Single by Chance, Mothers by Choice: How Women are Choosing Parenthood without Marriage and Creating the New American Family 1st Edition, Kindle Edition
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"It's impossible to do justice here to the complexity of the portraits Hertz paints in this well-crafted book, including the different ways that women handle the often unexpected results of their decisions."--Washington Post Book World
"Single by Chance, Mothers by Choice takes us on a thought-provoking journey with several single women facing the challenge of how to become a mother without a spouse. This is required reading for any single woman in her thirties who is concerned about the ticking of her biological clock."--Jane
Mattes, L.C.S.W., Founder and Director, Single Mothers by Choice
"Sensitively explores how traditional bonds of kinship and family forms are challenged and then renegotiated among middle-class women who have elected to become single mothers... This book is the first high-quality and comprehensive chronicle of middle-class women who decide to become mothers
"In this important book, Rosanna Hertz examines the lives of adult women who have chosen to become single mothers. Too often studies of this kind offer a snapshot of a moment in time, but here Dr. Hertz gives us a movie--a sifting, changing and evolving portrait that takes us from the difficult
moment of decision to the present, from anxious new mothers wondering whether they could do it, to women and their children who have written a different kind of family narrative."--Lillian B. Rubin, Ph.D, author of The Man With the Beautiful Voice and Worlds of Pain
"Read this book for nuanced insight into how the concept of family is changing across our country. Read it if you are a single mom or considering single motherhood. Read it for the stories of the courageous women who took their desire for children into their own hands. They are creating new forms of
kinship and support networks that will have echoes beyond the realm of single-mom families. Single by Chance, Mothers by Choice is well researched and well written, and surely to be much discussed."--Mombian.com
"In this page-turner of a book Rosanna Hertz follows the lives of middle-class single women who choose to become mothers without husbands or partners. Through vivid portraits and interviews, the romantic ideals and day-to-day complexities of single parenting come alive--all carefully portrayed
within an historical and sociological context. This is a notable contribution to our understanding of how changing norms, changing technology, and changing laws are creating new family dynamics in modern America."--Cynthia Fuchs Epstein, past President, American Sociological Association
"In this grounded, accessible study, Hertz also poses some challenging questions about the future role of fathers." --Publishers Weekly
"There is a lot to admire about this book. In her well-written and interesting account, Hertz offers a vivid illustration of a new form of family taking its place in the United States. In taking the journey with her, we get a close-up view of the struggles and joys these women face when choosing to
be single mothers. Anyone interested in studying the dynamics of families should read this valuable book and consider Hertz's assertion: ''The bottom line of this book is clear: we can no longer deny that the core of family life is the mother and her children.'"--Journal of Marriage and Family
"Are unmarried women with careers and babies conventional or do they challenge society to seek to dispense with men? My own answer is better informed after reading Single by Chance,.... It will likely be useful to give to friends contemplating parenthood as well as to place in family courts and
ournal of Family and Economic Issues
"Single mothers have been in the cross-hairs ever since Dan Quayle attacked TV's 'Murphy Brown' for 'mocking fatherhood' by having a child without being married. But Rosanna Hertz's fascinating in-depth study shows that the former Vice President was wrong. Today's Murphy Browns--middle-class,
self-supporting single mothers by choice--are not trying to score ideological points. Rather, their commitment to motherhood survives the fading of their hopes for marriage. This is an important book that debunks the myths and stereotypes of a family type that is here to stay."--Arlene Skolnick,
Ph.D., co-author of Family in Transition
"Single by Chance, Mothers by Choice contributes to growing scholarship on family diversity as an engaging, insightful expoloration of one of the unanticipated and paradoxical family byproducts of the decline of the feminine mystique."--Contemporary Sociology
"This book is a great addition to the existing literature, providing deep insights into the complexities of single-mother families and much needed information about middle-class single mothers and the role of fathers in those families. The study also informs the debate about the importance of blood
ties versus social ties. Very well written and a pleasure to read, the book is a page-turner."--Choice
"Her portraits are richly textured... Hertz is clearly gifted in drawing out her subjects... she writes eloquently and persuasively."--The Times Literary Supplement
"Offers unique insight into how these family arrangements play out over time."--Qualitative Sociology
--This text refers to the paperback edition.
About the Author
Rosanna Hertz is Luella LaMer Professor of Sociology and Women's Studies and Chair of the Women's Studies Department at Wellesley College. The author of the widely acclaimed More Equal Than Others, she is frequently interviewed by national print media on issues related to women, work, and the
--This text refers to the paperback edition.
- ASIN : B00JMCZKCU
- Publisher : Oxford University Press; 1st edition (October 1, 2006)
- Publication date : October 1, 2006
- Language : English
- File size : 1603 KB
- Text-to-Speech : Enabled
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Not Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Print length : 304 pages
- Lending : Enabled
- Best Sellers Rank: #697,103 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
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Also, the author seems to have a bias against women accepting any sort of government assistance. Because I am widowed my child and I receive Social Security benefits. I took offense when she made a point of writing in the follow-up section of the book that the women in her study were not financially ruined and receiving government assistance as a result of their choice to have children without a partner, then turned around and praised the women for being resourceful and securing Pell grants for their college aged kids.
That said, it was a really good book. I liked it a lot. It was well written, easy to read, provided A LOT of information (though most of it was very general), and provided me with ideas for utilizing resources I'd not previously considered and a glimpse of what may lie ahead for my family.
Hertz looks at the women's personal paths as well as the broader social implications of their choices. She uses long vignettes as well as shorter quotes to let the women speak for themselves, while supporting her judicious interpretations. When race or sexual orientation make a difference, she notes this, but does not deny the commonalities that connect all these women as single mothers. She also looks to the future and discusses what further changes are likely in reproductive technologies, in men's and women's family roles, and in the support available for working parents.
Read this book for nuanced insight into how the concept of family is changing across our country. Read it if you are a single mom or considering single motherhood. Read it for the stories of the courageous women who took their desire for children into their own hands. They are creating new forms of kinship and support networks that will have echoes beyond the realm of single-mom families. Single by Chance, Mothers by Choice is well researched and well written, and surely to be much discussed.
But perhaps the most unsettling thing about this read is that I was not expecting such subjectivity. Hertz makes assertions about the motives and ultimate effects of the choices these single women make, and her assertions clearly mark her moral and ethical stance, however much she tries to hide it. If you are expecting detached, academic insight, look elsewhere.
The one very good thing the book does offer, though, is the vignettes themselves. The individual profiles from this diverse group of women are interesting.