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The Stranger Beside Me Mass Market Paperback – December 30, 2008
Utterly unique in its astonishing intimacy, as jarringly frightening as when it first appeared, Ann Rule's The Stranger Beside Me defies our expectation that we would surely know if a monster lived among us, worked alongside of us, appeared as one of us. With a slow chill that intensifies with each heart-pounding page, Rule describes her dawning awareness that Ted Bundy, her sensitive coworker on a crisis hotline, was one of the most prolific serial killers in America. He would confess to killing at least thirty-six young women from coast to coast, and was eventually executed for three of those cases. Drawing from their correspondence that endured until shortly before Bundy's death, and striking a seamless balance between her deeply personal perspective and her role as a crime reporter on the hunt for a savage serial killer -- the brilliant and charismatic Bundy, the man she thought she knew -- Rule changed the course of true-crime literature with this unforgettable chronicle.
- Print length672 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherPocket Books
- Publication dateDecember 30, 2008
- Dimensions4.19 x 1.3 x 6.75 inches
- ISBN-101416559590
- ISBN-13978-1416559597
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One who suffers from a personality disorder knows the difference between right and wrong—but it doesn’t matter because he is special and he deserves to have and do what he wants.Highlighted by 1,243 Kindle readers
If, as many people believe today, Ted Bundy took lives, he also saved lives. I know he did, because I was there when he did it.Highlighted by 659 Kindle readers
They ran. They doubted glib stories. They spotted flaws in those stories. They were lucky enough to have someone step up and protect them.Highlighted by 654 Kindle readers
As I write these recollections of women who survived, I hope my readers are taking careful note of why they did.Highlighted by 627 Kindle readers
The only clue I had was that my dog (who liked everyone) didn’t like Ted at all. Whenever he bent over my desk at the Crisis Clinic, she growled and the hackles on her neck stood up. The lesson is clear: Pay attention to your dog!Highlighted by 482 Kindle readers
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- Publisher : Pocket Books; Reprint edition (December 30, 2008)
- Language : English
- Mass Market Paperback : 672 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1416559590
- ISBN-13 : 978-1416559597
- Item Weight : 11.9 ounces
- Dimensions : 4.19 x 1.3 x 6.75 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #202,726 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #558 in Serial Killers True Accounts
- #757 in Crime & Criminal Biographies
- #1,008 in Murder & Mayhem True Accounts
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About the author

Ann Rule is regarded by many as the foremost true crime writer in America, and the author responsible for the genre as it exists today. She came to her career with a solid background in law enforcement and the criminal justice system.
As a child, Ann spent her summer vacations with her grandparents in Stanton, Michigan, helping her grandmother prepare meals for the prisoners in the jail. She wondered why such friendly, normal appearing, men were locked behind bars, and why the sweet woman in the cell upstairs (who taught Ann to crochet) was about to go on trial for murder. That was the beginning of her lifelong curiosity about the "Whys" behind criminal behavior.
Following in the footsteps of her grandfather, a sheriff in Michigan, Ann joined the Seattle Police Department when she was 21, worked a year and a half, but couldn’t pass the eye test. After five years of rejection slips, she finally sold her first article for $35! Soon, she found her niche when she began writing for fact-detective magazines like TRUE DETECTIVE.
Ann was a full-time true crime writer from 1969 - 2015. Over the past 30 years, she has published 33 books and 1400 articles, mostly on criminal cases. Ann has a BA from the University of Washington in Creative Writing, with minors in Psychology, Criminology and Penology. She has completed courses in Crime Scene Investigation, Police Administration, Crime Scene Photography and Arrest, Search, and Seizure, earning her an Associates Degree from Highline Community College.
Ann not only attended several police seminars on organized crime, arson, bomb search, and DNA, but taught her own seminars to law enforcement groups, and was a certified instructor in many states on subjects such as: Serial Murder, Sadistic Sociopaths, Women Who Kill, and High Profile Offenders. She was a member of the U.S. Justice Department Task Force that set up the Violent Criminal Apprehension Program (VI-CAP), and testified twice before Senate Judiciary Sub-committees on victims' rights and on the danger of serial killers.
Ann's books deal with three areas: the victims' stories; the detectives and prosecutors and how they solve their cases with old fashioned police work and modern forensic science; and the killers’ lives. Ann spent months researching for her books, investigating the killers' early childhood, and even back into their family histories to find some of the genesis of their behavior.
Eight of Ann's books have been made into TV movies, and five more are in the works. She won the coveted Peabody Award for the miniseries based on her book,Small Sacrifices, and has two Anthony Awards from Bouchercon, the mystery fans' organization. She has been nominated three times for Edgar Awards from the Mystery Writers of America. She was also awarded the Washington State Governor's Award. Ann is active in support groups for victims of violent crimes and their families, in programs to help battered and abused women, and support groups for children caught in traumatic living situations.
Ann Rule passed away in July of 2015.
From Ann Rule:
“My first book, THE STRANGER BESIDE ME, was about Ted Bundy, but, amazingly, I had the book contract to write about an unknown killer six months before Bundy was identified as the "Ted Killer." And I had known him all along, and didn't realize it; he was my partner in the all-night shift at Seattle's Crisis Clinic!”
“To choose a book subject, I weed through about 3,000 suggestions from readers. I'm looking for an "anti-hero" whose eventual arrest shocks those who knew him (or her): attractive, brilliant, charming, popular, wealthy, talented, and much admired in their communities--but really hiding behind masks.”
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Customers find the book well-written and easy to follow. They appreciate the insightful material and the author's thorough research. The emotional content is described as heartfelt, poignant, and haunting. Many readers describe the book as a great account of Ted Bundy from personal knowledge. However, some feel the story is repetitive and boring.
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Customers find the book easy to read and informative. They describe it as a complete novel that is well-written and recommend it. The author is described as masterful and did an excellent job of capturing the story.
"...Not only does Ann give a personal angle to this story, she also dives into a detailed description of each victim, case, event, detective, etc...." Read more
"...I most highly recommend this extraordinary book. It was originally written in 1980, updated a few times...." Read more
"...Overall - a great read." Read more
"...Ann Rule is a very gifted and talented true crime writer and as a friend of Ted Bundy she is able to actually talk to him and two of his previous..." Read more
Customers find the writing quality of the book good. They say it's a well-written first-hand account of the Ted Bundy murders. The language is crisp and precise, never predictable. Readers appreciate the author's honest and straightforward narrative in a jargon-free way.
"...Ann give a personal angle to this story, she also dives into a detailed description of each victim, case, event, detective, etc...." Read more
"...but no gruesome ones, and it's a big book, at 551 pages, every word relevant. It's a disturbing book and one that should be read." Read more
"...have written books about Ted Bundy, but thanks to Ann Rule's superb writing skills, experience with serial killer cases and genuine insight into the..." Read more
"I love how the author describes the situations, easy to follow along and makes everything really interesting!" Read more
Customers find the book insightful and well-researched. They appreciate the author's knowledge and experience in covering the case. The book provides an interesting perspective and a powerful study of the human psyche. Readers also mention that the book provides updates and new facts.
"...It was so interesting to read about the infamous Bundy through the eyes of someone who knew him as a friend...." Read more
"...qualified when it came to criminals, and I very much appreciated how honest and humble she was at admitting that she, like so many others, had been..." Read more
"...skills, experience with serial killer cases and genuine insight into the criminal mind The Stranger Beside Me is definitely among the best of all of..." Read more
"...I think she was incredibly honest in her eventual evaluation of ‘what’ he was, the consummate manipulator until the very end, and quite frankly the..." Read more
Customers find the book heartfelt and emotional, with empathy for the victims and their families. The author's voice is poignant and haunting as she describes them. They appreciate the good balance of honoring the victims while detailing the crimes. Readers describe the story as fascinating, remorseful, and tragic.
"...With a clinical eye, she describes the crimes, but she shows much compassion for the victims...." Read more
"...The story is blunt, bleak, and makes no effort to explain the crimes...." Read more
"...find that the author tended, occasionally, to be repetitive and overly introspective...." Read more
"...I feel she did a good job at honoring the victims while also trying to explain her complicated emotions to what had seemed like a good friend...." Read more
Customers find the book about Ted Bundy insightful and personal. It provides a detailed look at the serial killer's life from childhood to his crimes. Readers appreciate the author's honest and frank portrayal of Ted. The book is based on true accounts and details from the author's own relationship with Ted.
"...The book is based on true accounts of Ted Bundy, and details from early childhood to his demise." Read more
"I am really enjoying this book about Ted Bundy...." Read more
"This is by far the best book ever written about Ted Bundy. I don't just mean about his crimes I mean about his character...." Read more
"This is the major book on Ted Bundy by a top true crime author who actually knew Bundy personally...." Read more
Customers have mixed reactions about the book. Some find it chilling and gripping, with rich details about Ted Bundy's activities and horrific crimes. Others find the descriptions graphic and disturbing.
"...There are pictures but no gruesome ones, and it's a big book, at 551 pages, every word relevant. It's a disturbing book and one that should be read." Read more
"...Bundy, but thanks to Ann Rule's superb writing skills, experience with serial killer cases and genuine insight into the criminal mind The Stranger..." Read more
"...This is a haunting and extraordinarily disturbing book - often difficult to read. Yet, I also found it difficult to put down...." Read more
"...This is a story of a madman. But it is also the story of a friendship strong enough to make the deeds of this serial killer unfathomable to someone..." Read more
Customers have different views on the pacing of the book. Some find it fast-paced and insightful, with vivid portraits of the characters. Others feel the first half drags on and the ending seems excessively long.
"...book was an interesting and riveting read, although it tended to go on forever toward the end...." Read more
"...THE STRANGER BESIDE ME is very, very well written, well structured, fast paced, and flows smoothly...." Read more
"...The first half of the book is slow because it mostly deals with Ann’s background with Bundy and what she knew of his life as it intersected with her..." Read more
"...the various investigations (she doesn't dwell on lurid details), and draws fast, vivid portraits of the women Bundy killed and does a powerful job..." Read more
Customers find the story repetitive and boring. They feel the multiple updates to the story are not well integrated, making it tiresome and lackluster. The story is also described as dark and dreary.
"...I did find that the author tended, occasionally, to be repetitive and overly introspective...." Read more
"...and while I appreciate the fact it was read by the author, the story itself was 'Meh at best...." Read more
"...This is a dreadful story and some things are difficult to read. I learned a LOT from this book...." Read more
"...For such a famous case, the book was quite lackluster, and did not hold my attention...." Read more
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- Reviewed in the United States on January 7, 2025This book was phenomenal. I felt every emotion that Ann had through each page of the book. It was so interesting to read about the infamous Bundy through the eyes of someone who knew him as a friend. Not only does Ann give a personal angle to this story, she also dives into a detailed description of each victim, case, event, detective, etc. that occurred in relation to Bundy. I can’t imagine any book about him coming close to this one. With letters from Bundy, photographs, etc., this book absolutely blew me away. Highly recommend!
- Reviewed in the United States on August 15, 2019True crime stories are not my usual fare; I had read precisely one before this book. But THE STRANGER BESIDE ME was on sale, and while I had heard of Ted Bundy - who hasn't! - I realised I knew nothing beyond the fact that he was a notorious serial killer. It was an opportunity I couldn't afford to miss. I had also read many good things about Ann Rule, which turn out to be all true: THE STRANGER BESIDE ME is an amazing book.
What makes this book extraordinary is that Ann Rule knew Bundy personally before he was accused of any crime. Starting in 1971, for three years, they manned the phones at the Seattle Crisis Clinic, where they took calls from depressed people. The Ted Bundy Ann Rule knew then was a nice man, whom she considered a friend, and she was stunned when she heard about the crimes, and there was a Ted Bundy she knew nothing about. I find it admirable how Ms. Rule managed to remain objective; it must have been extremely difficult to do. Leave your prejudices at the door; Ms. Rule was competent and qualified when it came to criminals, and I very much appreciated how honest and humble she was at admitting that she, like so many others, had been duped by a charismatic and consummate psychopath. And this makes for an exceptionally compelling read.
Ms. Rule writes clearly, reports the facts without embellishing or judging. She also interviewed and interacted with countless people involved in the Ted Bundy investigation; she was also qualified to evaluate the case. THE STRANGER BESIDE ME is very, very well written, well structured, fast paced, and flows smoothly. I love how she could report those facts, relate the gory details without being sensationalistic, but not dispassionately. With a clinical eye, she describes the crimes, but she shows much compassion for the victims. The crimes are horrifying, but what I felt was not disgust but sadness and grief for those innocent women. At one point, I almost cried.
With her insight and knowledge, we get an insider's look at how psychopaths operate, how they can so thoroughly fool people, even those close to them. Ted Bundy was handsome, incredibly cunning and "lucky" beyond belief, and also horribly perverted. Why women flocked to him even after he was accused of all those terrible crimes, after he admitted to the murders and worse, completely baffles me. What's most interesting is that Ann Rule had agreed to write the book about "the Ted killings" before he was caught, before she knew that the Ted she had worked and the sadistic serial killer were one and the same. And she does share how difficult it was.
I most highly recommend this extraordinary book. It was originally written in 1980, updated a few times. There are pictures but no gruesome ones, and it's a big book, at 551 pages, every word relevant. It's a disturbing book and one that should be read.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 28, 2010This is one of those instances where truth is definately stranger than fiction, imagine you write true crime stories and then as a effort to produce a novel rather than stories, you choose a current event whereby someone was brutally attacking young women leaving them for dead, then you get the suspicion that a man you were alone with at the dead of night (in a crisis centre) whom you shared your problems with could be this...'monster', and then you are proven right - it is him. To the best of my knowledge - even Hollywood didnt come up with this storyline.
Reading an account of Ted Bundy's story (just after he was executed) was what actually what got me into reading true crime and watching similar type films. Here Ann tells of having worked beside the man and her impression of him is the absolute opposite that the media portrayed (Media - he was brutal, angry man, Ann- he was a shy, respectful person that listened - At times you think hell is she talking about the same man they executed for these indiscribable crimes against young women?) She tells of how they met, listened and helped each other with problems, there is even a possibility that had circumstances been different she might have been instrumental in at least getting him to stop, possibly even avoid going down the road he went - that's f you can believe that a bad person wont be bad if he/she gets the help/support they need at the right time - who knows?
For me this was a very difficult read. I think partly because I made the mistake of first reading the update she recently put in and the women that were attacked - those that survived are up in their 50+'s now - were on average the same age as I am. At times the book is also a bit heavy like when where A.R. considers mentality, and factors that might have affected Bundy to do what he did (and at times she takes pains to explain as well - thats why the 4 stars).
Overall - a great read.
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Skitty PrincessReviewed in the United Kingdom on June 20, 20245.0 out of 5 stars A Masterpiece of True Crime Writing
As I usually read about British true crime cases, I'd not read anything by Ann Rule before. However, after reading this wonderful book I understand why she is still renowned as a maestro of the genre almost a decade after she sadly passed away. Despite the appalling subject matter - which is dealt with sensitively - the writing is deeply humane, compassionate and insightful. I highly recommend anyone with an interest in the Ted Bundy case, or indeed true crime in general, to read this book. I will certainly now be reading more of Ann's books.
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Regina DeckerReviewed in France on April 15, 20225.0 out of 5 stars Super
Livraison rapide. Cela faisait longtemps que je voulais lire ce livre. Je l’ai dévoré en plusieurs soirs ;)
Teresa RoperReviewed in Canada on March 14, 20205.0 out of 5 stars Harsh
A hard book to read, when you remember being in college when many of these girls were killed, I remember hearing about him, seeing the trial in the news. But this is the first book I have read by a person who knew him “ before “
I feel for the author, I cannot imagine having known that man.
A good, honest informative, non theatrical book.
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Ana Carolina de Aguiar MoreiraReviewed in Brazil on February 15, 20195.0 out of 5 stars Ann Rule te prende da primeira à última página
A história é fascinante e o texto de Ann Rule irrepreensível! Fãs de histórias de crimes reais não conseguirão deixar o livro por nem um dia até finalizá-lo. A leitura é muito fluída e não te entedia nem por um minuto! Altamente recomendado.
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AlejandroReviewed in Mexico on July 20, 20175.0 out of 5 stars THE book on the bundy murders
Amazing and deeply personal book of the bundy murders, youre not finishing this thinking the world's a better place but it's an amazing book, not for weak hearts or minds. Definitely not for under 15 and even i would say under 18.