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Shameless Parenting: Everything You Need to Raise Shame-free, Confident Kids and Heal Your Shame Too! Paperback – May 19, 2021
- Print length124 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateMay 19, 2021
- Dimensions8.5 x 0.3 x 11 inches
- ISBN-13979-8705400423
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- ASIN : B095GDF9LM
- Publisher : Independently published (May 19, 2021)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 124 pages
- ISBN-13 : 979-8705400423
- Item Weight : 13.4 ounces
- Dimensions : 8.5 x 0.3 x 11 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,565,121 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #1,722 in Parenting & Family Reference
- #2,175 in Medical Child Psychology
- #2,751 in Popular Child Psychology
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Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers is a sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, professor emerita, and author of two best selling books Shameless Parenting - Everything You Need to Raise Shame-Free, Confident Kids & Heal Your Shame Too! and Sex, God and the Conservative Church – Erasing Shame from Sexual Intimacy. She is a preeminent voice on the impact of sexual shame on sexual health and attachment. In her latest book, Shameless Sex – Everything You Need to Raise Shame-free, Confident Kids, and Heal Your Shame Too!, Dr. Sellers highlights the trickiest parts of each stage of parenting (birth to 18) that tend to trigger shame-based reactivity. It is the hardest part of parenting. It is from our own places of shame that we over-react, repeating patterns from our parent’s that we might otherwise have resisted. This is the book parents have been waiting for. Dr. Tina is also the founder and medical director of the Northwest Institute on Intimacy which provides training and supervision for therapists, medical providers and clergy in sexual health and confronting sexual bias. Frequently featured on podcasts, TV, documentaries, articles and radio, including Spirituality & Health magazine, Tina travels the country as a keynote speaker for organizations, parents and professionals helping them become competent teaching shame-free relational and sexual health. She can be reached at TinaSchermerSellers.com, and followed on Instagram @DrTinaShameless.
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The information in this booklet is specifically age-appropriate, giving parents a summary of what is developmentally appropriate for children ranging from toddlers to age eighteen. Readers can easily turn to the age-group of their children and find ideas for talking points with their children. Our children need ongoing conversation around consent, gender and sexuality and Tina points to ongoing sex-education as more beneficial than a once-off “sex talk.”
This booklet challenges parents to deal with their own shame and embarrassment around sexuality so that they can, in fact, be in regular ongoing conversation with their children about sex and sexuality. It is a helpful starting point for parents on a journey toward becoming better sex-educators and advocates for their children, especially if this wasn’t something they experienced while they were being parented themselves and feel inadequate to do. This resource equips parents to evolve further than the previous generation of parents, so that our children can also go forward and do better than us!
Shameless Parenting is also a quick and easy go-to if your child approaches you with questions or comments that you are a little unsure or uncomfortable about. The book is quite succinct, but shares extensive lists of resources for parents to investigate as they continue on the journey of becoming better sex-educators for their children.
Each chapter provides clear, developmentally appropriate guidance on how to speak to children about sexuality, bodies, behaviors, boundaries, communication, and relationships.
A distinctive strength of this book is accessibility. Dr. Sellers provides clear, succinct, language and structure to communicate with young ones. Parents and caregivers who would otherwise be intimidated by literature on this topic are equipped with comprehensible tools to nourish their loved ones’ growth. It is works like these which will bridge the gap between academia and the everyday parent who wishes to provide their child a safer and more joy-filled upbringing.
We are lucky to have books like Shameless Parenting, and passionate clinicians and educators like Dr. Sellers, whose warmth rings through each chapter of this collection.
emotional and sexual development in a way that helps to demystify the job of parents to raise
children up in a positive culture around bodies and sexuality that may have been different than
the way they were raised. As many were raised with some degree of shame (whether that was
from family systems, gender stereotypes, or religious backgrounds), this book helps to chart a
new course to show that it doesn’t have to be this way! Just as all parents have What to Expect
While You are Expecting, this should be given to every new parent as a roadmap for the
adventure ahead of raising healthy and whole people who are in relationships marked by
responsibility, respect, mutuality, connection, and joy.
Parent of a 20 year old daughter and a 17 year old son





