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- Listening Length: 7 hours and 2 minutes
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- Version: Unabridged
- Publisher: Peerless Publishing
- Audible.com Release Date: August 5, 2014
- Whispersync for Voice: Ready
- Language: English
- ASIN: B00MFXL4W8
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The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible Audible Audiobook – Unabridged
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I have learned how to distinguish the good guys from the so so and the ones to be avoided and how to beckon them. I have learned how to get dates and start relationships.
However more important than any of that is that I have learned how to feel fulfilled and happy both in and out of relationships. I now feel that while I would like a special excellent male with whom to share that fulfillment I'm going to be happy and fulfilled regardless of any outcomes! I'm personally grateful to have read this book. I also work as a therapist and now frequently refer my clients to this book. I wish there were more stars I could give it!
One aspect of this book that I really loved was the thought that I shouldn't ask for something because it affirms that it is missing in my life. Replace desire with gratitude. Instead of focusing on the fact that I don't have a good man, car, etc...I am thankful for what I have and I seek to serve others. The world, in turn will seek to serve me. I am a server and I have been practicing this when I get bad tips. I am grateful that I have more money than I did when I came in, and I am continuously repeating to myself that I am grateful for the abundance in my life. It makes the bad tippers not matter as much and the good tips reaffirm the abundance. I have been making a lot more money recently! I also have been practicing the embodiment of characteristics of femininity. I mostly focus on feeling radiant and everyone I work with has been saying that I have a glow about me that wasn't there before! It's amazing.
I really liked the idea that pain is wishing the world is different than it is. Now I understand the Buddhist thought that desire leads to suffering. Focusing on the positive brings more of it your way, if you focus on negativity, you will get negativity. "When you have gratitude for something, you are accepting its presence into your life and affirming it to the world. In return, the world will do the same and manifest the object in your life."
So now, I am thankful for all of the witty, creative, handsome amazing men in my life!
You will also learn 5 behaviors that send men running, as well as ways to keep them around. One of my favorite thoughts from the book- "Women control the depth of the relationship, men control the direction." Stop directing ladies! Let men be men! You be a lady! Enjoy your wonderful sensual self and others will follow.