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Top Customer Reviews
I really enjoyed reading this book and have already loaned it to my daughter. Annie makes me feel as if we are having a good conversation and swapping stories about how to help strengthen families and give parents tools.
Parents frequently tell me that they need to words to say in family situations. If parents were not parented how can they know what is "normal ages and stages" and what needs to be addressed with a firm voice?
Her writing paints a picture in my mind and I found myself smiling as I read. Wanted to shout "Yep, been there and done that and lived to laugh about it."
You will enjoy the various ways she gets the message of respectful communication across to parents, teachers and other caring adults.
Judy Helm Wright, author, speaker and Global Director of the Solutions for Families Program for the WIN.
Just one of my favourite quotes ... "Not even the hottest hate gives us a free pass to hurt anyone. That's why teaching kids to be good people, involves helping them to understand emotions so they can learn to diffuse their own incendiary devices before losing control and hurting someone."
"Pretending that what's going on around us is OK when it isn't, rarely leads to good choices. Neither does keeping our goodness locked inside because we're worried that our kindness will be mocked." (83 percent admitted that "sometimes, always, or almost always" they pretend things are OK when they aren't.) And the script Annie provides to tell your child about faking it is priceless.
The broken windows theory made so much sense. I found myself lost in her stories but always coming out at the end with incredible learning, especially the story about tossing your candy wrapper on the floor.
The Family Climate Questionnaire is currently printing and will be the focus of our next family meeting.
Loved her take on US vs. THEM. There is only US. Imagine if every parent read this book?
It's familiar for me to give commands to kids, yet I would bristle if kids spoke to me in the same manner. "Please wash the dishes." is just as easy as a command.
The idea of a family meeting where a parent really listens is not a new concept to me, yet I tend to jump in to problem solve when listening actively would accomplish the goal. This book gave me a path and left me feeling as if I could be a better parent and in doing that, show the kids in my life how to be better people.
Ann's underlying premise is: Not all teachers are parents, but all parents are teachers! I couldn't agree more, and I would add that: All parents are their kids BEST teachers. Unfortunately not all parents believe that, but they will when they finish this little, easy to read, book.
I liked what she had to say about peer pressure by calling it "peer approval". We all seek approval from our peers, and many times we do "what's needed" to get that approval. That's OK, Ann says as long as it is the right thing, the thing we want to do, or is of neutral moral or social value. In my new book, for release this fall, "Tools for Effective Parenting", I call peer pressure - peer permission, which is in line with her thinking. Effective parenting, (the act, not my book) Ann says is "parenting which helps kids develop a code of ethics." And that code, must include integrity!
She has a great approach to bullying and "the village" parent concept. Bullying includes hard things like "online" and even "Credit card buying". Read it you'll love it, and it will help you as well as your children!
Two other things I really like: If you need something from your kids, or anyone, don't ask, TELL. I have heard so many parents ask their kids if they "Want to go home, or want to go to bed, or eat their dinner, or want to go to the rest room." Kids always say "No" and the parents feel frustrated. Her advice and mine: TELL them, "It's time to go home, to go to bed, or the bathroom." And "You need to do your home work, now!"
I like her "Butt in Campaign"!Read more ›
Most Recent Customer Reviews
This book has all the maximum possible challenges a parent of a teenager faces and I am very much impressed by the solutions Annie has provided.Published 21 months ago by Jessy
This is a MUST MUST read for ANY parent!!
The author does a terrific job with this book! It's like she is sitting in the room with you and talking! Read more
I hate to give this only 1 star because it is not a reflection of the book at all. I hate that Amazon does not always make it obvious that you are purchasing a digital form of... Read morePublished on April 16, 2014 by S.M. Dishman
This book guides us through the various scenarios a parent may face in dealing with their kids. How to make them loving , caring and compassionate is the key element on this bookPublished on March 18, 2014 by Anuj
Very, very helpful! It gave me a little insight and a boost into the mind of my little one! I needed it!Published on February 2, 2014 by T. Roberts
This book is a great tool for that.
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Great ideas in this one that should be things that all parents work on with their children. Not hard to read and understand, but definitely will take serious effort to put into... Read morePublished on November 22, 2013 by scmk
I feel like this was a collection of individual thoughts/stories that don't go together. It's a bit too preachy for me and it didn't seem like the author has children (real life... Read morePublished on September 8, 2013 by avid reader
I'd like to order this book based on the reviews but the reviewers seem like they are writing ads and if you check the other reviews they wrote, they are mostly 5 star glowing... Read morePublished on May 25, 2013 by Doug Liser