleasuring women. I kind of knew I was doing everything wrong, but now I know why. Thanks Ian!” (Joel Stein )
“This well-written, hands-on, fluff-free book puts the ‘big-penis-big-orgasm’ theory to rest once and for all, and offers men the tools they need to have their partners coming back for more. No man or woman should be without it.” (Michele Weiner-Davis, M.S.W., author of The Sex-Starved Marriage )
“Witty and informed . . . this must-read promises to help you break your bad dating habits and stay true to your own intentions.” (Us Weekly )
“Ian Kerner is that rare man who truly loves women and wants to help them. Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either is a smart and very funny guide to getting off your butt and getting back on the journey that will eventually lead you to someone who love (From the foreword by Amy Sohn, New York magazine columnist )
“Here comes a book that puts men in their places - smack dab in between women’s legs!” (Cake )
“Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.” (Cosmopolitan )
“Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either is a funny and truly helpful look at what modern women may have forgotten (or just won’t admit) about themselves. Ian Kerner’s insights show us what we really think, why it matters, and how we can get what we really want.” (Jane Buckingham, author of The Modern Girl's Guide to Life )
“Armed with a doctorate in clinical sexology, Kerner has devoted his life to the study and practice of good sex-there are few men that wouldn’t benefit from the female-centric philosophy and techniques that Kerner advocates.” (Salon.com )
“An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!” (Playgirl )
“A funny and truly helpful look at what modern women may have forgotten (or just won’t admit) about themselves. (Jane Buckingham, author of The Modern Girl's Guide to Life )
“[Kerner] addresses common sexual concerns with compassion and straightforward advice.” (New York Post )
“Women will be putty in your hands if you read this book!” (Anka Radakovich, author of The Wild Girl's Club )
“You’ve all heard about ‘lunch at the Y.’ Well, this book will make it a feeding frenzy.” (—Sue Johanson, host of Oxygen's Talk Sex )
PRAISE FOR BE HONEST—YOU’RE NOT THAT INTO HIM EITHER:“Love Sex and the City? Revisit the world of strategic dating with Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either.” (People )
PRAISE FOR SHE COMES FIRST:“The sex manual getting the most attention these days is She Comes First. . . . With a cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform, [Kerner] encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.” (New York Times )
PRAISE FOR BE HONEST—YOU’RE NOT THAT INTO HIM EITHER“Unlike many nuptial-obsessed manuals, Be Honest is about figuring out how to best serve your own needs, both sexual and otherwise, and still respect yourself in the morning.” (Elle.com )
“It’s refreshing and reassuring to know that Ian Kerner is out there in the world showing people how to love.” (Helen Fisher, PhD, author of Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love )
“Who knew that a temporary bout of celibacy could be so sexy? This book will gently hold your hand throughout the process, challenging you with questions you never dared ask yourself and inspiring you with stories and manageable to-do lists.” (Em & Lo, authors of Buh Bye: The Ultimate Guide to Dumping and Getting Dumped and Sex Toy: An A-Z Guide to Bedside Accessories )
“Kerner makes intimacy intimate again, as well as downright lustful. You’ll walk away trusting your instincts instead of subscribing to the fabricated ideas of what sexy ‘should’ be.” (Stephanie Klein, author of Straight Up and Dirty )
About the Author
Ian Kerner , Ph.D., is a sex therapist —Dr. Drew Pinsky and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books. He contributes regularly to Today and lives in New York City with his wife and two young sons.
Top Customer Reviews
What I really like about this book is that everything is laid out in a schedule. The "Couple's Detox" for example:
Module 1 - Starting Up - Days 1 to 5
Module 2 - Your Sexual Health - Days 6 to 9
Module 3 - Sexual Socialization - Days 10 to 15
Module 4 - Previous Relationships - Days 16 to 20
Module 5 - The Love Map (and How to Navigate It) - Days 21 to 25
Module 6 - Here and Now - Days 26 to 30
If you enjoy something that is very specific on what actions to take, you'll love this book. Just open the book up to the section you're on and do what it says. Easy.
Single? Don't worry. There is also a program in this book for you. :)
This book has been very helpful for me and my husband. The best way to describe it is like "starting over." We've got a blank slate now, which is a lot of fun. We didn't lose the good stuff we had though, if that makes sense. We've got something fresh and exciting now, but also carried things like a foundation of communication and knowing each other, even though there have been times in our relationship where that wasn't always apparent. This book helped to bring the good things out.
It's nice to see books for couples, which are progressive and open-minded. So many I've seen are "faith based" and, in my opinion, don't get to the real heart of the matter. This one does.
If you enjoy this book and are looking for another "couples" book, also with a good sense of humor, definitely check out Just F Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom (A Guide for Couples). Lots of fun. :)