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I Shouldn't Be Telling You This: Success Secrets Every Gutsy Girl Should Know Hardcover – September 18, 2012
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About the Author
Kate White, the former editor-in-chief of Cosmopolitan magazine, is the New York Times bestselling author of the standalone psychological thrillers The Wrong Man, Eyes on You, Hush, The Sixes, and the Bailey Weggins mystery series. White is also the author of popular career books for women, including I Shouldn’t Be Telling You This: How to Ask for the Money, Snag the Promotion, and Create the Career You Deserve and editor of the Anthony and Agatha Award nominated The Mystery Writers of America Cookbook: Wickedly Good Meals and Desserts to Die For. She lives in New York City.
From the Back Cover
Kate White—New York Times bestselling author, editor in chief of Cosmopolitan for fourteen years, and motivational speaker—shares her gutsy secrets to success in this witty, straight-talking new career guide for women.
Whether you've just settled into your first work cubicle and have no clue how to go after the success you crave, or you've already got a sweet little office but you aren't sure how to take your career to the next level, I Shouldn't Be Telling You This gives you all the secrets you need to become a success, go big with it, and then savor every second. It is jam-packed with insider strategies, interviews with women at the top of their game, and Kate's advice from her own career running five major magazines (including one of the bestselling women's magazines in the world, Cosmopolitan). She hows you how to break out of the pack, master the learning curve, make bold moves, and, ultimately, have the career you've always lusted for!
Kate shares five secrets every woman needs to know—how to:• Land a Job You're Truly Passionate About
• Use "Bitch Envy" to Your Advantage
• Radiate Confidence and Get Buzzed About (Without Worrying What Other People Think)
• Ask for the Money You Want—and Get It
• Manage Your Career and Not Just Your Job (It's a Whole Different Ball Game!)
But more than anything, Kate says, you have to go big or go home—do what's unexpected and always keep your career trajectory in mind. It might be tackling a project that no one else is taking on and nailing it—then making sure your boss knows it. Or it might be developing a "golden gut" that will help you to break the rules the right way, so you always end up shining. In I Shouldn't Be Telling You This, Kate White shares the kinds of secrets no boss is ever likely to spill—all with her irreverent wit and candid style. You'll come away with the know-how you need—and you'll feel as though you've just gotten up from a fabulously dishy lunch!
Top Customer Reviews
I am a working mom which is challenging in it's own right but to make it even more so, I decided to go into the construction industry. I had the attitude Kate talks about in her book that "they" will see how hard I work and reward me, or I didnt want "them" to think I was greedy or not like me so I didnt ASK for a lot. I have been working in this field for the past 20 years with that attitude. I had read all of the staple books, "How to Win Friends and Influence People", Nice Girls Dont Get the Corner Office", "Lean In", Dale Carnegie and Stephen Covey books, and many many more. Some of the things I read made sense and some I even applied. After reading Kate's book I immediately went out and bought 3 more copies, one for each niece and one for my daughter in law. While I really hate to sound like a stalker fan, I have to admit that I have been listening to Kate's book on audio every morning, on my commute, for the past month. It is giving me insight on a daily basis and I am making some rewarding changes to my thinking! Love, love, love it! In fact I recently told my mom that no other book as had this big of an impact on me since the Bible (dramatic I know).
Kate's most recent career advice book, "I Shouldn't Be Telling You This," is sort of a follow-up to her earlier one, but not quite. While her first career book was written mainly for women in the early stages of their careers, "I Shouldn't Be Telling You This" is supposedly geared to women of all ages--from someone just out of school who's just starting her first job, to a mid-career professional who wants to climb the corporate ladder of success or perhaps reinvent herself, to someone who has already achieved a certain measure of success but doesn't want to be a slave to her job. The book is divided into three "Success" sections: How to Get It; How to Go Big With It; and How to Savor It. While there are some good tips in here, I found a lot of them to be rather shallow. The chapters are short and easy to read--but that's part of the problem. Each chapter is too short and nothing is covered in real depth. The strongest section is the first one, focusing on the early years of one's career. The second section is OK. But the final section, dealing with how to successfully juggle your job and your personal life, is the weakest link, in my opinion. The tips at the end are not particularly clever or unique, and the book ends quite abruptly. In fact, I was puzzled when I got to the last page. The book just ends, leaving me to wonder if a concluding chapter or something was edited out.
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But I was actually quite delighted by what I found within the pages of Kate White's new book! It's not only be an easy, engaging (and fun) read, more importantly, the book is filled with relevant, useful strategies and original information that will ACTUALLY help professional women who aspire to make big, impressive career leaps.
It was funny because, as I'm reading along ... nodding, nodding, agreeing, agreeing .... It occurred to me:
GOSH, I could have used this book 10 years ago! :) Any which way, it's a great read for anyone working to move up in business, but spot-on for women in their late '20s and early '30s who are ready to blossom in big ways.
"Just shut up" in reference to how to recognize your gut feelings but great advice generally
"Find your idea zone" in terms of making a creativity-generating space for yourself, and
"See the sexy side of change"... what a twist on that usually dreaded event.
While some of her commentary is undeniably superficial and perhaps on some levels unpractical for some (sorry, Ms. White, I still can't afford a Coach bag--little thing called student loans take priority), even those moments when White slips into couture speak, she opens the window wide into the world that many young professionals aspire to, allowing us to poke our heads in and maybe even snatch out a few things per her advice: "Remember: just because no one has invited you to take something, doesn't mean you can't." And there's plenty here to take.
At the heart of I Shouldn't Be Telling You This is one idea: R-E-S-P-E-C-T. Here we find out what it means to Kate White. The common thread through all the chapters returns to a three-pronged idea: Respect others (especially your elders), respect yourself, and respect your goals. With these tenets securely in place, the negativity sometimes associated with ballsy women is negated, and instead of brash and brassy, tenacious and titillating become the words associated with the gutsy girl.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
I really enjoyed this book! I read it as an e-book and look forward to purchasing a hard copy for my desks at work and home. Read morePublished 5 months ago by HappyPsalm
I read it twice in a row and I never do that! Recommending it to friends and family. Great book. I wish I read it when I was fresh out of college!Published 9 months ago by spetrik
Such an amazing book. I highly suggest this for women (and men) who are ambitious and looking for ways to improve. Read morePublished 11 months ago by AMC14
Kate was generous in writing this book. It will help many young and not-so-young women to rethink their jobs, relationships and commitment. Good for guys too!Published 13 months ago by Elizabeth Smalowski
I didn't read anything I haven't read before. Although it may be a good book for professional women looking for a promotion. Read morePublished 15 months ago by Sarah baldwin rose
THis book does not make Kate White look very likeable. At least Helen Gurley brown had some humility, the book reveals that Kate White came from a very deceitful, selfish world... Read morePublished 15 months ago by o