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I always thought everyone knew this
on May 29, 2012
Men need to chase a woman. Period. Men are hunters. Women are the hunted. If you turn the tables on them thier male brains don't compute. It means to them you are not a desirable female. Keep them guessing if you like them or not. To them, a desirable female is one who isn't too eager and keeps them guessing and wanting more.
It's male psychology 101. Seems pretty basic and obvious to me. I don't do it deliberately, but it's just the way I am. I really am not that interested usually.
They can tell and they switch on. It's the same with racing greyhounds. All they need to
see is the rabbit running away and they chase it.
Men are sight hounds just like greyhounds. They automatically chase anything that runs.
And they don't stop chasing until they catch it. At what point do you let them catch YOU?
Anyway this book is valid and speaks the truth as I know it. I don't call it manipulation, at least in my case since it's not deliberate. Oh and as for paying, that's what makes them feel manly. They want to feel mannish and paying makes them feel that way so let them.
Not all men are the same and not all will keep calling if you don't return their calls but some do. And my opinion is this. If they don't keep calling they aren't that interested in the first place, so you weed them out that way. The shyest male will keep calling if he is truely interested in the woman.
If you are frustrated with men buy this book and try the suggestions out to see if they work for you. I had a close friend lose the man she wanted for the last several years after he finally agreed to start dating her because she "initiated" all the time, as she put it.
He never got to miss her, call her, or ask her out. I was so sad for her but she was adamant that she should be able to go after him and not "play games". Well he's gone now and she is heartbroken. I knew he would be gone.
It's an excellent book. I know, we don't want to play games or manipulate men. But just be aware of what they think, and what makes them react.
You don't have to use it but you should be informed at least and this book will make that happen.