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“Beautiful, literary, and devastating.”—New York Times Book Review • “Revelatory.”—Entertainment Weekly • “A masterly Silicon Valley gothic.”—Vogue •“Mesmerizing, discomfiting reading… A book of no small literary skill.”—New Yorker • “Extraordinary… An aching, exquisitely told story.”—People • “The sleeper critical hit of the season.”—Vulture

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Born on a farm and named in a field by her parents―artist Chrisann Brennan and Steve Jobs―Lisa Brennan-Jobs’s childhood unfolded in a rapidly changing Silicon Valley. When she was young, Lisa’s father was a mythical figure who was rarely present in her life. As she grew older, her father took an interest in her, ushering her into a new world of mansions, vacations, and private schools. His attention was thrilling, but he could also be cold, critical and unpredictable. When her relationship with her mother grew strained in high school, Lisa decided to move in with her father, hoping he’d become the parent she’d always wanted him to be. Part portrait of a complex family, part love letter to California in the seventies and eighties, Small Fry is a poignant coming-of-age story from one of our most exciting new literary voices.

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“An intimate, richly drawn portrait… The reader of this exquisite memoir is left with a loving, forgiving remembrance and the lasting impression of a resilient, kindhearted and wise woman who is at peace with her past.”—San Francisco Chronicle

“A heartbreaking memoir, beautifully rendered…It’s a love story for the father that she had, flaws and all… A wise, thoughtful, and ultimately loving portrayal of her father.”—Seattle Times


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An Amazon Best Book of September 2018: When you finish Lisa Brennan-Jobs’ memoir of growing up as the daughter of Apple co-founder Steve Jobs, you’ll feel sorry for her – not just because Jobs was a jerk a lot of the time, but because some readers will be too busy rubbernecking at her famous dad to notice what a great writer his daughter is. In Small Fry, Brennan-Jobs moves back and forth in time, balancing her memories of Jobs' often tough treatment of her (denying paternity, denying her adequate financial support, denying her the warmth and attention every child deserves) with his unpredictable moments of openness and generosity.

No wonder Brennan-Jobs is always nervous around her dad, breaking glasses, fluttering her hands: she’s lovesick, and uncertain that her love is requited. “My insides are jumping,” she writes in her high school diary after he unexpectedly seeks her out for time alone together. “When I tell him events, they come alive. When I don’t tell him, they don’t exist.”

In the end, Jobs, so rich and so famous, is just another parent who withholds what his children need to thrive. “How can it look so good but feels so bad?” Brennan-Jobs says of living in his house. Her aunt, the writer Mona Simpson, answers, “What else is money for… if not to make it look good?” This artfully constructed, self-critical memoir feels like so much more than axe-grinding: what does look good is Brennan-Jobs’s future as a writer. —Sarah Harrison Smith, Amazon Book Review

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A NEW YORK TIMES AND NEW YORKER TOP 10 BOOK OF THE YEAR

A BEST BOOK OF THE YEAR FOR NPR, AMAZON, GQ, VOGUE (UK), BUSTLE, PUBLISHERS WEEKLY, AND INDIGO

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“Entrancing... Brennan-Jobs is a deeply gifted writer… Her inner landscape is depicted in such exquisitely granular detail that it feels as if no one else could have possibly written it. Indeed, it has that defining aspect of a literary work: the stamp of a singular sensibility… Beautiful, literary, and devastating.”
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“An intimate, richly drawn portrait…
Small Fry is a memoir of uncommon grace, maturity, and spare elegance… The reader of this exquisite memoir is left with a loving, forgiving remembrance and the lasting impression of a resilient, kindhearted and wise woman who is at peace with her past.”San Francisco Chronicle

“Extraordinary… An aching, exquisitely told story of a young woman’s quest for belonging and love.”
People

“Mesmerizing, discomfiting reading…A book of no small literary skill.”
New Yorker

“This heartfelt, emotional and exceedingly well-written coming-of-age memoir is a warts-and-all portrait, laced with resilience and healing… Brennan-Jobs is an outstanding storyteller, and her empowering tale of overcoming dysfunctional family relationships with haunt readers.”
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“It’s gratifying to see [Ms. Brennan-Jobs] assert her authority as the owner of her narrative. Writing with enlightened panache and dry humor, she’s as keen a witness to the ambience of the Bay Area in the 1980’s and 1990’s…as she is to the behavior of the adults around her…Never having felt safe in any of her father’s houses, [she] has built her own house in memoir form, a repository of her love and anger and mourning…It’s alive in all the rough edges of its feelings, and it’s home.”
Wall Street Journal

“[
Small Fry] is a story of a girl growing up in 1980s and ’90s California trying to fit into two very different families and not belonging in either. It’s the story of her single mother trying to keep it together and often not succeeding. It’s the story of a family that is as imperfect as every family, things complicated by wealth, fame and, in the end, illness and death."Associated Press

“Beautifully written and psychologically acute… [Brennan-Jobs] establishes herself as a truly talented writer, whose gift for description and structure equals her hard-won tolerance of human frailty.”
The Tablet (UK)

“Revelatory… Her exquisitely written prose allows Brennan-Jobs to – painfully, complexly, heroically – reclaim her own story.”
Entertainment Weekly, “Best Books to Read in September”

“The sleeper critical hit of the season.”
Vulture

“Beautifully written… the currency of this book is love.”
The Times UK

“A masterly Silicon Valley gothic… The bohemian landscape she captures will be virtually unrecognizable to anyone who equates this slice of Northern California with Teslas and tiger moms… Of the book’s myriad achievements, the greatest might be making [this] story her own.”
Vogue

"An epic, sharp coming-of-age story from the daughter of Steve Jobs. It's rare to find a memoir from a celebrity's child in which the writing is equal to―or exceeds―the parent's reputation, but that is the case with Brennan-Jobs' debut. In a lesser writer's hands, the narrative could have devolved into literary revenge. Instead, Brennan-Jobs offers a stunningly beautiful study of parenting that just so happens to include the co-founder of Apple… An exquisitely rendered story of family, love, and identity."―
Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

"Brennan-Jobs’s narrative is tinged with awe, yearning, and disappointment… Bringing the reader into the heart of the child who admired Jobs’s genius, craved his love, and feared his unpredictability."
Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"Brennan-Jobs skillfully relays her past without judgement... staying true to her younger self. It is a testament to her fine writing and journalistic approach that her memoir never turns maudlin or gossipy. Rather than a celebrity biography, this is Brennan-Jobs's authentic story of growing up in two very different environments, neither of which felt quite like home.”
Booklist (starred review)

“Here is a literary coming-of-age memoir of the highest order, the story of a child trying to find her place between two radically different parents, identities, and worlds. Compassionate, wise, and filled with finely-wrought detail,
Small Fry is a wonder of a book, and Lisa Brennan-Jobs is a wonder of a writer.”―Jamie Quatro

“As clear-eyed, amusing, honest, unsentimental and sad as any memoir I’ve read in years. The prose sparkles, the vision behind it is ruefully compassionate and wise. No other book or film has captured Steve Jobs as distinctly as this one has. The love between father and daughter, thwarted and baffled as it often is, comes through beautifully.”―
Phillip Lopate

“A gorgeous, compelling work of art and a dazzling coming-of-age story. This is a lovely, sweetly intimate portrait, a story told through the eyes of a daughter whose father struggled with his own origins―and who almost became the father she hoped he would be.” ―
Susan Cheever

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Grove Press; Reprint edition (June 18, 2019)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 416 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0802147216
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0802147219
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 14.4 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.4 x 1.2 x 8.2 inches
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Customers find the book profoundly insightful, authentic, and raw. They also appreciate the exquisite detail and fascinating reflections of the author's world while growing up. Readers like the writing style, finding it interesting and complicated. They describe the emotional tone as poignant and loving. However, some find the entertainment value boring and confusing at times due to illogical sequencing of descriptions and events. Opinions are mixed on readability, with some finding it a quick read and others finding it slow.

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138 customers mention "Writing style"122 positive16 negative

Customers find the writing style quick-witted, poignant, and observational. They also mention that the book is interesting to get her perspective.

"Lisa Brennan-Jobs is a good writer: quick-witted, poignant, and observational. Her style reminds me of her aunt’s (Mona Simpson) novels...." Read more

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"...Brennan-Jobs does this wonderfully. Her descriptions are clearly-written. Her style is never showy...." Read more

"...There are many instances of very fine writing and her inner feelings are touchingly and sympathetically described, but the almost daily description..." Read more

104 customers mention "Emotional tone"92 positive12 negative

Customers find the book poignant, wonderful, and engaging. They say it's interesting to get the perspective of the author. Readers also say the story is dramatic enough to interest them. They mention the author's mother is very loving and remarkable.

"...Small Fry is emotionally powerful. The story is dramatic enough that even readers more interested in Lisa’s emotional journey than Steve Jobs will..." Read more

"...It is relevant and eye opening. Good lesson about family dynamics and child support...." Read more

"...many instances of very fine writing and her inner feelings are touchingly and sympathetically described, but the almost daily description of her..." Read more

"...I enjoyed this book, was deeply touched by it, and don’t hesitate in recommending it.Schuyler T WallaceAuthor of TIN LIZARD TALES" Read more

58 customers mention "Content"58 positive0 negative

Customers find the book profoundly insightful, honest, candid, and detailed. They also appreciate the author's brilliance tempered by humanity. Readers also say the book is relevant and eye opening.

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"...It is relevant and eye opening. Good lesson about family dynamics and child support...." Read more

"...memoirs, this book gets stronger as Lisa grows older, and the memories are truly hers..." Read more

"I've read many books on Steve Jobs and this one provides the most insight into his relationship with his daughter and her mother...." Read more

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Customers find the book's realism exquisite, neat, and inspiring. They also mention that the book is moving and without self pity.

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"...superb chronicler of moments that shape a child’s life, all rendered in exquisite detail...." Read more

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Customers find the book well-written, entertaining, and fast-moving.

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"...Visceral, moving and triumphant. Thank you for sharing your story with us Lis. We so appreciate your candor and wisdom." Read more

"A moving, beautiful story that reminds us relationships are complex. Lisa is brilliant. There are many ways to show love." Read more

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Customers are mixed about the readability. Some find the book a quick read with excellent writing, while others say that the first half of the book is pretty slow and skips over important parts.

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Customers are mixed about the comfort of the book. Some mention it's unique, almost musical, and elicits satisfaction and comfort similar to having just heard a song. They also welcome feelins of joy, sadness, and pride. Others however, say it'll manipulate you.

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"...It seemed to be negative and self-serving right from the start...." Read more

"...resonated with me, and despite painful moments it rewarded with satisfying catharsis." Read more

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Customers find the book boring, repetitive, and tedious. They also say that a lot of it is unnecessary and confusing at times due to illogical sequencing of descriptions and events.

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"Author is an excellent writer.Not of much interest if reader is not interested in Steve Jobs poor performance to this daughter." Read more

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Another book about Steve Jobs? Not indeed.
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Another book about Steve Jobs? Not indeed.
Lisa is a talented and courageous writer. Usually it would be just as much hard to question our parents’ life, ask ourself who they really are or were. But I do belive that it takes a particular level of courag to go deep in the nooks and crannies of their existence, finding their small and big weaknessess, and write so blantly about it.She spoke laud and clear about how their parents shaped her and her existance, leaving big scars on her, which she doesn't mind to show and describe in beautifully written paragraphs that piled up page after page recounting the building up of her own personality.If you are looking for another book on Steve Jobs, don’t read Lisa’s last work. I consider her job the last and most important brush on her father, which cleans away the famous distortion field halo he built around his character, leaving the most real picture of him, far away from the perfect genius we have been educated to so far.Loved the book. I will definitely read it again.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 9, 2018
Lisa Brennan-Jobs is a good writer: quick-witted, poignant, and observational. Her style reminds me of her aunt’s (Mona Simpson) novels. This is no surprise, since she mentions her in Small Fry as an inspiration. Also of note, is that her aunt has written a fictionalized account of the same period in Lisa’s life as is largely covered by Small Fry. I read that novel, A Regular Guy, when I was a teenager. In fact, I’ve been reading books about Steve Jobs for about two decades now. Like many readers, Steve Jobs is the reason I picked up Small Fry, but Lisa’s journey resonated with me almost as much as the moments about her father.

When you become interested in a historical figure and start watching and reading about them, there’s a cast of characters—their family, their friends—that you’re introduced to along the way. My first exposure to Lisa came through the 1999 film Pirates of Silicon Valley, in which the story of her relationship with her father plays prominently. By the time I had read The Second Coming of Steve Jobs by Alan Deutschman the following year, to me she was an important sidenote—his initial denial of paternity of her following her birth, a significant blemish, for an otherwise heroic figure. The deeper you go in a canon (and there is a Steve Jobs canon—at least fifteen books), the more you become interested in those peripheral characters. And somewhere along the way I became interested in Lisa’s story.

Lisa’s story is intertwined with that of her mother, Chrisann Brennan, Jobs’s high school girlfriend, first love, and financial dependent for a large portion of Lisa’s life. She wrote a memoir a few years ago, The Bite in the Apple. So, in actuality we have three books—A Regular Guy, The Bite in the Apple, and Little Fry—which overlap very significantly in the period and relationships that they capture. Each comes from a different perspective, and I think it was likely important to Lisa that she recapture her own narrative through this memoir. It’s not only a chance to correct the record, but also can provide some kind of closure.

Ostensibly this is more than a memoir about her relationship with her father. It’s a memoir about growing up with that as a backdrop, but I frankly found the first half of the book pretty slow. That’s probably because there’s less of her father in the first half, and the parts with her father were the parts that interested me the most.

Lisa has a tendency to write about events that occurred to her 30 years+ ago in great levels of detail. Levels of detail so great (exact words, imagery, and small happenings) that one has to conclude she either has a photographic memory, or is remembering things in the most dramatic way to suit her narrative. The Bite in the Apple also suffers from this flaw—overly exact ancient memories that cause the reader to question the veracity of their content. It is of course possible that both mother and daughter have incredible memories, but it’s also possible that there’s a little bit of dramatic license in their accounts.

Small Fry is emotionally powerful. The story is dramatic enough that even readers more interested in Lisa’s emotional journey than Steve Jobs will get something out of it. Ultimately, as most memoirs by definition tend to be, it’s also one-sided. The low points with her father seem awful, and the high points seem agreeable and fascinating but dulled. Mona Simpson and Laurene Powell Jobs (Steve Jobs’s widow) have put out a statement questioning Lisa’s harsh treatment of her father. I think, in wanting to recapture her narrative, Lisa did have something of an agenda in writing this book, even if she’s not willing to admit it to herself in its pages. However, that doesn’t mean it’s not a good book, that doesn’t take you on a meaningful emotional journey, and further develop your understanding of Steve Jobs.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 10, 2018
Today it is common knowledge that the first three years of a child's life are critical years of development. The author had no contact with her father during those years since her parents never married - so her emotional outlook was exclusively shaped by her (bi-polar?) mother. I found the book interesting because her mother had written a demand letter to Jobs for $25 million - an amount which she felt was "fair" for raising Lisa - and had already penned and released her own version of their collective history (The Bite In The Apple). In Small Fry, Lisa adds her own voice to her mother's neediness for money. Apparently whatever Steve gave them wasn't enough in their own minds - and mother-daughter had no inclination to save and burned through money. Steve recoiled from anyone who he perceived was trying to manipulate him for cash - like most wealthy people - and the constant demands sadly emotionally estranged him - to his own detriment as well as the rest of the family. Love and financial responsibility go hand in hand - and at the end he had sincere regrets. And admitted that he "owed" Lisa... not sure how much money she inherited - or if she in turn financially supports her mother today - but it obviously wasn't enough. And although the book has touching moments, it is hard to visit the editorial choices made without thinking this was an exercise in revenge and literary passive-aggression. Lisa certainly has every right to feel shortchanged by both parents and airs her own perspective, adding incidents that justify her viewpoint. I feel sad that Steve's personal privacy - once more - will be public fodder. He was a complex person, but he is dead now. I kept wondering (since he reportedly left Lisa a multi-million dollar inheritance) if she has already burned through it - along with her mother - and this book is another way to get whatever Steve "owed" them by cashing in on his famous name. Every single mother - and absentee father - should read this book, to understand the child's perspective on being juggled between two parents/two worlds. It is relevant and eye opening. Good lesson about family dynamics and child support. If you want to read about Steve Jobs "Becoming Steve Jobs" is by far the best book I've read about him to date. If you want a cautionary and thought provoking lesson in providing child support and navigating custody and raising kids - this is a good read. Well written. As a single mother myself, I felt for Lisa and her mom - however as someone who knew Jobs through the 1980's and was a start up female entrepreneur (thanks to Jimmy Carter who started an SBA program providing start up loans to women), I also have more compassion for his flaws and personal privacy. He had a lot on his plate and I was glad that Lisa remembered some good times that he shared with her and captured his rare electric charisma. Sad story, but a cautionary tale for all single parents - and certainly worth reading.
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Azlee
5.0 out of 5 stars moving and insightful
Reviewed in Germany on June 20, 2023
I really enjoyed this book and was Mesmerized by the way LBJ described her life growing up with Steve Jobs as a father. Very touching how at his impending demise he did finally admit his neglect and cruelty. Not a bit voyeuristic but an essential truth.
André Luiz da Silva
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing book. Revealing
Reviewed in Brazil on June 10, 2019
As I love Steve Jobs my opinion may be a little biased but I really enjoyed this reading. Not only the book is well written but also has a fast pace of reading. I recommend it.
Daniele Renaud
5.0 out of 5 stars A surprisingly intense autobiography
Reviewed in France on October 27, 2020
The author has written a perceptive, painful book about so many missed opportunities for father and herself to become close, discover each other , avoiding harsh judgements...Steve Jobs was certainly a most complex and tortuous human being, pulling and pushing others continuously, giving sometimes, taking often and we can only be amazed at his daughter Lisa surviving such emotional mayhem. Her mother despite deep psychological turmoil, remained there for her, through the ups and downs of everyday life, providing emotional support , and a lasting relationship flawed as it might have been.
Despite all Lisa pulled through - an inner strength she inherited from her father no doubt.
Thank you for an impressive portrait of humanity.
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5.0 out of 5 stars a literary memoir written by a famous tech giant's daughter
Reviewed in Canada on February 1, 2019
This book is extremely well written in a very competent literary style. Those interest in Steve Jobs will want to read this but even those who aren't will enjoy it.
Once again, we see that Steve Jobs acted at times like a dirt-bag toward his family. He was a genius when it came to Apple and making money but he was quite the dummy in terms of being a good human being. But her love for her father ultimately shines through. Lucky for him.
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Donato
3.0 out of 5 stars It’s ok.
Reviewed in Italy on July 15, 2020
I’d give the book 3,5 out of 5 stars.
This is not a bad book, it is rather a good book with some flaws. Depending on the reader, those flaws could be significant or not.
I have loved the fact that we could glimpse at Steve Jobs from a new perspective. And it’s shocking to see that we cannot say to have grasped most of his personality, e.g., the reason for his reactions, his frequent meanness, for example. All one can do is try and guess, even after this book.
I am not an emotional reader, hardly I feel so moved to tears. However, I could connect to the author's feelings and I could understand her suffering. Being not a nice story, but quite a sad one, I read through the pages with a strong feeling of sadness.
The best aspect of this book is the level of detail of the memories. Colors, perfumes, noises, figures, movements: it’s a wonderfully detailed account of the author’s youth. And here come the first doubt about the content of the book: how is it possible to remember all that stuff about something that happened in the 80s? Even though some memories might be detailed to astounding levels, here we are offered a staggering number of events: words that were said, the way they were said, when, where and to whom. To me it appears too much.
The way the book is organized is a little bit disappointing, too. The book is split in few sections with a title, but no title is given to each chapter. This way of sorting did not meet my expectations, since, lacking a title, the chapter looses “identity”. The reader is not helped through the reading.

Overall, I recommend this reading, as there are some lessons to be learned about the importance of being a parent and how difficult it is. Steve was a man and was not flawless. Perhaps he really regretted his actions towards Lisa when he was living his last weeks. He surely had lots of time to think about it. I have decided to believe him - the way he insisted in apologizing to his daughter are indicative of a profound remorse. To me, personally, any person that recognizes his mistakes deserves a second chance.
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