Wheatley's words offer encouragement to anyone who longs for a more just world but finds little evidence of hope grounded in reality and not merely in dreams. Yet her hope is severely tempered and comes close, at times, to surrendering to despair. At times, it seems she has been disappointed one too many times. But haven't we all?
Her insights are not new but they are fresh. Wheatley reminds us not to succumb to the temptation of perfection but, rather, to be mindful that it is the journey, the path, that matters and in which meaning and peace reside. She writes that "[h]ope is such a dangerous source of motivation." She described the "warriors" weapons, to challenge the power that destroys life, as being compassion and insight. Yet I am a bit uneasy about her reluctance to more boldly embrace love as the primary if not sole source and sustaining power behind those who desire (or who are called) to walk the difficult path of what some would call righteousness.
Wheatley cites Trungpa for the proposition that "our strength grows as a consequence of our commitment to serve the world," but the core question is, what is the source of that commitment? Is it merely insight? If so, it is tenuous at best. For reasons not entirely clear to me, Wheatley seems hesitant to name or fully embrace this source. Perhaps it is an attempt to keep distance with faith traditions that have been distorted, misrepresented and, in the eyes of many, discredited. That's understandable, but the substitute seems a bit shallow.
I love Wheatley's discussion about systems and organizations. She possesses a deep understanding of the essence of collective bodies and systems and the reasons they are resistant to change and adaptation. Her discussion about the impact of technology (in particular, the Internet) is insightful albeit a bit dismissive of the positive contributions of technology. Implicit in her discussion seems to be the purity of more primitive times. But perhaps I'm reading too much into her words. In any event, I remain skeptical of both explicit and implied criticisms of digital technology and its supposed erosion of human values. Nonetheless, I found Wheatley's discussion of these matters to be both thoughtful and thought provoking.
In my mind, the real test of Wheatley's insights, wisdom and words--indeed, her lament--is the extent to which it engenders reflection and action. It is potentially considerable. I find myself reaching for the book repeatedly, and, despite the fact it seems to pull up short in some respects, I suspect it will remain a source of contemplation and reflection for quite some time. It also would be a great avenue for rich group discussion.
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About the Author
Margaret (Meg) Wheatley writes, speaks, and teaches globally about how we can accomplish our work, sustain our relationships, and willingly step forward to serve in this troubled time. She has been working actively out in the world since 1966. She is the author of six other books.
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SEEING WHAT IS
I’m sitting on the banks of the Virgin River in Zion National Park, my favorite place on the planet. The river is confidently, casually flowing through this magnificent canyon that it has been carving out for about two million years.
The canyon has created one of Earth’s most sacred places. It has been a dry winter, so the river is low, ambling peacefully along. I’ve been here at other times when it’s fierce, flooding, destructive. Next time I’m back it will be different again.
I’ve learned a lot from rivers, starting with the teacher stream I wrote about in Leadership and the New Science. That lovely mountain stream taught me about process structures, things that have clear identity and intention yet constantly adapt to circumstances and conditions, changing their form as needed. Streams take many forms yet never lose their way, which is unerringly to the ocean. Along the way, they create magnificent canyons, wreak terrible destruction, provide sustenance to farms and communities, provide pleasure and pain to those who live along their banks. This is the pattern of life—changing, adapting, creating and destroying.
The Hopi Native American elders describe this time—our time—as a river flowing now very fast, great, and swift. They warn us not to hold on to the shore, the place of security and old ways, because those who do “will be torn apart and suffer greatly.” They encourage us to push off into the middle of the river and to keep our heads above water.3
These river images, even the most turbulent ones, no longer describe this time for me. I need a more violent image of disruption and dread to describe what I’m seeing and how I’m feeling. It is Yeats’ dark vision that speaks to me, written in 1919 in the troubled years after the First World War:
Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold;
Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world,
The blood-dimmed tide is loosed, and everywhere
The ceremony of innocence is drowned;
A Confession of Innocence
Many of us—certainly I’d describe myself in these terms—were anxiously engaged in “the ceremony of innocence.” We didn’t think we were innocents, but we were. We thought we could change the world. We even believed that, with sufficient will and passion, we could “create a world,” one that embodied our aspirations for justice, equality, opportunity, peace, a world where, in Paulo Freire’s terms, “it would be easier to love.” (The gifted publisher of this and all my books, Berrett-Koehler, aspires “To create a world that works for all.”) This vision, this hope, this possibility motivated me for most of my life. It still occasionally seduces me into contemplating what might be the next project, the next collaboration, the next big idea that could turn this world around. But I’m learning to resist the temptation.
This is not a book that contemplates what we might do next, what we’ve learned from all our efforts, where we might put our energy and experience in order to create positive change. I no longer believe that we can save the world. Powerful, life-destroying dynamics have been set in motion that cannot be stopped. We’re on a disastrous course with each other and with the planet. We’ve lost track of our best human qualities and forgotten the real sources of satisfaction, meaning and joy.
This book was born from my clarity that greed, self-interest and coercive power are destroying the very life force of this planet. I don’t know whether such destruction is intentional or not, but I observe it happening everywhere. I was hit in the face with this while in South Africa in November 2011. South Africa is the country of my heart, always teaching me about the depths of human experience. I’ve been working there since 1995 and this was my fourteenth visit. In the years of Nelson Mandela, hope was palpable. Everyone seemed to be starting projects to tackle huge social problems, eager to work with others to create the New South Africa. They understood the complexity of all the issues, they knew it was “a long walk to freedom,”4 and they had great faith in their future.
But now, for many reasons, hope is hard to find and the good people who have created successful projects and built effective non-government organizations (NGOs) are exhausted and demoralized. They keep doing their work, but it’s now a constant struggle. They struggle for funds, they struggle with inept, corrupt bureaucracy, they struggle with the loss of community and the rise of self-interest, they struggle with the indifference of the newly affluent. The dream of a new nation of possibility, equality, and justice has fallen victim to the self-serving behaviors of those with power.
Please do not think this is only true in South Africa. It’s happening everywhere, as you may have noticed.
Indestructible Motivation
Yet I have not set out to write a book that increases our despair. Quite the contrary. My intention is that we do our work with greater resolve and energy, with more delight and confidence, even as we understand that it won’t turn this world around. Our work is essential; we just have to hold it differently. This was beautifully described by Václav Havel, leader of the Velvet Revolution, the poet-playwright who then became president of the new Czech Republic: “Hope is not the conviction that something will turn out well, but the certainty that something makes sense, regardless of how it turns out.”5
How do we find this deep confidence that, independent of results, our work is the right work for us to be doing? How do we give up needing hope to be our primary motivator? How do we replace hope of creating change with confidence that we’re doing the right work?
Hope is such a dangerous source of motivation. It’s an ambush, because what lies in wait is hope’s ever-present companion, fear: the fear of failing, the despair of disappointment, the bitterness and exhaustion that can overtake us when our best, most promising efforts are rebuked, undone, ignored, destroyed. As someone commented, “Expectation is premeditated disappointment.”
My great teachers these days are people who no longer need hope in order to do their work, even though their projects and organizations began with bright, hope-filled dreams. As “the blood-dimmed tide” of greed, fear, and oppression drowns out their voices and washes away their good work, they become more committed to their work, not because it will succeed, but just because it is right for them to be doing it. I watch their inner struggles and bouts with despair, but mostly what I notice is their perseverance and confidence. They see how bad it is, they know it is getting worse, they realize their work won’t create the changes they have worked hard for all these years. Yet they continue to do their work because they know it is theirs to do. Sometimes they say, “I can’t not do this.” Other times they ask, “What else would I be doing if not this?”
These brave people are true warriors. Seeing as clearly as they can, hearts as open as they can bear, they keep doing their work. They know how systems of power work and they try to discern wise actions. Though in frequent battles with politicians, leaders and bureaucrats, they strive to keep their hearts open and not to succumb to anger and aggression. Work is filled with constant challenges, and they know there will be many more.
Perhaps you see yourself in this description. Or perhaps you still rely on the hope that it’s possible to save the world.
I’m sitting on the banks of the Virgin River in Zion National Park, my favorite place on the planet. The river is confidently, casually flowing through this magnificent canyon that it has been carving out for about two million years.
The canyon has created one of Earth’s most sacred places. It has been a dry winter, so the river is low, ambling peacefully along. I’ve been here at other times when it’s fierce, flooding, destructive. Next time I’m back it will be different again.
I’ve learned a lot from rivers, starting with the teacher stream I wrote about in Leadership and the New Science. That lovely mountain stream taught me about process structures, things that have clear identity and intention yet constantly adapt to circumstances and conditions, changing their form as needed. Streams take many forms yet never lose their way, which is unerringly to the ocean. Along the way, they create magnificent canyons, wreak terrible destruction, provide sustenance to farms and communities, provide pleasure and pain to those who live along their banks. This is the pattern of life—changing, adapting, creating and destroying.
The Hopi Native American elders describe this time—our time—as a river flowing now very fast, great, and swift. They warn us not to hold on to the shore, the place of security and old ways, because those who do “will be torn apart and suffer greatly.” They encourage us to push off into the middle of the river and to keep our heads above water.3
These river images, even the most turbulent ones, no longer describe this time for me. I need a more violent image of disruption and dread to describe what I’m seeing and how I’m feeling. It is Yeats’ dark vision that speaks to me, written in 1919 in the troubled years after the First World War:
Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold;
Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world,
The blood-dimmed tide is loosed, and everywhere
The ceremony of innocence is drowned;
A Confession of Innocence
Many of us—certainly I’d describe myself in these terms—were anxiously engaged in “the ceremony of innocence.” We didn’t think we were innocents, but we were. We thought we could change the world. We even believed that, with sufficient will and passion, we could “create a world,” one that embodied our aspirations for justice, equality, opportunity, peace, a world where, in Paulo Freire’s terms, “it would be easier to love.” (The gifted publisher of this and all my books, Berrett-Koehler, aspires “To create a world that works for all.”) This vision, this hope, this possibility motivated me for most of my life. It still occasionally seduces me into contemplating what might be the next project, the next collaboration, the next big idea that could turn this world around. But I’m learning to resist the temptation.
This is not a book that contemplates what we might do next, what we’ve learned from all our efforts, where we might put our energy and experience in order to create positive change. I no longer believe that we can save the world. Powerful, life-destroying dynamics have been set in motion that cannot be stopped. We’re on a disastrous course with each other and with the planet. We’ve lost track of our best human qualities and forgotten the real sources of satisfaction, meaning and joy.
This book was born from my clarity that greed, self-interest and coercive power are destroying the very life force of this planet. I don’t know whether such destruction is intentional or not, but I observe it happening everywhere. I was hit in the face with this while in South Africa in November 2011. South Africa is the country of my heart, always teaching me about the depths of human experience. I’ve been working there since 1995 and this was my fourteenth visit. In the years of Nelson Mandela, hope was palpable. Everyone seemed to be starting projects to tackle huge social problems, eager to work with others to create the New South Africa. They understood the complexity of all the issues, they knew it was “a long walk to freedom,”4 and they had great faith in their future.
But now, for many reasons, hope is hard to find and the good people who have created successful projects and built effective non-government organizations (NGOs) are exhausted and demoralized. They keep doing their work, but it’s now a constant struggle. They struggle for funds, they struggle with inept, corrupt bureaucracy, they struggle with the loss of community and the rise of self-interest, they struggle with the indifference of the newly affluent. The dream of a new nation of possibility, equality, and justice has fallen victim to the self-serving behaviors of those with power.
Please do not think this is only true in South Africa. It’s happening everywhere, as you may have noticed.
Indestructible Motivation
Yet I have not set out to write a book that increases our despair. Quite the contrary. My intention is that we do our work with greater resolve and energy, with more delight and confidence, even as we understand that it won’t turn this world around. Our work is essential; we just have to hold it differently. This was beautifully described by Václav Havel, leader of the Velvet Revolution, the poet-playwright who then became president of the new Czech Republic: “Hope is not the conviction that something will turn out well, but the certainty that something makes sense, regardless of how it turns out.”5
How do we find this deep confidence that, independent of results, our work is the right work for us to be doing? How do we give up needing hope to be our primary motivator? How do we replace hope of creating change with confidence that we’re doing the right work?
Hope is such a dangerous source of motivation. It’s an ambush, because what lies in wait is hope’s ever-present companion, fear: the fear of failing, the despair of disappointment, the bitterness and exhaustion that can overtake us when our best, most promising efforts are rebuked, undone, ignored, destroyed. As someone commented, “Expectation is premeditated disappointment.”
My great teachers these days are people who no longer need hope in order to do their work, even though their projects and organizations began with bright, hope-filled dreams. As “the blood-dimmed tide” of greed, fear, and oppression drowns out their voices and washes away their good work, they become more committed to their work, not because it will succeed, but just because it is right for them to be doing it. I watch their inner struggles and bouts with despair, but mostly what I notice is their perseverance and confidence. They see how bad it is, they know it is getting worse, they realize their work won’t create the changes they have worked hard for all these years. Yet they continue to do their work because they know it is theirs to do. Sometimes they say, “I can’t not do this.” Other times they ask, “What else would I be doing if not this?”
These brave people are true warriors. Seeing as clearly as they can, hearts as open as they can bear, they keep doing their work. They know how systems of power work and they try to discern wise actions. Though in frequent battles with politicians, leaders and bureaucrats, they strive to keep their hearts open and not to succumb to anger and aggression. Work is filled with constant challenges, and they know there will be many more.
Perhaps you see yourself in this description. Or perhaps you still rely on the hope that it’s possible to save the world.
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We are living in difficult times: climate change, social unrest, pollution... it seems like all known structures are falling. It's hard not to despair, especially if you have devoted your life to creating a better world. Will it really come to be? are we doomed as a species? does it matter?
In this elegant book, Margaret Wheatley outlines a simple moral question - what is the right thing to do? should we keep on trying to generate change, even if from the beginning we know our outcome is unlikely? can we truly make a difference?
Ms. Wheatley argument is laid out with the help of Buddhist principles and the Systemic conception of life that scientists such as Fritjof Capra have explored.
Whether you are an optimist, a pessimist, or stand somewhere in between, I highly recommend you read this book. It will help you refine your thinking and open your heart to different possibilities.
In this elegant book, Margaret Wheatley outlines a simple moral question - what is the right thing to do? should we keep on trying to generate change, even if from the beginning we know our outcome is unlikely? can we truly make a difference?
Ms. Wheatley argument is laid out with the help of Buddhist principles and the Systemic conception of life that scientists such as Fritjof Capra have explored.
Whether you are an optimist, a pessimist, or stand somewhere in between, I highly recommend you read this book. It will help you refine your thinking and open your heart to different possibilities.
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I've been reading Meg's works now for almost 25 years, and with each new book comes increased insights into the way our world is changing it's functions and operations. I got this book because it was another Wheatley. When I began to read I was disturbed and somewhat discouraged as I read her descriptions of the present situation in which we find ourselves. But then the more I though about her writing the more hope I saw in her words and in the way we can work in the present and near future.
Relationship. Key to working in the world. I knew this academically and to some degree practically. But Meg's work challenges her readers to work to listen well, then listen again so that when we respond we do so out of respect and openness to hearing from one another. No longer can greed, power, or selfishness guide our thinking in this world. Instead we need listening, respect, flexibility, and the intent to do good as our guides. Our old maps don't work any longer, and new maps are just being drawn.
Meg's maps will challenge you, but I believe that if you will follow you will discover new worlds you never knew existed, but only dreamed about.
Relationship. Key to working in the world. I knew this academically and to some degree practically. But Meg's work challenges her readers to work to listen well, then listen again so that when we respond we do so out of respect and openness to hearing from one another. No longer can greed, power, or selfishness guide our thinking in this world. Instead we need listening, respect, flexibility, and the intent to do good as our guides. Our old maps don't work any longer, and new maps are just being drawn.
Meg's maps will challenge you, but I believe that if you will follow you will discover new worlds you never knew existed, but only dreamed about.
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this is a must read for anyone who is concerned about the planet but doesnt know where to start. It focuses on doing "the right work", in other words being and doing the best you can do, with commitment and patience even when it is difficult. It is a great reminder that saving the planet is not something you can do, but you can do the right work and by example encourage others to do their right work. Brilliant.
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When you wish to work in areas of positive change and yet despair at the huge task- this book encourages and gives practical practices. You are not alone in wanting a kinder world.
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I enjoyed the book and was left wanting more. I will go back and read it again. Insights for my meditation practice.
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